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Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"...
#26898823 - 08/25/20 01:35 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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So Im currently chatting with a 41 year old woman on a social app that says she was married for a long time and has become recently divorced. I asked her what shes looking for on the app and she said "Honestly? To learn what good sex and an orgasm is..."
I was pretty surprised by her answer. Has she never had good sex before? Is she just really hard to please by chance? A naturally high tolerance? No self-pleasuring to orgasm? It all seems to hard to believe...
Have you ever talk to a woman whos "never" had good sex before?
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#26898877 - 08/25/20 02:09 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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This is how it is for most women LC. When you've been around a bit and had these conversations with many different women you begin to understand how terribly sexually inept most men are.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#26898896 - 08/25/20 02:20 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Indeed. I guess Im starting to realized that...
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#26898910 - 08/25/20 02:30 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just make sure you learn to read the feedback from a woman in the bedroom and talk to her at length about these things out of it and you'll be a league ahead of most men already.
Unlike us simple menfolk, each woman has to be learned sexually; there's no magic technique that will work for all.
Then prepare for the compliments to start flowing.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#26898964 - 08/25/20 03:13 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Right, every woman is unique in their preferences when it comes to sex and passion. Ive definitely learned that and meeting a woman with the same "sexual energy" is a rare and special thing.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#26903459 - 08/28/20 04:05 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's not always about the guy. My wife won't allow anything but the old in-out. But intercourse is not enough to bring her to orgasm. But I accept it because she is awesome and we get along really well.
Damn shame because I give great head, and I love it. Previous girlfriend came every time.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26903468 - 08/28/20 04:20 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Would you break up with your soul-mate because of this? Tough decision. I chose to accept her with all her quirks. At least she is not a Trump supporter.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#26903495 - 08/28/20 05:15 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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My honest opinion is the lady in the OP has had good sex before but she struggles with the idea of being older and getting in to dating. She probably just wants to feel desirable still but also set a standard for what she hopes to get out of the whole thing. Maybe she's telling the truth. But honestly it's more likely that she feels less desirable being a 41 year old woman than it is that she's never had a solid O before.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Anonymous #2] 1
#26905376 - 08/29/20 01:55 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Interesting outside of the box thinking there.
The only reason women get slut shamed is because they can get laid pretty much anytime they want.
Most guys cant.
An 86 yr old woman could go to the bar and go home with some dick.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Buckomcdoogle] 4
#26905431 - 08/29/20 03:48 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Good sex says to me I'm looking for someone attentive who's going to want to fulfill my needs in an unselfish way. I can't just put everyone in a box but at the same time telling some dude you just started talking to that you've never had an orgasm just seems like the mature version of "I'm so wet rn." She wants him to want to think about having sex with her because that's how fembots do.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#26913401 - 09/02/20 09:02 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Pretty common, thanks to those damn Jews taking my foreskin I last an incredibly long time usually bring em to multiple organs before I crack. Mostly just dudes don't know how to dick em down right
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shroomhunts] 3
#26914877 - 09/03/20 03:05 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Feel surprisingly weird interjecting as a woman but I definitely think there's an orgasm gap. Jokeshop is 100000% right, in my experience, a lot of men are too lazy to bother with the amount of time and communication needed for us to have a good orgasm. There's like 50 techniques and all women are into different motions, amounts of pressure, speeds, clitoral vs. gspot vs. some other spot and those combinations... it's a lot of work for someone else to learn our bodies. Only been somewhat recently that I learned to communicate what I needed to orgasm, and even now I can only get off with a partner when toys are used. Some of us are just like that I suppose!
