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koods
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Who keep those kinds of statistics
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OutsideOfMyMind
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: koods]
#27022512 - 11/05/20 01:34 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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koods said: Who keep those kinds of statistics
Tinder and other app and online "dating" or hookup platforms. I know PornHub keeps statistics on what different demographics people search for. They have statistics showing millennials are not as interested in breasts as generation x and baby boomers. The millennials that do like tits tend to search for fake tits whereas the older generations usually watch videos with natural big tits.
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koraks
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OutsideOfMyMind said: According to statistics, all of the top best looking bachelors are getting laid with a different person nearly every single day of the week. A lot of them are even having multiple hookups in one day.
Riiight. No.
Don't be silly.
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Jokeshopbeard
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OutsideOfMyMind said: So many people have so many STDs and STIs now. Everyone has sex with everyone now because it's so easy to get laid online more than ever. According to statistics, all of the top best looking bachelors are getting laid with a different person nearly every single day of the week. A lot of them are even having multiple hookups in one day. People nowadays have no pride in themselves. It's no wonder so many people are depressed nowadays and have self-esteem issues.
This is same kind of rhetoric I see from many who seem to have 0 success at getting laid. It normally goes something like this:
1. Women are all dripping in STD's 2. All women lie and cheat 3. There's some kind of special breed of uber-jocks who get all the women they want and there's nothing left for anyone else 4. Being a nice person means women will walk all over you 5. All women get fat the moment you settle down with them 6. Etc, Etc
Please don't go any further down that path OOMM, it's ridiculous.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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OutsideOfMyMind
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Jokeshopbeard said:
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OutsideOfMyMind said: So many people have so many STDs and STIs now. Everyone has sex with everyone now because it's so easy to get laid online more than ever. According to statistics, all of the top best looking bachelors are getting laid with a different person nearly every single day of the week. A lot of them are even having multiple hookups in one day. People nowadays have no pride in themselves. It's no wonder so many people are depressed nowadays and have self-esteem issues.
This is same kind of rhetoric I see from many who seem to have 0 success at getting laid. It normally goes something like this:
1. Women are all dripping in STD's 2. All women lie and cheat 3. There's some kind of special breed of uber-jocks who get all the women they want and there's nothing left for anyone else 4. Being a nice person means women will walk all over you 5. All women get fat the moment you settle down with them 6. Etc, Etc
Please don't go any further down that path OOMM, it's ridiculous.
I actually was not going to get any further at all. But it looks like you got ahead of me.
Actually when it comes to tinder, only the most attractive people are finding hookups because the apps have become saturated with only good looking people. These apps have been around for a long time now so only the most successful users have continued using it. Average and below average people have stopped using those apps. Tinder and online hookup apps are basically playgrounds for std's.
Edited by OutsideOfMyMind (11/07/20 02:15 AM)
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bodhisatta 
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That's simply not true at all lol. Ive got gnar dudes in the shipping department that successful use tinder.
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: bodhisatta]
#27027310 - 11/07/20 05:46 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Bro there is more than one version of "attractive." Sure its normally distributed but you're living in a heterogenous population so everyone is an outlier
Anecdote: I was asked to be the third party on a tinder threesome last week. All I did was swipe left and a bombshell foreigner and her boyfriend invited me to explore their sexuality. Was really fun-- you just have to be straight up and avoid hiding your true sexual self
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Jokeshopbeard
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OutsideOfMyMind said: Actually when it comes to tinder, only the most attractive people are finding hookups because the apps have become saturated with only good looking people. These apps have been around for a long time now so only the most successful users have continued using it. Average and below average people have stopped using those apps. Tinder and online hookup apps are basically playgrounds for std's.
What absoluute and utter nonsense. Nothing could be further from the truth.
You've fallen for #3 on my list it seems..
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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OutsideOfMyMind
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Jokeshopbeard said:
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OutsideOfMyMind said: Actually when it comes to tinder, only the most attractive people are finding hookups because the apps have become saturated with only good looking people. These apps have been around for a long time now so only the most successful users have continued using it. Average and below average people have stopped using those apps. Tinder and online hookup apps are basically playgrounds for std's.
What absoluute and utter nonsense. Nothing could be further from the truth.
You've fallen for #3 on my list it seems..
To be honest I got my information from a vice episode so I wouldn't really be surprised if it is completely wrong.
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Jokeshopbeard
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LOL, don't you think it kinda... dumb.. to listen to a media source and then parrot it like it's gospel without having at least checked in some way if it's even remotely valid?
This world would be a lot less confusing if everybody who does that stopped doing it. I know many that do just that; and that's right what 'they' want us to do.
I used Tinder on and off for a couple of years so I can tell you from first hand experience that if is absolutely nothing like you've been told it is.
Oh and just to add; I was very successful in my time on Tinder (and I'm average looking BTW) and tests confirm not one STD.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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OutsideOfMyMind
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I'm sure it doesn't apply to every single person who uses tinder.
I guess my sources are a little biased.
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Jokeshopbeard
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But the way you said it; with such certainty, even though you had no firsthand experience...
Imagine you say that to a youngster that doesn't know any better and doesn't question it; they take it on board, their confidence gets knocked, and perhaps then they don't even try to use it and so miss out on some amazing experiences and confidence boosts, all because you read an untruthful source and repeated it like it was truth.
Do you not see how it is inherently harmful for you to do that?
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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OutsideOfMyMind
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Well I have used grindr which I have not used in at least a few years. I was never into that sort of stuff so I just stopped using it.
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: Bph]
#27084829 - 12/11/20 11:15 PM (3 years, 1 month ago) |
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A group encounter "can" only enhance what you already have. If it's bad it will go all wrong. If you have a healthy trusting relationship and have good communication with your partner it can enhance and empower your relationship. That is only through the act of sharing selflessly. Set boundaries ahead of time and do not ever cross those boundaries. If you handle things in a respectful and fair way you may have many opportunities to explore and reset boundaries.
My advice is talk to your partner. Especially talk to your partner about fear of jealousy. Also leave alcohol completely out of the situation. If you need it for something like that you'll potentially end up with regret and puking isn't sexy. Trust me, you want to remember encounters like that.
Good luck and follow your heart always.
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Freedom is not the right to do as you please, but the liberty to do as you should. ~Emerson
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