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Bph
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To group sex or not....
#26922542 - 09/07/20 07:31 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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So long story short my girlfreind and I were set to be married this month. It got called off cause who wants to be married during all this bullshit? It put a serious strain on our relationship for the last month to say the least. We are pretty wild in the bedroom and often talk about having sex with other couples or whatever but its just that. Talk. Then last night she invited her lesbian "freinds" out for drinks. They were a cute couple just a little young. I'm 36 my fiance is 30. The girls were 24 and 26. After some drinks we were all having a good time so I invited them over to smoke. They both moved here from San Francisco last month and hadn't found smoke yet so they were happy to. After that shit started to get wild. One of them had too many drinks and the weed just put her to sleep so we wound up calling a cab for them but when they were gone my lady says I would have let you fuck both of them.... I didnt say shit to that but in my head I was about to explode with excitement. Now I'm sure if I put any effort into this it will happen. My delima is.. Is it worth risking my relationship for a night I'll never forget? Cause truth is we are both the jelous type. Someone's gonna get their feelings hurt, no doubt. But the relationship is on the ropes anyway maybe this will make or break it? Anyone out there had group sex and it not ruin the relationship? I mean damn. Having 3 girls is obviously something id love to be a part of but at what cost?
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pablokabute
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: Bph]
#26922573 - 09/07/20 07:54 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Be careful of STIs
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Bph
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Lol. Yeah that too.
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bodhisatta 
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: Bph]
#26922797 - 09/07/20 10:39 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Go for it.
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: bodhisatta]
#26922804 - 09/07/20 10:45 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well absolutely do it...forever is a long time to live with the regret of not doing it.
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: bodhisatta]
#26922807 - 09/07/20 10:49 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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talk sober with your lady about what she is ok with. I had group sex with my fiance and two girls and we both decided only PIV for eachother but everything else was fine. some weird feeling for a few weeks after but good communication is the only way group/swinging stuff will work. good luck
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: Bph]
#26922949 - 09/07/20 12:20 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Unless you're willing to let her get used by some thick salami then I'd say you're not in the right place to be doing such a thing. Especially if you're the jealous types. For all I know she was testing you by saying that.
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“Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world’s foolishness, you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too; laugh at the world’s foolishness or weep over it, you will regret both. Believe a woman, you will regret it; believe her not, you will also regret it… Hang yourself, you will regret it; do not hang yourself, and you will regret that too; hang yourself or don’t hang yourself, you’ll regret it either way; whether you hang yourself or do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen, is the essence of all philosophy.”
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Telling someone they will regret not doing something is shortsighted when the result could very well be he ends up alone. This is called weighing your options. Saying, "You're damned if you do, damned if you don't" is something you say when you don't understand the gravity of a situation. Few things are equal. So, the question isn't "Should I or shouldn't I?" The question is "Can I handle any possible consequences?" Based on what he's said the answer is no.
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That quote is surely open to personal interpretation, which is what matters here-- if he does anything other than what he truly wants, he may very well wonder what he would have done had he not taken another's advice. No matter what man, you'll regret it if you don't do what you truly want and understand that that is what alleviates regret.
OP, do you want to check out of this relationship? From what you write, it seems like it-- calling off a marriage and then considering a 4-some at the perceived detriment of that relationship.
And if that is who you are, why are you hiding yourself from your potential life-long partner?
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: Roflspammer] 2
#26927770 - 09/10/20 07:41 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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“I would have let you fuck them? “
Why would two lesbians want to get fucked by a guy?
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: koods] 2
#26927824 - 09/10/20 08:25 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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That's what I was wondering.
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Based on your narrative, I'ma go out on a limb and say it's probably good you didn't marry her. That being said, go make experiences that you want to have as memories.
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: Bph]
#26932880 - 09/13/20 05:57 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you guys talk about it more and she agrees then so be it.
If it just happens without talking about it some more, then you'll possibly lose her.
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I have a feeling she said she would let you fuck both of them, because she knew both of them are lesbians and wouldn't fuck you.
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Quote:
Bph said: Cause truth is we are both the jelous type. Someone's gonna get their feelings hurt, no doubt. the relationship is on the ropes anyway
You have your answer, my friend. That's a hard and fast no.
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Re: To group sex or not.... [Re: PsilyZee]
#26984589 - 10/14/20 07:06 AM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well. If anyone is interested we didnt go through with it. I let her know I was more than a little atracted to the young Mexican girl and that was the only reason I was even entertaining the idea. The fact is I was already a little upset and distrusting simply because you even brought them into our life. The only thing we all had in common is sex drive. I'm a 40 year old from the Southern sticks they were 24 year olds from Southern California. I lived there for most of my 30s but my wife has never been out of the hills. The most exotic place she has been is dollywood lol. I'm just not comfortable enough to watch my girl be pleasured by another person. No matter how hard the thought makes me the reality will fuck me up in the head. Quote:
PsilyZee said: I have a feeling she said she would let you fuck both of them, because she knew both of them are lesbians and wouldn't fuck you.
Sexuality is a spectrum and girls are often closer to the middle than guys are. Everyone was def trying to fuck eachother but I know myself. Once I cum I come to my senses. Shit I still hold a grudge against a girl in high school that cheated on me. Not that I want too just when I see her in town all I think is "fucking nasty whore" lol. We are cool and I act accordingly but in the back of my mind I cant let it go. I wish I was diffrent but I am who I am. Keeping my faimily together is more important than what I'm sure woukd have been the best sexual experiance if my life.
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Anonymous #2
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Not sure why it posted anonymous LOL doesn't do a lot of good when your first post isn't anonymous
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LogicaL Chaos
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Its never too late to go Anonymous 
OP, sounds like you are the jealous type. In that case, it was a good call not to go thru with the orgy experience. U would probably have PTSD by now
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OutsideOfMyMind
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So many people have so many STDs and STIs now. Everyone has sex with everyone now because it's so easy to get laid online more than ever. According to statistics, all of the top best looking bachelors are getting laid with a different person nearly every single day of the week. A lot of them are even having multiple hookups in one day. People nowadays have no pride in themselves. It's no wonder so many people are depressed nowadays and have self-esteem issues.
Edited by OutsideOfMyMind (11/05/20 12:56 AM)
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