Got a lot of fakers out there too - sometimes it's easier to fake an orgasm than to tell your partner (especially those one night stands) that you're not really into it anymore without harming their ego
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: esqueleto]
#26914978 - 09/03/20 05:37 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just keep fucking her till she squirts and pushes you away. Not so much a technique thing as it is a stamina thing. Definitely got to warm up the oven, use your fingers, and your mouth if she clean. I'd recommend watching some porn for education, imo it is a lot faster to make her cum with your fingers or mouth, penetration works, it just takes more time. Toys are fun way to spice things up but you shouldn't depend on it to make you cum, something not right if that's the only way you can get off. If you are a man and cant last very long try drinking some booze beforehand. I'm essentially unbreakable while drunk, legit just fuck her for hours on end. Worth a try maybe you will have similar experience.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shroomhunts] 2
#26915853 - 09/03/20 03:30 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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I happen to think a woman is just fine if she needs a toy to get off. And, drunk sex is just meh. I prefer to be present. Different strokes i guess.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: pslyke]
#26916704 - 09/04/20 02:11 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Honestly...…. a cock ring really does work wonders..
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Buckomcdoogle]
#26917976 - 09/04/20 06:43 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Funny I'm wearing one rn
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: esqueleto]
#26918522 - 09/05/20 01:25 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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esqueleto said: in my experience, a lot of men are too lazy to bother with the amount of time and communication needed for us to have a good orgasm.
Well, yes, certainly. A second problem is that many men are stuck at the paradigm of penetration as the pinnacle of sex. Plenty of evidence in this thread. Of the thousands of exciting/interesting things to do, penetration is just a single one, and while it's certainly fun, most of the fun (both for myself and my female partners) has invariably been in all the other stuff.
The main problem is that by and large, men are just remarkably unimaginative.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: koraks] 1
#26918675 - 09/05/20 05:54 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Men are not judged as young adults for exploring, banging, and doing whatever the fuck they want with their dick.
BUT LORD FORBID A WOMAN DO IT TOOOOOO OMFGGGGGGGG.
Her age is like right on the cusp of the true sexual revolution that these millennial and burning man do so I'm not surprised.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Jewstress]
#26920954 - 09/06/20 10:53 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Some women do just have a harder time, my wife and I were fucking this chick last night and neither of us could make her cum, after about an hr I decided to nut and call it a night. You think making one girl nut is a pain try 2 it can test your patience. I hate the feeling of finishing before my partner it makes me feel inadequate and ruins the whole experience for me.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 3
#26921526 - 09/06/20 04:25 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's really really common. In part because many women need specific (clitoral) stimulation to orgasm and because most of the demonstrative forms of education material (porn and movies) only really give you an idea of how to sex and many cater to male pleasure.
I cringe at alot of the stuff in lesbian porn so that's no exception.
Basically when you are only just coming out of a sociological hole that taught people that women should not or could not experience physical pleasure during sex that lasted hundreds if not thousands of years it shouldn't surprise anyone that there's still some confusion on how that works.
Really. It's really common for women to not know how to orgasm or to think they're unable to orgasm. So much of it is a mental thing but their partners not knowing the know doesn't help.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: CookieCrumbs] 2
#26921536 - 09/06/20 04:29 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Fwiw if I kept trying to sleep with dudes I probably would have never had "good sex" either.
I mean even if I were attracted to dudes.
Most of them just go with what sounds hot. Lol
And they can't totally be blamed for that. How's one to know what feels good if the opposite sex never openly communicated?
Though again alot of dudes don't make that easy because they tie up their ego with satisfying a woman.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shroomhunts] 1
#26921586 - 09/06/20 05:04 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shroomhunts said: Not so much a technique thing as it is a stamina thing. I'd recommend watching some porn for education, imo it is a lot faster to make her cum with your fingers or mouth, penetration works, it just takes more time. legit just fuck her for hours on end. Worth a try maybe you will have similar experience.
This is horrible advice. It's ALL about technique and porn sex/pounding for hours isn't what a woman wants
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: esqueleto]
#26921593 - 09/06/20 05:08 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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esqueleto said: Feel surprisingly weird interjecting as a woman
I feel so much the opposite of this. Jesus I am grateful beyond words that you and cookie have given your thoughts and feelings on this subject. Image what an echo chamber this would've turned into without some female imput?
It makes me LOL hard at the very thought of it, going by some of the posts above...
