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Offlinehorror5
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Kissing a Week-End Stripper
    #2681568 - 05/15/04 09:59 AM (12 years, 6 months ago)

Before she use to live in my complex with her boyfriend. i use to be friends with this guy, but not really. he's a total jackass. they broke up months ago. the chick on the other hand is way pretty and she thinks i'm cute. i always let her know she looks good. she comes over to hang out and we get talking about some personal things, not all. one day we got on the subject of stripping when i found out that's how she pays for her apt & cell. she feels like a hoe for stripping and her mom makes her feel bad about doing it. i say at 20-21 your old enough to make your own decisions and know what's best for you. she's no slut! i told her to wear one of her outfits for me and in almost one week she came over. she had a mesh shirt on with black trunks. she's really cute. that's when she started hugging me. i always hug her firmly. i think she likes that! then i said "stay there" as i pulled her shorts away from her waist when i checked out her pu-tang! wow! then i laid a romantic kiss on her as she was blown away. the problem is i really do like her and would have a relationship with her, but don't know how to say it. i mean, i don't want to mess anything up or speeds things up. she has a year lease in our complex. i'm not sure how she really feels, but i do know we care about each other. any suggestions of what to say?


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: horror5]
    #2681581 - 05/15/04 10:13 AM (12 years, 6 months ago)

"then i said "stay there" as i pulled her shorts away from her waist when i checked out her pu-tang! wow! then i laid a romantic kiss on her as she was blown away. "

No offense,but I really dont think checking out her private areas has anything to do with romance.I am confident when I say that what you feel for her is comnpletely lust not love and it should be treated as such or else one or both individuals will be hurt.

You have made no attempt to describe her personality or her mind or heart.You only mention how cute she is and how you're interested in her body.Lust is the love of another's body but love now love is the love of another's mind...their heart ....and their personality without caring how they or their body looks.If you truly love someone its for who they are and not what they look like.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: HypnoToad]
    #2682174 - 05/15/04 02:27 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

I agree with HypnoToad but also that sounds pretty damn schweet too so I don't know what to tell you.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: horror5]
    #2682265 - 05/15/04 02:47 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

she sounds like a slut.





























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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: horror5]
    #2682270 - 05/15/04 02:48 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

I've had bad experiences with strippers in the past....
but good experiences with future porn chickies.
It's up to you, but i'd watch your step.
If there's kids involved, run like hell.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: horror5]
    #2683543 - 05/15/04 08:59 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

>"If there's kids involved, run like hell." = k3y


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: horror5]
    #2686408 - 05/16/04 02:31 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

If that post is real, she aint relationship material. Get yer dick wet then play it cool.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: baraka]
    #2688567 - 05/16/04 10:18 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

Thanks for all the input. hmmm...what do i really want here. first off, i find it hard to have a serious relationship with someone that is not an eye-catcher. i need a hot body with a tight twat! fuck that lovey dovey shit! that's how relationships USE to work. it's about the sex damit. it's the 21st century and relationships just don't last anymore.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: horror5]
    #2688588 - 05/16/04 10:23 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

i can get along with this girl easily. she makes me smile and laugh. she is very caring, thoughtful, honest and trust-worthy. i know this. i would not expect her to cheat on any guy. by the way, she came back from the club today and said she didn't enjoy it. i hear where she's coming from. she does it to pay the bills and live away from her parents. yes i know, but it's easy money for her.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: horror5]
    #2688606 - 05/16/04 10:26 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

No matter what way you look at it, you're going to be dating a stripper, be her a weekend or a daily employee.

If you're cool with that fact, then go for it.

If that bothers you, even slightly, don't do it. It will come back at you later.

If you ask me, I think a seed of doubt has already been planted.

Good luck in your decisions.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: horror5]
    #2688661 - 05/16/04 10:38 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

if youre looking at a long term relationship, why this:
" it's about the sex damit. it's the 21st century and relationships just don't last anymore."


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: vampirism]
    #2688742 - 05/16/04 10:53 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Morrowind said:
if youre looking at a long term relationship, why this:
" it's about the sex damit. it's the 21st century and relationships just don't last anymore."




Sad, but there's a harsh reality to it.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: daba]
    #2689072 - 05/16/04 11:59 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

sure, but sex somehow makes longterm relationships?


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: vampirism]
    #2689204 - 05/17/04 12:28 AM (12 years, 6 months ago)

Who's to say you can't have a long-term relationship based purely on sex?


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: silversoul7]
    #2689361 - 05/17/04 12:56 AM (12 years, 6 months ago)

Not me  :smirk:

If I were you I'd go for it. At the worst you (or she) will decide it's not working and end up breaking up. What's a bit of change to make life more interesting?


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: horror5]
    #2695085 - 05/18/04 07:57 AM (12 years, 6 months ago)

if you can't sleep with her without wanting a relationship then don't....nah! You'll always wonder what it would've been like. Do it!

It's pretty much a given that a relationship won't last longer than a few weeks. Keep in mind that she's facing lots of temptation. Don't be upset when things don't work out and you'll be fine.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: wandrnshaman]
    #2695139 - 05/18/04 08:46 AM (12 years, 6 months ago)

" it's about the sex damit. it's the 21st century and relationships just don't last anymore."

I must heavily disagree.Relastionships last for those who are mature and put effort into the relationship instead of cheating or dumping the other person at the 1st sign of difficulty.

Secondly,Someone is going to start caring sooner or later and then it's going to get messy and someone will get hurt.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: HypnoToad]
    #2699304 - 05/19/04 01:31 AM (12 years, 6 months ago)

I guess if you feel you're not mature, might not put enough effort into a relationship, & are scared of getting hurt...it's best just not to have sex or a relationship then, right?
:whatever:

People get hurt sometimes. That's part of life.
:shrug:


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: horror5]
    #2699514 - 05/19/04 02:20 AM (12 years, 6 months ago)

If I were you I'd make her a booty-call for sure.... Nothing more and nothing less.


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Re: Kissing a Week-End Stripper [Re: Strumpling]
    #2701281 - 05/19/04 02:36 PM (12 years, 6 months ago)

I can't stand strippers.


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