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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 2
    #26921536 - 09/06/20 04:29 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Fwiw if I kept trying to sleep with dudes I probably would have never had "good sex" either.

I mean even if I were attracted to dudes.


Most of them just go with what sounds hot. Lol


And they can't totally be blamed for that. How's one to know what feels good if the opposite sex never openly communicated?

Though again alot of dudes don't make that easy because they tie up their ego with satisfying a woman.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shroomhunts] * 1
    #26921586 - 09/06/20 05:04 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

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Not so much a technique thing as it is a stamina thing. I'd recommend watching some porn for education, imo it is a lot faster to make her cum with your fingers or mouth, penetration works, it just takes more time. legit just fuck her for hours on end. Worth a try maybe you will have similar experience.




This is horrible advice.
It's ALL about technique and porn sex/pounding for hours isn't what a woman wants


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: esqueleto]
    #26921593 - 09/06/20 05:08 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

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Feel surprisingly weird interjecting as a woman



I feel so much the opposite of this. Jesus I am grateful beyond words that you and cookie have given your thoughts and feelings on this subject. Image what an echo chamber this would've turned into without some female imput?

It makes me LOL hard at the very thought of it, going by some of the posts above...

Thank you.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 1
    #26922058 - 09/06/20 09:34 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

I have heard the more comfortable a woman is with a man the easier it is.

True or false?


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Buckomcdoogle]
    #26922605 - 09/07/20 08:18 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

I don't think its comfort as much as general sexual attraction. If a girl is really attracted to you and you make her really horny it is definitely easier for her to reach orgasm. Think about it from the Male perspective, if you are with a chick and you are really attracted to her, it is going to be harder for you to hold back that nut while you fucking her.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Buckomcdoogle]
    #26922832 - 09/07/20 11:10 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

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I have heard the more comfortable a woman is with a man the easier it is.



Absolutely. Emotional comfort is a huge (and so often overlooked) aspect in a woman being able to let go into a "good" sexual experience.

If she's thinking rapid fire about what you think of her, then an orgasm aint gonna come easy.

Gotta remember how judged women get on looks.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #26922848 - 09/07/20 11:21 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

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So Im currently chatting with a 41 year old woman on a social app that says she was married for a long time and has become recently divorced. I asked her what shes looking for on the app and she said "Honestly? To learn what good sex and an orgasm is..."

I was pretty surprised by her answer. Has she never had good sex before? Is she just really hard to please by chance? A naturally high tolerance? No self-pleasuring to orgasm? It all seems to hard to believe...

Have you ever talk to a woman whos "never" had good sex before?




Most women complain about the sex their getting behind closed doors lol. I have a sister and was raised around women so I know this as a fact. Most women don't get an orgasm during normal sex.

It kind of makes sense when you think about it. Men have to orgasm to produce children but women don't. I think nature designed it so men get off easier. With women it's mostly mind games before sex that gets them worked up. It's hard to explain..


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shenmue] * 3
    #26923256 - 09/07/20 03:05 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Female orgasm increases the chances of conception. Especially if your swimmers aren't in an ideal spot.

To quote some random science person contractions during female orgasm "act as a floom ride for sperm." Which paints quite a picture.



And not being comfortable is the primary psychological reason for women not being able to orgasm. It's not strictly being comfortable with the dude it's also her being comfortable with herself.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 2
    #26923299 - 09/07/20 03:52 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

CookieCrumbs, u nailed it! :yesnod:

Thats definitely it right there, if a woman feels comfortable and relaxed, then they can have an orgasm. If not, shes not gonna have one (for the most part). Imagine being in a decades-old relationship where they never had one ever. It boggles the mind. But I guess it does rarely happen.

The comfort thing really extends to pre-sex itself, if the woman is not feeling comfortable with a guy, she really isnt show any subtle sexual cues that she wants to have sex.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #26923309 - 09/07/20 03:58 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Your girlfriends are lying to you :lol: ...  She's just pretending and when you leave the house she gets herself off with her vibration unit :yesnod: ..


