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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #3]
#26781107 - 06/25/20 04:07 AM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I am king kong of accepting criticism and changing my views.
I guarantee you fuckers have no god damn clue what its like to be THIS honest.
You're full of shit is what you are. Lacking in self awareness, transparently depressed, and over-compensatorily arrogant.
Toxic combination.
Please go away and take a long hard look at yourself.
So just look at this for a second. If I have not told a lie.... then how am I to listen to your criticism if your criticism assumes I'm lying? Lol.
Does that not make sense to you?
Being honest requires boasting because I am not shit at everything. Some shit im good at. Sorry if that hurts your fragile ego. I wont be modest.
But AGAIN none of this is commenting on the things I'm talking about. Just pissy about the way I'm typing.
I'm self aware. Me saying im self aware makes you think that I'm not self aware. So what am I supposed to say? I'm not self aware?
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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #4]
#26781117 - 06/25/20 04:17 AM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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I am king kong of accepting criticism and changing my views.
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I guarantee you fuckers have no god damn clue what its like to be THIS honest.
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My assumption is that they want my badass friendship not to end. Because I'm a KILLER friend.
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Like fuck. I could easily get these women.... if I just started bullshitting. Or didnt try to be nice. Women shouldnt have liked me back when I was a dick years ago.
Wikipedia - Narcissistic Defences
I don't think you're a piece of shit. I don't know you. If you truly believe everything you've said in this thread though, I think you're very dangerous. Whether you believe me or not, you're thinking is delusional and puts all blame onto others. The worse you feel, the more you'll hate women and humanity because we're where the blame goes for your negative feelings. That looks like Eric Harris, T.J Lane or Eliot Roger.
I know that if you truly believe what you're saying I won't be able to get through to you but I tried.
I do not hate people. I love people. I want them happy. I am not "dangerous" to anyone except perhaps myself. But I highly doubt I'll actually go through with killing myself.
I'll also be married with kids in a few years. I dont hate women especially. I fuckin love them.
What I am doing here is ranting about the way the dating game must be played. I do not like that you have to play some stupid mind games to secure the women you want. And how my no-bullshit attitude gets me inaccurately defined by these women.
Also. I've seen like dead bodies and shit. I've given CPR until death. I've been in horrible fucking countries surrounded by absolute madness. Who the fuck are yall to assume I cant be jaded for REAL reasons? Why do I have to tell my life story to get the assumption that I'm not lying when posting anonymously on a psychedelic forum? For fucks sake. Have we not all here experienced ego death? Have we not all had our glass tree shattered into nothingness and rebuilt afterwards? Where the fuck is your brotherhood?
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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#26781127 - 06/25/20 04:34 AM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: Does that not make sense to you?
Everything you've said since OP makes sense to me. You're incredibly vapid and childlike. You think you're being all kinds of complex and clever but you're really not. I've come across plenty of men who sound just like you, and it's really quite simple.
You need help, and as long as you're here talking about how great you are and how we just don't understand you you're not getting help or helping yourself.
You think you know better. You don't. It's never too late to realize that.
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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #3]
#26781143 - 06/25/20 04:44 AM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: Does that not make sense to you?
Everything you've said since OP makes sense to me. You're incredibly vapid and childlike. You think you're being all kinds of complex and clever but you're really not. I've come across plenty of men who sound just like you, and it's really quite simple.
You need help, and as long as you're here talking about how great you are and how we just don't understand you you're not getting help or helping yourself.
It's never too late.
I know the people that I sound like. They bother the shit out of me because it makes my surface seem like their whole being.
You would have to get to know me to understand.
What help should I get? To learn how to not be egotistical and manipulative? Are THOSE my problems?
The way I think is accurate. I WISH I could think in a different way. The same way an athiest would LOVE to believe in God and not fear death. I would LOVE to think theres some magical reason for all our personalities beyond simply initial brain chemistry and culmination of life events. I would KILL for it. But it is simply not the case.
And I honestly dont think theres even a conversation going on between us right now. Youve checked out at some point when you tagged me in your head as egotistical. Me saying I'm not egotistical is more evidence to you that I am. Its self-fulfilling.
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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#26781157 - 06/25/20 04:54 AM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: The way I think is accurate.
So I guess you're the first human in the world to have gained this power.. wow. You should be, like, king Buddhist of the world.
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Anonymous #1 said: I WISH I could think in a different way.
What's this 'different way'?
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Anonymous #1 said: Youve checked out at some point when you tagged me in your head as egotistical.
No, your arrogance is a symptom, not a cause.
You are clearly mentally unwell and quite unhappy.
You need to fix these things, not over-compensate here.
I bet you've a vague notion you're doing so, and are fighting yourself.
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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#26781182 - 06/25/20 05:21 AM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: Why do I have to tell my life story to get the assumption that I'm not lying when posting anonymously on a psychedelic forum? For fucks sake.
I don't know who you are. Nobody except the mods do. For all I know, we could discuss things often in other sections and I could already really like you. There is virtually nothing at stake for you here in terms of reputation. Why be so bothered by our anonymous perceptions?
And as for brotherhood, this is what brotherhood looks like. Maybe I'm coming off as much more antagonistic than I'd like to. I'm not trying to put you down, I'm trying to guide you out of dysfunctional thinking. Bros call each other out when they're acting shitty.
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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #4]
#26781514 - 06/25/20 08:27 AM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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I of course want Bros to point out problems. I am a massive advocate of it and quite regularly get myself into trouble in doing so. I will get to the bottom of criticism o receive down to the most nuanced of ways.
So what is it in my thinking that is wrong? I feel like it's objectively correct though is painful to think that way.
Like a woman will like me more if I'm not interested for example. That is fucking stupid. And then all the other things relating to picking up women. All that shit is stupid.
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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26781654 - 06/25/20 09:33 AM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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No, you just have a fundamental misunderstanding of human nature, and because of your arrogance, rather than accept that you might be wrong, you instead act like you know better and judge the whole world as 'stupid'.
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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #3]
#26781749 - 06/25/20 10:14 AM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous #3 said: No, you just have a fundamental misunderstanding of human nature, and because of your arrogance, rather than accept that you might be wrong, you instead act like you know better and judge the whole world as 'stupid'.
Alright so what are the flaws in my understanding of human nature?
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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26781820 - 06/25/20 10:49 AM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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No spoonfeeding.
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Re: Game of dating and how I'm viewed as weak when really I'm strong. [Re: Anonymous #3]
#26782350 - 06/25/20 03:10 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous #3 said: No spoonfeeding.
To me it sounds like youre mad at the WAY I'm typing and not the content.
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