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Kelazam
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I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years 7
#26917601 - 09/04/20 02:51 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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I called my Dad today, well his social worker who then got my Dad to call me back. That was the first time I have spoken to him in over 6 years or maybe 7 I'm not sure. I was so incredibly nervous but it all went well and we are going to see each other in person soon. Before I fly out to his city I have to make plans and make sure everything is in place before I go because I am getting a 1 way ticket. He says we will keep in touch and that he will call once a week and regular facebook messages. This made my day quite a bit better:)
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Kelazam]
#26917608 - 09/04/20 02:54 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Love.
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: The Blind Ass]
#26917609 - 09/04/20 02:55 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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1 way ticket?
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Asante]
#26917650 - 09/04/20 03:28 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Plane ticket
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Kelazam]
#26917717 - 09/04/20 04:04 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Aye, but do you plan to move in with him, because that may not work out as planned!
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Kelazam]
#26917791 - 09/04/20 04:44 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Good to hear, Kelazam.
I hope things work out for ya.
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Asante]
#26917931 - 09/04/20 06:18 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm going to rent a bachelor apartment in the city or a neighboring city. When I first go there I will be staying with him for only the first few days or so
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Kelazam] 1
#26917988 - 09/04/20 06:47 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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777
Don’t ruin your post count!
Though I am curious, if you don’t mind me inquiring. Why the long hiatus?
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Atreyu]
#26918018 - 09/04/20 07:00 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Father/son relationships are so freaking weird. I think a lot of people are angry with their fathers, including myself lol. They have you in their 20's without any world experience so they end up fucking you up.
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Shenmue]
#26918293 - 09/04/20 09:44 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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I haven't spoken a word to my dad in 9 years. Won't attend his funeral. <y levels of disgust at being genetically related to him are very high.
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Ice9]
#26918326 - 09/04/20 10:14 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Thems be some serious daddy issues.
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Ice9] 1
#26918796 - 09/05/20 07:50 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
Ice9 said: I haven't spoken a word to my dad in 9 years. Won't attend his funeral. <y levels of disgust at being genetically related to him are very high.
Even all of my friends and family members have weird relationships with their fathers. I don't think men should have kid's until they're in their mid 30's and have a good job. Having a kid at age 23 with you're making 10-14$ a hour is freaking ridiculous. Just my opinion....
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: budmanman]
#26918797 - 09/05/20 07:51 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well, he divorced my mom when I was 2, never took time to see me. When I went to grad school he got all enthusiastic about calling me every week ( so he could brag to his friends. After grad school I made the effort to keep calling, and even visited him, mind you this was right after my mother passed, only to constantly barraged by snide comments about my mom, as well non-stop talk about his life. He is a classic narcissist and probably a sociopath so I broke off communication and will never re-establish it. My older siblings have ok relationships with my dad, I'm the black sheep.
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Ice9]
#26918817 - 09/05/20 08:15 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah that's fucked up. Just because someone has your genetics doesn't mean you have to have a relationship with them. We was living in pure nothingness until these men fucked our mothers. We didn't feel pain, fear, heartbreak or anything. We didn't ask to be hear so they should have made our childhood as good as possible..
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Shenmue]
#26918874 - 09/05/20 09:00 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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My dad was human garbo but I never just cut him off completely. Towards the end of his life when death was approaching and just around the corner, the last year or 2 he finally stopped being a piece of crap but by then it was too late and he was dead shortly after.
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: budmanman]
#26918969 - 09/05/20 10:04 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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It happens. I also have a line in the sand kinda mentality, more a line in the adamantium and can be quite inflexible about certain (almost always family topics)
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Re: I just called my Dad for the first time in over 6 years [Re: Kelazam]
#26918982 - 09/05/20 10:14 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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I won't ruin your 7 ups by +1ing your 777th post.
But that's really awesome, expect some unresolved healings.
Actually, go in with no expectations. Best Wishes.
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