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Tantrika
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#26757499 - 06/19/20 01:42 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Jokeshopbeard said: I see that attitude more and more as time goes by.
in the mirror, because the system you are so deeply inside and part of treats you like you are special and you love it so much so that all you are really complaining about is others being raised up to your level
but sure man, all the people under your boot totally recognize you as being pro-freedom while you shout down theirs
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: Tantrika]
#26757504 - 06/19/20 01:44 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Tantrika said: even you decided to comment about my lived experience
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Tantrika said: treats you like you are special and you love it
You're fun.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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CookieCrumbs
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#26757505 - 06/19/20 01:44 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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No I mean inserting your negative experience with marriage into the whole thing as a concept.
I agree but this is not the case as the system is the one that imposes the burdens.
It's like paying your taxes or getting insurance. You do it because that's the way you play in the system or the system fucks you.
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#26757508 - 06/19/20 01:45 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said: No I mean inserting your negative experience with marriage into the whole thing as a concept.
Oh my experience with marriage was not negative. It was wonderful, and I value it very deeply and dearly.
I'm just saying that, all things considered, I would avoid doing it again is all.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: Jokeshopbeard] 1
#26757522 - 06/19/20 01:48 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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I understand. I do. I recall you talking about it before. My experience and my reasoning is not dissimilar.
Which is how I could see you could be projecting.
Yall got me glad asf I decided to eat a chill pill btw. Everyone all hype and then me being hype I feel like I quickly become problematic... I'm happy...
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: CookieCrumbs] 2
#26757531 - 06/19/20 01:52 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Cookies be chillin' 
This thread is been an eye-opener for me. Learning experience.
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: CookieCrumbs] 1
#26757534 - 06/19/20 01:52 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said: Yall got me glad asf I decided to eat a chill pill btw. Everyone all hype and then me being hype I feel like I quickly become problematic... I'm happy...
Can you elucidate please CC? I'm curious.
I've had such wonderful equilibrium of late it's amazing to me when I look back and see how peoples words used to be able to wind me up. I can't imagine allowing myself to be actually 'annoyed' by something that someone else says at this point.
It's fucking awesome.
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LogicaL Chaos said: This thread is been an eye-opener for me. Learning experience.
That's so hella. Thanks for sharing LC.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Tantrika
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: Jokeshopbeard] 1
#26757561 - 06/19/20 02:00 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Jokeshopbeard said:
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Tantrika said: even you decided to comment about my lived experience
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Tantrika said: treats you like you are special and you love it
You're fun.
You did not have to respond to my comment at all -- as the user has me blocked, there was no moderator decision involved, you did it for personal engagement purposes you also commented on my personal life referring to my medications outside the forums
but no one takes you seriously as a mod who can be upheld to the higher standards the position confers so, really, that was expected
meanwhile you actively push a message that anyone who wishes to have the same rights as you is a "special snowflake" without recognizing that you yourself are a special snowflake basking in your privilege
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: Jokeshopbeard] 1
#26757565 - 06/19/20 02:01 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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If poly marriage was legal, that could be used to abuse marriage and fiance visas and green cards.
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Tantrika
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 1
#26757576 - 06/19/20 02:03 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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LogicaL Chaos said: This thread is been an eye-opener for me. Learning experience.
agreed have learned to be all the more thankful for you and Cookie as good staff
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: Jokeshopbeard] 1
#26757596 - 06/19/20 02:14 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Elucidating:
1. I had a fucking meltdown and purged alot of my negative feelings and organized my disordered thoughts. That was so cathartic.
2. I've recognized I'm just generally tired and don't have energy to care about things that aren't my responsibility or don't foster my own wellbeing.
3. I took a step back and analyzed myself and where my actions were coming from and how to be who I want to be.
I'll probably get hype again but it all comes down to being me and taking care of myself so I can be.
So crazy cookie doesn't take over.
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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: budmanman]
#26757673 - 06/19/20 03:00 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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budmanman said: If poly marriage was legal, that could be used to abuse marriage and fiance visas and green cards.
Call it civil unions and make exceptions where it can be nullified.
America already does this with marriage for citizenship.
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