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Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"...
    #26898823 - 08/25/20 01:35 PM (3 years, 5 months ago)

So Im currently chatting with a 41 year old woman on a social app that says she was married for a long time and has become recently divorced. I asked her what shes looking for on the app and she said "Honestly? To learn what good sex and an orgasm is..."

I was pretty surprised by her answer. Has she never had good sex before? Is she just really hard to please by chance? A naturally high tolerance? No self-pleasuring to orgasm? It all seems to hard to believe...

Have you ever talk to a woman whos "never" had good sex before?


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #26898877 - 08/25/20 02:09 PM (3 years, 5 months ago)

This is how it is for most women LC. When you've been around a bit and had these conversations with many different women you begin to understand how terribly sexually inept most men are.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #26898896 - 08/25/20 02:20 PM (3 years, 5 months ago)

Indeed. I guess Im starting to realized that...


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #26898910 - 08/25/20 02:30 PM (3 years, 5 months ago)

Just make sure you learn to read the feedback from a woman in the bedroom and talk to her at length about these things out of it and you'll be a league ahead of most men already.

Unlike us simple menfolk, each woman has to be learned sexually; there's no magic technique that will work for all.

Then prepare for the compliments to start flowing.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #26898964 - 08/25/20 03:13 PM (3 years, 5 months ago)

Right, every woman is unique in their preferences when it comes to sex and passion. Ive definitely learned that and meeting a woman with the same "sexual energy" is a rare and special thing.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #26903459 - 08/28/20 04:05 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

It's not always about the guy.
My wife won't allow anything but the old in-out.
But intercourse is not enough to bring her to orgasm.
But I accept it because she is awesome and we get along really well.

Damn shame because I give great head, and I love it.
Previous girlfriend came every time.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #26903468 - 08/28/20 04:20 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Would you break up with your soul-mate because of this?
Tough decision.
I chose to accept her with all her quirks.
At least she is not a Trump supporter.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #26903495 - 08/28/20 05:15 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

My honest opinion is the lady in the OP has had good sex before but she struggles with the idea of being older and getting in to dating. She probably just wants to feel desirable still but also set a standard for what she hopes to get out of the whole thing. Maybe she's telling the truth. But honestly it's more likely that she feels less desirable being a 41 year old woman than it is that she's never had a solid O before.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
    #26905376 - 08/29/20 01:55 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Interesting outside of the box thinking there.

The only reason women get slut shamed is because they can get laid pretty much anytime they want.

Most guys cant.

An 86 yr old woman could go to the bar and go home with some dick.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Buckomcdoogle] * 4
    #26905431 - 08/29/20 03:48 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Good sex says to me I'm looking for someone attentive who's going to want to fulfill my needs in an unselfish way. I can't just put everyone in a box but at the same time telling some dude you just started talking to that you've never had an orgasm just seems like the mature version of "I'm so wet rn." She wants him to want to think about having sex with her because that's how fembots do.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #26913401 - 09/02/20 09:02 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Pretty common, thanks to those damn Jews taking my foreskin I last an incredibly long time usually bring em to multiple organs before I crack. Mostly just dudes don't know how to dick em down right


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shroomhunts] * 3
    #26914877 - 09/03/20 03:05 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Feel surprisingly weird interjecting as a woman but I definitely think there's an orgasm gap. Jokeshop is 100000% right, in my experience, a lot of men are too lazy to bother with the amount of time and communication needed for us to have a good orgasm. There's like 50 techniques and all women are into different motions, amounts of pressure, speeds, clitoral vs. gspot vs. some other spot and those combinations... it's a lot of work for someone else to learn our bodies. Only been somewhat recently that I learned to communicate what I needed to orgasm, and even now I can only get off with a partner when toys are used. Some of us are just like that I suppose!

Got a lot of fakers out there too - sometimes it's easier to fake an orgasm than to tell your partner (especially those one night stands) that you're not really into it anymore without harming their ego


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: esqueleto]
    #26914978 - 09/03/20 05:37 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Just keep fucking her till she squirts and pushes you away. Not so much a technique thing as it is a stamina thing. Definitely got to warm up the oven, use your fingers, and your mouth if she clean. I'd recommend watching some porn for education, imo it is a lot faster to make her cum with your fingers or mouth, penetration works, it just takes more time. Toys are fun way to spice things up but you shouldn't depend on it to make you cum, something not right if that's the only way you can get off. If you are a man and cant last very long try drinking some booze beforehand. I'm essentially unbreakable while drunk, legit just fuck her for hours on end. Worth a try maybe you will have similar experience.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Shroomhunts] * 2
    #26915853 - 09/03/20 03:30 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

:bowdown:

I happen to think a woman is just fine if she needs a toy to get off. And, drunk sex is just meh. I prefer to be present. Different strokes i guess.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: pslyke]
    #26916704 - 09/04/20 02:11 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Honestly...…. a cock ring really does work wonders..


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Buckomcdoogle]
    #26917976 - 09/04/20 06:43 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Funny I'm wearing one rn


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: esqueleto]
    #26918522 - 09/05/20 01:25 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

esqueleto said:
in my experience, a lot of men are too lazy to bother with the amount of time and communication needed for us to have a good orgasm.



Well, yes, certainly. A second problem is that many men are stuck at the paradigm of penetration as the pinnacle of sex. Plenty of evidence in this thread. Of the thousands of exciting/interesting things to do, penetration is just a single one, and while it's certainly fun, most of the fun (both for myself and my female partners) has invariably been in all the other stuff.

The main problem is that by and large, men are just remarkably unimaginative.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: koraks] * 1
    #26918675 - 09/05/20 05:54 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Men are not judged as young adults for exploring, banging, and doing whatever the fuck they want with their dick.

BUT LORD FORBID A WOMAN DO IT TOOOOOO OMFGGGGGGGG.


Her age is like right on the cusp of the true sexual revolution that these millennial and burning man do so I'm not surprised.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: Jewstress]
    #26920954 - 09/06/20 10:53 AM (3 years, 4 months ago)

Some women do just have a harder time, my wife and I were fucking this chick last night and neither of us could make her cum, after about an hr I decided to nut and call it a night. You think making one girl nut is a pain try 2 it can test your patience. I hate the feeling of finishing before my partner it makes me feel inadequate and ruins the whole experience for me.


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Re: Im talking to a woman whos never had "good sex"... [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 3
    #26921526 - 09/06/20 04:25 PM (3 years, 4 months ago)

It's really really common. In part because many women need specific (clitoral) stimulation to orgasm and because most of the demonstrative forms of education material (porn and movies) only really give you an idea of how to sex and many cater to male pleasure.

I cringe at alot of the stuff in lesbian porn so that's no exception.


Basically when you are only just coming out of a sociological hole that taught people that women should not or could not experience physical pleasure during sex that lasted hundreds if not thousands of years it shouldn't surprise anyone that there's still some confusion on how that works.

Really. It's really common for women to not know how to orgasm or to think they're unable to orgasm. So much of it is a mental thing but their partners not knowing the know doesn't help.


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