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spirit_shadow
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Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist
#26729559 - 06/08/20 06:09 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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It's been almost year...idk why my dumbass would think she would change but nope she is still the same. It just hurts knowing she will die without me ever seeing her again...mother's shouldnt be like that.....
Anyway I'm not looking for pity(even though it does hurt and is sad to me) I just want to vent is all. I just dont know what to do. It sucks wanting a relatively"normal" mother and knowing I will never have one. I keep wanting to make up and put the hurtful things she has said behind me but she always ends up saying hurtful shit and not caring about anyone's emotions but her own. I guess I've been in denial but the best solution for my well being is just to cut all contact(which I have done for like a year and I've felt great)and that hurts.....
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split_by_nine
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26729579 - 06/08/20 06:19 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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well we must have the same mom then. jokes aside, i feel you. sending love your way
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: split_by_nine]
#26729586 - 06/08/20 06:20 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thanks man. I feel so bad for anyone in the same boat. It just sucks <3
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26729606 - 06/08/20 06:25 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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i had a long conversation about this exact thing today with a coworker. it does suck. and it hurts. but as time goes on it hurts less. i made a similar post back on mothers day.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: split_by_nine]
#26729754 - 06/08/20 07:16 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ugh I'm just so irritated...I'm sorry lol fuck my life
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26729788 - 06/08/20 07:27 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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its very frustrating, i know. keep your head up. in my time on earth I've come to realize that its very easy to lose yourself in the stressors of life.. but its also easy to forget about them. it just takes practice.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: split_by_nine] 1
#26729816 - 06/08/20 07:40 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah...and good friends. Idk what I'd do without my irl friends and this community
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26729827 - 06/08/20 07:43 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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What's really fucked up is no matter what I am the one to blame. She refuses to take any fault whatsoever.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26729863 - 06/08/20 07:56 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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same with my mom. she has pushed everyone out of her life and blames them all for it. she has no friends anymore and family members prefer to keep their distance.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: split_by_nine]
#26729879 - 06/08/20 08:06 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm sorry again this is not a pity thread but I fucking get it. Believe me
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: split_by_nine]
#26729881 - 06/08/20 08:07 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Bummer dudes.
Love my Mother.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26729886 - 06/08/20 08:07 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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no worries, friend. its healthy to vent it out.. otherwise the pressure keeps building and we're more likely to explode.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: split_by_nine]
#26729899 - 06/08/20 08:13 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah I'm not about that but I get it. I would. Just gotta rise above it all and just stick with the people that really do care about you.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26730356 - 06/09/20 01:07 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Canβt stand either of my parents so I give myself the gift of never seeing or talking to them.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
#26730724 - 06/09/20 08:01 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah that is what I'm doing. It's hard not to feel guilty sometimes but I know as soon as I try to make up or just have any contact in general it will just go back to the same shit...so I guess no contact really is best option.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26735330 - 06/10/20 07:49 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
spirit_shadow said: It's been almost year...idk why my dumbass would think she would change but nope she is still the same. It just hurts knowing she will die without me ever seeing her again...mother's shouldnt be like that.....
Anyway I'm not looking for pity(even though it does hurt and is sad to me) I just want to vent is all. I just dont know what to do. It sucks wanting a relatively"normal" mother and knowing I will never have one. I keep wanting to make up and put the hurtful things she has said behind me but she always ends up saying hurtful shit and not caring about anyone's emotions but her own. I guess I've been in denial but the best solution for my well being is just to cut all contact(which I have done for like a year and I've felt great)and that hurts.....
I feel you, man. One of the only times I ever cried in front of my fiancee was because of my mom. I wouldn't say my mom's a narcissist but she can be really cold and uncaring sometimes. During major riots in Bogota, my inbox was flooded with people checking on me. I messaged my mom telling her what was going on and she responded like 8 hours later with something totally unrelated. It sounds little, but like, you want your mom to care about you or express some concern for your safety. Despite the fact that so many reached out, all I wanted was for her to give a shit.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: Darwin23]
#26735335 - 06/10/20 07:50 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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I get it. Its fucked up. Mothers are supposed to care about you. Or so I've heard :/
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26924280 - 09/08/20 08:26 AM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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My father as well. This is an epidemic in our society and is in it's infancy. These people are not well and we need to better study and understand psychology.
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Re: Yep....my mother is still a full blown narcissist [Re: CanadianSausage]
#26924333 - 09/08/20 09:04 AM (3 years, 5 months ago) |
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I could not agree more.
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