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spirit_shadow
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I just give up. Humans suck. All of us.
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LogicaL Chaos
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Tantrika
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spirit_shadow said: ... Edit: I've said this years ago. If I was gay I would be with my best friend right now. I get him 100%. I love him dearly as a friend and a human. Just not sexually. It just doesn't do it for me.
yeah, that is kind of "the point"
as people get older we start to realize that sex is still awesome and getting it as much as possible is awesome (tho many people proceed to explore more sexually with age -- cis straight couples will get into bondage 30 years into marriage, for example) but the really meaningful and genuine human connection is what really matters
think that is where bi has some degree of impact, being really attracted to different things about one gender or the other
but this is my personal bias of view, due to not being able to really emotionally or psychologically forge connections with men -- y'all are just strange but have always been really successful doing so with women and have been exclusively attracted to women all my life as well
penises weird me out, and have a policy with other trans girls of "nothing below the waist"
but sexual preference is a real nuanced thing -- people can also be not at all racist, treat all races equally, fairly, and well; but still not want to have sex with one or two races as a matter of personal preference it is also totally valid in my mind to dislike (or love, as a shout out to tyra rex ) people of a larger build
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spirit_shadow
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Re: Homosexuality is cool yo [Re: Tantrika] 2
#26624790 - 04/24/20 01:35 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Wow! See from conflict I have learned something new today. And you are right I do not understand body dysmorphia one bit. My gf has it and I will probably never understand it. I understand that people have it I just dont understand the why. I can understand personal health reasons for some people but the emotional aspect I do not get at all :/
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(in an experimental universe with a reset button and time travel) I would want both sex gentiles in full functional working order and i would impregnate myself, giving birth to myself. A mini me. I’d be the ma and pop all at once.
Going full ouroboros !!!

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And thats an example of the Infinite Variety of Creation. To experience existence from all possible perspectives and learn along the way. According to the Pleiadians, that is the purpose of Creation.
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Jah man! Infinite expression. Da uno in the many , the many in the uno.
Dis be da cosmos wish! (Not sure what accent I was going for there)
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Tantrika
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spirit_shadow said: Wow! See from conflict I have learned something new today. And you are right I do not understand body dysmorphia one bit. My gf has it and I will probably never understand it. I understand that people have it I just dont understand the why. I can understand personal health reasons for some people but the emotional aspect I do not get at all :/
I prolly can't put it into words and what songs attempt to don't often do a great job but will try to provide a bit of written insight upon waking up later it's pushing 3 pm here and if I don't lay down reasonably my sleep schedule is just going to get fucked up again x-x
despite how old this bit of media is, and not at all trans related actually do find it a relatively "accurate" representation of dysphoria just imagine Homer actually looking femme enough to be naturally called her, rather than comically as a reference to "ugly mannish lesbians" and imagine he's the only one seeing himself the way he appears at the bar -- but the rest of his day he sees himself as they do
it springs to mind because someone posted a still image of Homer at the bar on my trans meme subreddit and said it was how she felt when out shopping for clothes so personally made a point to chime in and hopefully cheer her up a bit that even if she sees herself as Homer the surrounding women in the scene recognize and accept the female patron
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Re: Homosexuality is cool yo [Re: Tantrika] 1
#26624929 - 04/24/20 02:42 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Such drama
But to answer the question
I would rather kiss Trex' hairy Santa than take a dick up my ass
If I must kiss a man, I prefer the total experience. A real man, with a beard and leather chaps
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Re: Homosexuality is cool yo [Re: Tripsurfer] 1
#26624973 - 04/24/20 02:49 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Tripsurfer said: Such drama
But to answer the question
I would rather kiss Trex' hairy Santa than take a dick up my ass
If I must kiss a man, I prefer the total experience. A real man, with a beard and leather chaps 
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CookieCrumbs
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spirit_shadow said: Yeah there are too many made up words for me. DNA does not lie. You can do and believe whatever you want but the universe is absolute.
After a post about intersex people...