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shenmue]
    #26923318 - 09/07/20 04:02 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

I seen an ABC article that said about 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone -- that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances. If you Google it most of the study's say similar things. Who knows though..


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shenmue]
    #26923325 - 09/07/20 04:05 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Sounds about right in my opinion.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #26923857 - 09/07/20 09:21 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

IME, communication is key, and makes for the best sex. It might feel awkward, but talking to your partner about what you're both hoping to get out of a sexual experience goes a long way.

Side note: the only reason it might feel awkward to talk about it is because our society (I'm just assuming you live in the USA here) suppresses sex in really weird ways. In particular, the female orgasm (and just female sexual pleasure as a whole) is suppressed. Nothing will land an American film with an NC-17 rating faster than a woman having an orgasm. It feels awkward to talk about it because you're not "supposed" to talk about it.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Nonagon Infinity]
    #26924054 - 09/08/20 03:02 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

You really cannot argue, men and and women are different. Period.

Its an interesting comparison imo.


IME from a mans perspective, one of the most important things in lasting long is staying relaxed.

Maybe men and women are opposites in that way for biological reasons?

An orgasm is a release of pressure, the more tensed up you are the more likely it is you will bust early.


Deep relaxed breathing is extremely important.

Human sexuality is complex, there are always certainly exceptions to the rules...


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Buckomcdoogle]
    #26924189 - 09/08/20 06:38 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Being distracted helps, not disconnected from the experience but just focusing your mind on other things. Try smoking a cigarette or joint.  Watching some tv while you hit it from the back can help. You will see your stamina go to god their. Usually can tell when she is faking it, can't fake that squirt tho. Just keep at it and communicate positions so you can keep her satisfied the whole time. Having a fat cock helps too.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 1
    #26924360 - 09/08/20 09:26 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

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It makes me hard at the very thought of it






Bit inappropriate JSB :lol:


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shroomhunts] * 2
    #26924367 - 09/08/20 09:30 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

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Tripsurfer said:
Bit inappropriate JSB :lol:



Huh.. when did I say that?!?!

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Shroomhunts said:
Try smoking a cigarette



Man you have given some absolutely terrible advice in this thread.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shenmue]
    #26924450 - 09/08/20 10:25 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

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Quote:

LogicaL Chaos said:
So Im currently chatting with a 41 year old woman on a social app that says she was married for a long time and has become recently divorced. I asked her what shes looking for on the app and she said "Honestly? To learn what good sex and an orgasm is..."

I was pretty surprised by her answer. Has she never had good sex before? Is she just really hard to please by chance? A naturally high tolerance? No self-pleasuring to orgasm? It all seems to hard to believe...

Have you ever talk to a woman whos "never" had good sex before?




Most women complain about the sex their getting behind closed doors lol. I have a sister and was raised around women so I know this as a fact. Most women don't get an orgasm during normal sex.

It kind of makes sense when you think about it. Men have to orgasm to produce children but women don't. I think nature designed it so men get off easier. With women it's mostly mind games before sex that gets them worked up. It's hard to explain..




I was thinking about this last night (I dunno why) but the "floom ride" doesn't really work for its reproductive purpose if your "guests" aren't already on the ride.

So biologically speaking it could very well be that the male is designed to orgasm before the female. Put the sperm in the channel and then open the gates.

It's certainly not that women aren't intended to orgasm at all. Evolution made that shit cuz it works.



@guy with guy advice, yes you can fake squirting. If you're talking about moisture... Some women are more than others and some actually produce more as a defense mechanism to prevent tearing. It may or may not have anything to do with arousal or orgasm.

One reason it's important to communicate. I have a vagina and I understand the vagina pretty well but even I have mistaken pain for pleasure.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #26924455 - 09/08/20 10:31 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

I have also read that the female orgasm is meant to use the muscle contractions to pull semen deeper inside.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #26924470 - 09/08/20 10:41 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Idk man nothing wrong with having a smoke while you fuckin her from the back, shit can get boring when you been going at it for hours. Just try not to ash on them, most of the time they don't like that.


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