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koraks
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Re: Need Girl Advice [Re: Kelazam] 2
#26889302 - 08/20/20 12:05 AM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Kelazam said: She's 17 and I'm 18. Thank you.
How about this - she likes the attention, she enjoys flirting, but when push comes to shove, she's just too insecure/afraid to actually follow through. 17 is pretty young still. I've had similar things happen quite a few times when I was younger and this kind of age was within my range. Oh, to be young again. Frustrating most of the time if you're in the maelstrom of adolescence, but kind of nice if you look back on it 20 years down the line.
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Re: Need Girl Advice [Re: koraks]
#26889362 - 08/20/20 01:46 AM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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OP just completely ignore her for a while, and then be cool when you talk again.
The main thing is the women only want you when you only kind of want them, and you don’t really care either way if you get it or not. You have to not care which makes it tough to the land the girl you are really in love with.
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I agree with the people who said she's fishing for attention and complements. Right now she probably feels like she's got you hooked. She knows she can send you a pic and you'll respond and feed her ego. She has you chasing her. You need to flip that around.
There's no need to stop chatting with her. You're 18, keep all possible avenues open (except for crazy girls). I'd start by making plans with her like you're doing already. Then before she typically cancels on you, you cancel on her. Tell her something like, "Hey, I'm really sorry to do this. I know we keep having something come up but I have to bail on our plans. I met a woman the other day and (meet up) day is the only day she's available to get to meet up."
If there's a next time she breaks plans, your response needs to be something like, "That works out actually. Some of the guys at work are meeting up for beers and (activity)."
Change your attitude to I'm a bad ass and don't care (but don't be a dick). Even if it's all show.
That's my opinion and it's worth exactly what you paid for it though. Good luck.
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Find another girl.
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Re: Need Girl Advice [Re: AlphaStar] 2
#26889764 - 08/20/20 09:32 AM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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See if her mom is single
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Too late, OP already divorced his high school wife.
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Re: Need Girl Advice [Re: SARAtonin]
#26889952 - 08/20/20 11:44 AM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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SARAtonin (Litty Lesbian) said: Have you tried to DSHSB?
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SARAtonin (Litty Lesbian) said: Have you tried to DSHSB?

He IS trying
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Re: Need Girl Advice [Re: Kelazam]
#26890353 - 08/20/20 04:33 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Kelazam said: To sum this up. I've known this girl since high school and recently started talking to her again through snapchat. She messaged me after I posted on my story showing off my new apartment. We keep arranging plans to meet at my place but on the day we are supposed to meet she always has an excuse not to come. She also is constantly sending me random pictures of herself non explicit and other. I feel like she doesn't actually want to meet up but is just using me for attention or someone to talk to and attempt to get me to compliment her. I have no problem complimenting her but it seems like she is always wanting that and attention in general. I feel that it is creating unnecessary emotions and I was wondering what you guys think of this, should I just stop talking to her since we never actually see each other or what should I do?
stop talking to her. don't be salty about it or unfriend her or anything but she probably is just keeping you around on the back burner whenever she wants attention. Its not good for you to be involved in that.
If a girl I haven't met cancels plans once I let her try to reschedule but I dont offer to reschedule. if she cancels twice and we've still never met I won't reschedule at all unless she has a really good reason.
I suspect that a huge portion of girls on tinder are just there to pass the time and feel validated while the guy they really like is ignoring them.
I'll get chicks ghosting me then messaging back days later and its like "oh, I geuss her ex/crush is ignoring her again". Then she ghosts again and its like "I geuss its back on"
Just don't participate in games like that.
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The bitch is getting $893 a month in alimony. He better stop talking to her.
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this thread is hilarious
Edited by Apu (08/20/20 07:11 PM)
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Re: Need Girl Advice [Re: Apu]
#26890585 - 08/20/20 07:14 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Good luck out there. I've never met anyone. Wish i could one time. It's made me go / going completely nuts.
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watermelon mon said: Good luck out there. I've never met anyone. Wish i could one time. It's made me go / going completely nuts.
There is somebody out there for everyone. Never give up <3
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The person I'm married to now cancelled the 2 dates on me. I gave it one more try, so glad I did. I never thought I would meet someone like him. You never know.
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watermelon mon said: Good luck out there. I've never met anyone. Wish i could one time. It's made me go / going completely nuts.
There is somebody out there for everyone. Never give up <3
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watermelon mon said: Good luck out there. I've never met anyone. Wish i could one time. It's made me go / going completely nuts.
I know the feeling all too well. but I believe there's mad girls out there you will meet
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Re: Need Girl Advice [Re: Donger]
#26890962 - 08/21/20 12:06 AM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quit eating shrooms and smoking weed regularly. And do pushups.
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Re: Need Girl Advice [Re: Shiithead]
#26890964 - 08/21/20 12:09 AM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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Should I lift as well? How about squats? I’m looking to tone my abs too bro
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theRealrollforever said: Should I lift as well? How about squats? I’m looking to tone my abs too bro
You should lift a person doing squats on someone else doing crunches
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.....on someone doing pushups.
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