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Anonymous #1
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Friendship troubles.
#26905908 - 08/29/20 11:58 AM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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My best friend if 8 years has been almost radio silent for awhile now, he says he's just busy but he's still been hanging out with a coworker of mine.
It hurts and i struggle with jealousy and am not sure how to handle this...
Advice would be appreciated
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LogicaL Chaos
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Are you in love with your best friend?
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Anonymous #1
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On a soul level yes, but we are both straight men so i don't have any attraction to him.
I just miss him and feel like ive been replaced.
Its a hard pill to swallow that my best friend, the person ive always looked up to, doesn't want me around.
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Anonymous #2
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Just bother him until he comes over. People are weird. If you care you'll try to not be bothered by the weird and just nag him a bit. There could be a million reasons he's doing that, a large portion of said reasons having absolutely nothing to do with you. Worst case scenario your life doesn't change at all and you find out he's a dick. Best case scenario your life still stays the same but you find out your friends are gay together and you end up being all happy for them and helping them decorate
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bodhisatta 
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If you made a thread about it he probably sensed the neediness in real life too and maybe that's why he's distanced himself?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Friendship troubles. [Re: bodhisatta]
#26907326 - 08/30/20 09:24 AM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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No, he distanced himself for weeks before i became needy about it
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esqueleto
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is there a reason that he suddenly began to distance himself?
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