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TED - the truth about unwanted arousal
#26674192 - 05/16/20 05:36 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Asante]
#26674197 - 05/16/20 05:38 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Before watching this is it going to take a position of judgement that men who are raped by women are at fault because they got hard or is this a strictly biological exploration of why stimuli may impact mind and body differently, without judgement passed on implications
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tantrika]
#26674203 - 05/16/20 05:45 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Tantrika said: Before watching this is it going to take a position of judgement that men who are raped by women are at fault because they got hard or is this a strictly biological exploration of why stimuli may impact mind and body differently, without judgement passed on implications
Better just watch it. Its not about being judgemental.
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Asante]
#26674216 - 05/16/20 05:56 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Asante said:
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Tantrika said: Before watching this is it going to take a position of judgement that men who are raped by women are at fault because they got hard or is this a strictly biological exploration of why stimuli may impact mind and body differently, without judgement passed on implications
Better just watch it. Its not about being judgemental.
I'm just not stoned enough for triggers yet this morning
trigger warning with regards to rape apologetics yes/no?
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tantrika] 3
#26674233 - 05/16/20 06:09 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tantrika]
#26674258 - 05/16/20 06:30 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm just not stoned enough for triggers yet this morning
trigger warning with regards to rape apologetics yes/no?
Come on now, I'm an abuse survivor, would I give a platform to rape apologetics? Do you think TED would? Its quite the contrary.
Have a little faith in me.
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Asante]
#26674263 - 05/16/20 06:38 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Asante said:
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I'm just not stoned enough for triggers yet this morning
trigger warning with regards to rape apologetics yes/no?
Come on now, I'm an abuse survivor, would I give a platform to rape apologetics? Do you think TED would? Its quite the contrary.
Have a little faith in me.
Not a platform for rape apologetics, but the reality of content that may be used by rape apologists a group that can still make wrong-minded arguments from real biological occurrences
respect that you may take this as a lack of faith in you, but assure you it is not recognize that you are willing to at times work with challenging content in a similar manner to myself
just been awake for around 2 hours, had about 3 tokes off the bong so far, and not quite ready for challenging can barely brain fluffy kittens at the moment sitting in the chair is itself painful and distracting aside from a like 20 minutes span after toking
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tantrika] 1
#26674267 - 05/16/20 06:41 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hit your bong some more
The lady argues that genital arousal and consent can stand completely apart and as such cannot be taken as a sign of consent. So, right op your alley.
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Asante]
#26674272 - 05/16/20 06:45 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Asante said: Hit your bong some more :bongrip:
The lady argues that genital arousal and consent can stand completely apart and as such cannot be taken as a sign of consent. So, right op your alley.
thank you  will plug it in right after my post-voice-training bong hit in a few
smoke too much too quick I may have to actually deal with being high x-x
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tantrika]
#26674332 - 05/16/20 07:41 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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-_-
there is literally a rape story in the middle of the video of someone taking genital arousal over verbal consent
will come back to this some other time
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tantrika]
#26674333 - 05/16/20 07:42 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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There is yes but its a negative example and its made clear why that excuse does not apply.
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Asante]
#26674342 - 05/16/20 07:54 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Asante said: There is yes but its a negative example and its made clear why that excuse does not apply.
Of course it is a negative example.
also expressly asked you for a simple favour of warning with regards to potentially triggering content of rape apologetics using genital arousal as an excuse as a yes or no question.
You responded with "Have a little faith in me."
The answer was yes. Trigger warning. Tied up bored bar example, no issue. Boundary violation against will example, issue.
As stated, will come back to this later in a better headspace for it.
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tantrika]
#26674430 - 05/16/20 09:15 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ok, my bad.
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Asante]
#26674451 - 05/16/20 09:28 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Asante said: Ok, my bad.
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tantrika]
#26674458 - 05/16/20 09:35 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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do look forward to being able to discuss a bit later 
prolly going to at least get some breakfast in my stomache now first tho
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Asante]
#26674620 - 05/16/20 11:17 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Oof. This got a lot more difficult before it got any lighter
Do appreciate that she managed to touch on just how severely these situations can impact individuals it is a Truth that rape has severe reprecussions for victims the statement of a girls relationship with her own body being damaged rings particularly loudly
this is where my resentment for the societal under-emphasis of the impact of rape comes from along with my position with regards to sentencing for rape cases being too light as a result
it all makes me sick

Recognize the secondary messaging about not feeling abnormal for non-harmful sexual desires was a really valuable one as well tho knowing and accepting oneself is important to communication; and communication is absolutely integral to good sexual relationships
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tantrika] 1
#26674647 - 05/16/20 11:28 AM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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a meme that long had to be created in a russian lab
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: cannabinated]
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tantrika] 2
#26675045 - 05/16/20 02:54 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Such drama
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Re: TED - the truth about unwanted arousal [Re: Tripsurfer]
#26675166 - 05/16/20 03:44 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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Tripsurfer said: Such drama 
Agreed, lots of drama in the video an underage girl sexually abused by a family member and the lawyer had the gall to say genital arousal implied she wanted the abuse to take place?
tragedy mixed with absurdity
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