Thank you.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Jokeshopbeard] 1
#26922058 - 09/06/20 09:34 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have heard the more comfortable a woman is with a man the easier it is.
True or false?
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Buckomcdoogle]
#26922605 - 09/07/20 08:18 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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I don't think its comfort as much as general sexual attraction. If a girl is really attracted to you and you make her really horny it is definitely easier for her to reach orgasm. Think about it from the Male perspective, if you are with a chick and you are really attracted to her, it is going to be harder for you to hold back that nut while you fucking her.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Buckomcdoogle]
#26922832 - 09/07/20 11:10 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Buckomcdoogle said: I have heard the more comfortable a woman is with a man the easier it is.
Absolutely. Emotional comfort is a huge (and so often overlooked) aspect in a woman being able to let go into a "good" sexual experience.
If she's thinking rapid fire about what you think of her, then an orgasm aint gonna come easy.
Gotta remember how judged women get on looks.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#26922848 - 09/07/20 11:21 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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LogicaL Chaos said: So Im currently chatting with a 41 year old woman on a social app that says she was married for a long time and has become recently divorced. I asked her what shes looking for on the app and she said "Honestly? To learn what good sex and an orgasm is..."
I was pretty surprised by her answer. Has she never had good sex before? Is she just really hard to please by chance? A naturally high tolerance? No self-pleasuring to orgasm? It all seems to hard to believe...
Have you ever talk to a woman whos "never" had good sex before?
Most women complain about the sex their getting behind closed doors lol. I have a sister and was raised around women so I know this as a fact. Most women don't get an orgasm during normal sex.
It kind of makes sense when you think about it. Men have to orgasm to produce children but women don't. I think nature designed it so men get off easier. With women it's mostly mind games before sex that gets them worked up. It's hard to explain..
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shenmue] 3
#26923256 - 09/07/20 03:05 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Female orgasm increases the chances of conception. Especially if your swimmers aren't in an ideal spot.
To quote some random science person contractions during female orgasm "act as a floom ride for sperm." Which paints quite a picture.
And not being comfortable is the primary psychological reason for women not being able to orgasm. It's not strictly being comfortable with the dude it's also her being comfortable with herself.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: CookieCrumbs] 2
#26923299 - 09/07/20 03:52 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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CookieCrumbs, u nailed it! 
Thats definitely it right there, if a woman feels comfortable and relaxed, then they can have an orgasm. If not, shes not gonna have one (for the most part). Imagine being in a decades-old relationship where they never had one ever. It boggles the mind. But I guess it does rarely happen.
The comfort thing really extends to pre-sex itself, if the woman is not feeling comfortable with a guy, she really isnt show any subtle sexual cues that she wants to have sex.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#26923309 - 09/07/20 03:58 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Your girlfriends are lying to you ... She's just pretending and when you leave the house she gets herself off with her vibration unit ..
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shenmue]
#26923318 - 09/07/20 04:02 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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I seen an ABC article that said about 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone -- that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances. If you Google it most of the study's say similar things. Who knows though..
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shenmue]
#26923325 - 09/07/20 04:05 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds about right in my opinion.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#26923857 - 09/07/20 09:21 PM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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IME, communication is key, and makes for the best sex. It might feel awkward, but talking to your partner about what you're both hoping to get out of a sexual experience goes a long way.
Side note: the only reason it might feel awkward to talk about it is because our society (I'm just assuming you live in the USA here) suppresses sex in really weird ways. In particular, the female orgasm (and just female sexual pleasure as a whole) is suppressed. Nothing will land an American film with an NC-17 rating faster than a woman having an orgasm. It feels awkward to talk about it because you're not "supposed" to talk about it.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Nonagon Infinity]
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You really cannot argue, men and and women are different. Period.
Its an interesting comparison imo.
IME from a mans perspective, one of the most important things in lasting long is staying relaxed.
Maybe men and women are opposites in that way for biological reasons?
An orgasm is a release of pressure, the more tensed up you are the more likely it is you will bust early.
