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mrz892
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Gonna do shrooms with a very close friend with (remnants of) HOCD and severe social anxiety. Friendly cuddling? Y/N?
#26857747 - 08/01/20 07:48 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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So the story is as follows. I think my intuition is quite good on this but I thought I would ask you guys anyway.
My best friend is not the typical macho type and has been suffering from severe! social anxiety because for the last 10 years or so he has been receiving comments from "friends" that made him doubt about his own sexuality. He has gone a long way from that insecurity in the past year or so and I know he likes women.
We both realize that there is no such thing as (static) "truth" and that current society is almost by design built in such a way as to alienate us from spirituality and to get our pineal gland (sixth sense, top of the pyr-a-mid [fire in the middle/within]) calcified, etc.
Now I am an experienced shroomer, for him it will be the first time. I am homoflexible and he knows about me. I have no sexual feelings towards him though. Our friendship though is really one of a kind and we have no masks, we are so-to-say naked before each other.
ANYWAY, as a friend I have noticed that he needs HOLDING or I guess they call it cuddling. Would you consider it a good idea to offer it to him during the trip / or just do it without asking (unless the spontaneity of the trip completely excludes any such situation)? Or might it trigger some defensive reaction owing to the past etc? I just know that when I do shrooms I crave to engage my tactile senses, I crave contact and I want to spread the love I have with people dear to me. And I will say it again, I do not feel anything sexual towards him. We know that we appreciate each other greatly but we only professed love/eternal loyalty via SMS / internet and to be honest I think saying "I love you" is cheesy and the way you touch/hold someone tells much more than meager words.
Is that even normal that I want to do it to him? I am pretty much anonymous on these forums and I have nothing to lose so I will say it again: I have no feelings other than immense friendship towards him. I SEE it almost every day that he could really use spooning.
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The Blind Ass
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Re: Gonna do shrooms with a very close friend with (remnants of) HOCD and severe social anxiety. Friendly cuddling? Y/N? [Re: mrz892] 1
#26857780 - 08/01/20 08:09 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don’t think it’s the most well thought out plan in the world. To put it very nicely.
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mrz892
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Re: Gonna do shrooms with a very close friend with (remnants of) HOCD and severe social anxiety. Friendly cuddling? Y/N? [Re: The Blind Ass]
#26857783 - 08/01/20 08:12 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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The Blind Ass said:

Dude.
Are you referring to overthinking? 
(I have Asperger Syndrome, so maybe it is because of that. And btw, shrooms completely make this shit disappear).
Edited by mrz892 (08/01/20 08:13 PM)
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mrz892
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Re: Gonna do shrooms with a very close friend with (remnants of) HOCD and severe social anxiety. Friendly cuddling? Y/N? [Re: The Blind Ass] 1
#26857787 - 08/01/20 08:15 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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The Blind Ass said: I don’t think it’s the most well thought out plan in the world. To put it very nicely.
Thanks. So too intrusive and possibly resurfacing previous traumas?
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Re: Gonna do shrooms with a very close friend with (remnants of) HOCD and severe social anxiety. Friendly cuddling? Y/N? [Re: mrz892]
#26857788 - 08/01/20 08:16 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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The real question why ask the internet when you can ask him if he thinks it’s a good idea?
Edited by The Blind Ass (08/01/20 08:30 PM)
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mrz892
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Re: Gonna do shrooms with a very close friend with (remnants of) HOCD and severe social anxiety. Friendly cuddling? Y/N? [Re: The Blind Ass]
#26857807 - 08/01/20 08:36 PM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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The Blind Ass said: The real question why ask the internet when you can ask him if he thinks it’s a good idea?
I think this kind of thing is something you can sense. Asking this would probably be met with a different response than actually getting to it.
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