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InvisibleSARAtonin
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Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? * 4
    #26757256 - 06/19/20 12:14 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

There are millions of poly folk in the US and abroad, myself included.

Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marriage and be afforded with the same protections and rights as monogamous couples?

Why or why not?

Let’s try to stay civil please.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: SARAtonin]
    #26757261 - 06/19/20 12:16 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

I don't care.

The sanctity of marriage hasn't been a thing for a while and it wasn't necessarily a good thing when it was.


Though I suppose that can complicate taxed.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #26757266 - 06/19/20 12:18 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

yeah who cares.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: SARAtonin] * 1
    #26757267 - 06/19/20 12:18 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

*skip over:snowman:


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #26757268 - 06/19/20 12:18 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Why would they not be able to marry?  If they are both alright with the poly thing I thought it was fine for them to get married.  No more discrimination allowed!


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: SARAtonin] * 1
    #26757272 - 06/19/20 12:20 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Good question!

I think they should as long as there is some clear rules about the Poly-relationship. Like what if theres a new person in the Poly circle? Do you get re-married to show their poly-marriage involvement? What sort of paperwork is involved? How many wifes/husbands can a person have? Is there a practical limit?

I think writing laws for poly-marriages would be the most complex part of it.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: sui]
    #26757273 - 06/19/20 12:20 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

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sui said:
yeah who cares.




i mean i care, i want to marry who ever i want to.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: sui]
    #26757278 - 06/19/20 12:22 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

ive never wanted to marry a man but if i wanted to. i wouldnt want anyone to stop me.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: sui] * 1
    #26757283 - 06/19/20 12:23 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Poly marriages are perfect for bi-people: they can have a wife and a husband, or two of each! Collect them all! :datass:


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 1
    #26757287 - 06/19/20 12:24 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

LogicaL Chaos said:
Good question!

I think they should as long as there is some clear rules about the Poly-relationship. Like what if theres a new person in the Poly circle? Do you get re-married to show their poly-marriage involvement? What sort of paperwork is involved? How many wifes/husbands can a person have? Is there a practical limit?

I think writing laws for poly-marriages would be the most complex part of it.



Yep all that paper work bullshit is based around 2 people.


Folk would have to do alot more work than they did for same sex marriage.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: SARAtonin]
    #26757297 - 06/19/20 12:28 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

I can't say I've ever interested myself in the accompanying laws so I'm not sure off-hand how they work. But I do know that here, and this is a big reason why I see marriage as pointless, common-law partnerships are often treated the same as marriages even by tax things and case law. It's just a paid title here that legally binds you. I'm not sure if it's quite the same in the states. Regardless, can't see a point in not allowing it. People are going to do whatever they want to do. I could see it getting complicated for taxes and other things though. You also seem to be assuming that third or fourth person is exclusively part of that poly group. Like idk how you'd even begin to do tax stuff for mass groups of partially inter-married couples.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 4
    #26757304 - 06/19/20 12:29 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Pulling any more aspects of ones sex life into a legal document than is absolutely necessary seems moronic to me.

Why not marry a primary partner and just do the poly thing as you choose? Must one legally announce it to the world?

Should legal marriage now be altered further so that one can have a document that states connections like this?



Seems all a bit entitled to me. But that's just me.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: theRealrollforever] * 1
    #26757314 - 06/19/20 12:32 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Yeah all poly couples should be allowed to. I mean why not? It is my understanding that they are currently in all states right? If not just pretend to be monogamous on paper anyways.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: SARAtonin] * 2
    #26757322 - 06/19/20 12:34 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

SARAtonin said:
Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marriage and be afforded with the same protections and rights as monogamous couples?




sure, do not even comprehend why bigamy laws are in place to begin with

Quote:

SARAtonin said:
Why or why not?




because of not comprehending why it is not a protected right already

and because something tells me that part of the influence for this may be
that it would be easier for the three of you to move up to Canada if Jess had the same legal status that you and Lily share

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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 1
    #26757323 - 06/19/20 12:34 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

I'm too selfish to be poly. That being said this thread may turn out to be entertaining so I might just pull up a chair and :popcorn:


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 2
    #26757329 - 06/19/20 12:35 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

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Jokeshopbeard said:
Why not marry a primary partner and just do the poly thing as you choose? Must one legally announce it to the world?




Because when moving from the US to Canada it is likely easier for married partners to gain citizenship
than it is for a couple + an unrelated third party
or, rather, the third party suffers all the restrictions of being labeled as single and independently processed through immigration, rather than part of a family unit


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: meatloaf]
    #26757332 - 06/19/20 12:36 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

Jokeshopbeard said:
Pulling any more aspects of ones sex life into a legal document than is absolutely necessary seems moronic to me.

Why not marry a primary partner and just do the poly thing as you choose? Must one legally announce it to the world?

Should legal marriage now be altered further so that one can have a document that states connections like this?



Seems all a bit entitled to me. But that's just me.



So to clarify, you believe requesting the right to see a loved on on their death bed is entitled? Just checking.

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meatloaf said:
Yeah all poly couples should be allowed to. I mean why not? It is my understanding that they are currently in all states right? If not just pretend to be monogamous on paper anyways.



It’s illegal across the US.


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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: Tantrika] * 1
    #26757333 - 06/19/20 12:37 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Anyone and everyone should have the right to marry who and how many they want to.

All Marriages Matter



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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: SARAtonin]
    #26757340 - 06/19/20 12:38 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

SARAtonin said:
So to clarify, you believe requesting the right to see a loved on on their death bed is entitled? Just checking.




oh, also highly worth consideration
tho hopefully not a concern anytime soon :uhoh:

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Re: Do you believe poly couples should have the right to marry? [Re: Tantrika] * 1
    #26757341 - 06/19/20 12:38 PM (3 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

Tantrika said:
than it is for a couple + an unrelated third party
or, rather, the third party suffers all the restrictions of being labeled as single rather than part of a family unit



I think it really quite intellectually lazy to fall back upon that as a reason to revamp the whole of marriage to include multiple parters.

But hey, everyone in the modern world is a special snowflake now it seems, and everything should change to please those who take issue with anything.


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