Deep relaxed breathing is extremely important.
Human sexuality is complex, there are always certainly exceptions to the rules...
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Buckomcdoogle]
#26924189 - 09/08/20 06:38 AM (3 years, 4 months ago) |
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Being distracted helps, not disconnected from the experience but just focusing your mind on other things. Try smoking a cigarette or joint. Watching some tv while you hit it from the back can help. You will see your stamina go to god their. Usually can tell when she is faking it, can't fake that squirt tho. Just keep at it and communicate positions so you can keep her satisfied the whole time. Having a fat cock helps too.
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It makes me hard at the very thought of it
Bit inappropriate JSB
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Tripsurfer said: Bit inappropriate JSB 
Huh.. when did I say that?!?!
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Shroomhunts said: Try smoking a cigarette
Man you have given some absolutely terrible advice in this thread.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shenmue]
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LogicaL Chaos said: So Im currently chatting with a 41 year old woman on a social app that says she was married for a long time and has become recently divorced. I asked her what shes looking for on the app and she said "Honestly? To learn what good sex and an orgasm is..."
I was pretty surprised by her answer. Has she never had good sex before? Is she just really hard to please by chance? A naturally high tolerance? No self-pleasuring to orgasm? It all seems to hard to believe...
Have you ever talk to a woman whos "never" had good sex before?
Most women complain about the sex their getting behind closed doors lol. I have a sister and was raised around women so I know this as a fact. Most women don't get an orgasm during normal sex.
It kind of makes sense when you think about it. Men have to orgasm to produce children but women don't. I think nature designed it so men get off easier. With women it's mostly mind games before sex that gets them worked up. It's hard to explain..
I was thinking about this last night (I dunno why) but the "floom ride" doesn't really work for its reproductive purpose if your "guests" aren't already on the ride.
So biologically speaking it could very well be that the male is designed to orgasm before the female. Put the sperm in the channel and then open the gates.
It's certainly not that women aren't intended to orgasm at all. Evolution made that shit cuz it works.
@guy with guy advice, yes you can fake squirting. If you're talking about moisture... Some women are more than others and some actually produce more as a defense mechanism to prevent tearing. It may or may not have anything to do with arousal or orgasm.
One reason it's important to communicate. I have a vagina and I understand the vagina pretty well but even I have mistaken pain for pleasure.
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: CookieCrumbs]
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I have also read that the female orgasm is meant to use the muscle contractions to pull semen deeper inside.
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Idk man nothing wrong with having a smoke while you fuckin her from the back, shit can get boring when you been going at it for hours. Just try not to ash on them, most of the time they don't like that.
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Y'all probably the type to enter sleep mode as soon as you nut, if you ain't scared of ankle biters just stuff it back in, the second wind can be the edge you need sometime.
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are you talking about little dogs attacking you during sex?
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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: CookieCrumbs]
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Maybe he's having sex with the little dogs
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Actually I was referring to the fear of reinserting your cock after ejaculation. Many dudes are afraid to reproduce... If you fall into this category get her to suck off the jizz and get back to fucking her! Your job isn't over until she cums, don't be a lazy fucker.
Regarding the little dogs, you should get out of there as fast as you can. Those piss rats are far worse than having children.
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Shroomhunts said: Y'all probably the type to enter sleep mode as soon as you nut, if you ain't scared of ankle biters just stuff it back in, the second wind can be the edge you need sometime.
you are so obviously immature it's actually funny
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Yeah this was kind of immature for sure, having kids is no joke those little fuckers will ruin your life
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Agreed bro. Unless you knock up a chill rich chick. I'm Not sure they exist though; they're like Bigfoot. Some people claim to have seen em but there's no solid proof
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My buddy did it in high school, we used to all rip on him for being in the slow classes but he knocked up this chick who's dad owns a multi million dollar company and now he is the heir, lucky bastdard
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theRealrollforever said: chill rich chick
That's right up there with jumbo shrimp and government intelligence
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