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split_by_nine
i am the liquor

Registered: 07/11/18
Posts: 21,288
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mothers day 1
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its been 3 years since i last spoke to my mother. of course she is and will always be a part of my life, but we do not get along well. she is bitter, cynical and immature. that makes it very difficult to have a relationship with her and im sure it is the reason why i can be so bitter, cynical and immature.
life is strange.
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BoleteBuck
Stranger
Registered: 12/18/19
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DO IT
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bodhisatta 
Smurf real estate agent


Registered: 04/30/13
Posts: 61,890
Loc: Milky way
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Call her and tell her to be a better person.
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larry.fisherman
shoulda died already


Registered: 11/03/12
Posts: 36,294
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It's been over 10 years since I spoke with my mother and I'm quite happy about it because she's a shit individual. The longer I spend as a parent the less I care she's not in mine or their lives. You have to be a completely soulless retard to not put effort in to your kids let alone choose some douchebag who doesn't want anything to do with your kids. I was thinking the other day, my step dad never once tried to spend time with me, tried to tell me he loved me, tried to hug me or tell me I can confide in him, he never bought me presents for my birthday's and Christmas. And she never cared about any of that. A parent's first priority when finding a new partner should be that your kids like them and that they have a working relationship with your kids. But she never tried to or encouraged that fostering of familiarity and punished her kids for it by pushing them out of her life at a most convenient time. I was like 14 and was having really serious panic attacks just trying to go to school. Then this nigga comes home like he's my daddy and starts yelling at me, calling me names and using threatening body language and I stand up and stare at him angrily so she gets in the way to protect him from me. Then she calls my dad, gives me my Christmas presents which is several months away and sends me away. Which is fine by me. I have an impeccable memory, and all of the good ones have always been of my dad. It's hard to really miss someone who never tried to be there for you, especially when you see how many people can rely on their mother more than anyone in the world. So to those mothers, the ones with a big heart and care about their kids more than anything, my hats off to you. You're what the world needs.
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SARAtonin
Violent Dreams


Registered: 09/28/11
Posts: 15,931
Loc: Deutschland
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Sorry to add a dark note to this thread, but my parents died before I could really bury the hatchet with them and it’s something I find myself dwelling on a lot more often then I’d like. Something to think about OP. You don’t always know what something means to you until it’s gone, like, actually gone.
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split_by_nine
i am the liquor

Registered: 07/11/18
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your story is similar to mine, only difference is that my dad is also a real piece of shit too. i dont have any fond memories of either parent. i havent seen or talked to my dad in over a decade.
@SARA, i dont think there is anything to salvage. i dont hate them, but i also dont care about them. sorry to make it even darker but i wont miss them when theyre dead because it already feels that way now.
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ninja cat 09
A paranoid android



Registered: 10/11/09
Posts: 4,170
Loc: Mexico
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My mom isn't the most stable of people, she's got schizophrenia and has never admitted to it, let alone taken medication. I miss who she was before all that, but trying to talk to her or be close to her is just damaging to me and my family.
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split_by_nine
i am the liquor

Registered: 07/11/18
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my parents didnt want kids. they accidentally had me and my sister when they were very young. for many years my mom would say to us how she cant wait for us to be out of her house.
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ninja cat 09
A paranoid android



Registered: 10/11/09
Posts: 4,170
Loc: Mexico
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That fucking sucks. Things started going to shit when I was 13 or 14 and only got worse. I remember everything being more or less good before that, which I'm grateful for, but when it was bad it was bad. My mom hit my dad with the car and broke his arm once, she used to speed every time she got angry with my sister 10 years younger than me in the car, break things, accuse us of spying on her and to top it off my dad was never around because she always started fights when he was around. I'm amazed at how my old man kept his cool and stayed around. I'm sure I would have lost it or left.
Last time we went to visit her a few years back she ended up kicking my brother in the ribs and nearly broke them, he was sore for days and he's a huge, strong fella.
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DeepState1337
Yeet Cannon Operator


Registered: 05/05/20
Posts: 14
Loc: Salton Sea, CA
Last seen: 3 years, 8 months
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Try giving her a call anyways or stop by. When she is gone none of you past indescretions with her will matter. Hope shit works out for you dude.
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