Sex and gender are not the same thing. XY or XX determines sex. It does not determine gender. Gender is made up of alot of biological things. Your mother's hormones when you were in the womb. Your individual genes and the combination of those genes. The hormones you are exposed to as you are developing. And probably some constructs in the brain.
The more actual top level medical scientists have studied the more they have had to broaden their definition of intersex. In part just simply being able to cut someone open and see what they have inside their abdomen required this expansion. You can have a penis, testicles, and ovaries. Lots of people never know they are intersex until they develop ovarian cancer or something.
And they may feel they are more female than male. In part maybe because those ovaries are feeding estrogen into their system. But years of that has effects on the brain and making them feel male isn't as simply as cutting out the extra organs.
And those organs are there due to some kind of genetic or hormonal anomoly when that fetus was developing. That means it was probably considered with other factors that present gender. Things like genes that can't simply be removed.
Every 1 in 1000 births are intersex. That's 2x more babies born with multiple sex organs than those born with cleft lips.
And if that's hard to fathom then keep in mind 1 in every 700 is born with downs syndrome.
Nature didn't make it simple. Nature is infinitely complex. And while we've come to understand it alot better there's still alot we don't know.
We understand more of the surface of the moon than we do of the human brain and how the chemicals and neurons in it work.
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CookieCrumbs
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The only absolute to me is that it really does not fucking matter.
None of social constructs really matter. We are all human beings, a type of animal, trying to function in a way nature did not design for us. At every level.
We literally made everything up. All the words I'm typing now, the keyboard I'm typing it on, this thing that exists as 0s and 1s on a virtual database connected via cables and signals we call the internet, and each and every little definition or logic we invented to define different aspects of life.
Someone made that shit up. We're constantly finding that for all the shit we made up, alot of it's fucking made up, and alot of it's incomplete or wrong. Because we're human.
And we're functioning in a way that hasn't been defined by several hundred million years of evolution.
If you want to go live in a cave without clothes or sanitized water and eat bugs and shit I say more power to you. And you should probably limit your vocal communications too. But if you want to live in the world constructed by human beings... you have to accept that human beings had to make up constructions to deal with that world.
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I could never be gay I don't even like the smell of my own dick
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Re: Homosexuality is cool yo [Re: viraldrome] 1
#26625083 - 04/24/20 03:52 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Homosexuality isnt cool anymore. Its old hat. The new "it" thing is to be transsexual. Dont you follow the news?
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spirit_shadow
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Re: Homosexuality is cool yo [Re: Thrill]
#26625086 - 04/24/20 03:55 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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So basically its genetic mutation? I have a theory the first humans were most genetically stable and over the eons it is just becoming more and more unstable. (Partly due to inbreeding long ago as well)
Edit: @tantrika I still dont understand WHY they feel that way. I've been made fun of when I was younger for being so skinny but I have never felt self conscious. I think I have an understanding block.
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CookieCrumbs
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I feel like that's probably a little too simple but if you want to boil it down enough, yes.
Here's where it gets dicey. Having white skin is a genetic mutation. The genes are giving a command they didn't before the mutation. Make this pigment.
They weren't supposed to but they did. And for reasons white skinned people passed on their genes better than dark skinned people in some places.
So who's to say what is a defect?
But I think in most cases it's not a true genetic defect. Just that genes are susceptible to giving the wrong commands at the wrong times. And in this way most of us, most of all life, is in part genetically compromised. Otherwise cancer wouldn't be so prevalent.
I agree we're not as hardy of a species as we could be due to inbreeding and outsmarting nature but we also probably wouldn't be here without those things. Nature has alot of tradeoffs.
Sickle cell anemia - likelier to bleed to death, less likely to get malaria
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Homosexuality is actually a recent term, it didn’t always refer to that.
But there is some evidence to suggest homosexuality survived because it provided a survival advantage for us, which is why it persists until this day.
But even terms like gay and straight don’t cover sexuality. You can’t really box it in even though some powers that be wish they could. It’s quite complicated and not simple at all, and trying to box it in limits people and their feelings as well. I mean we had Bi erasure until recently when people took it seriously.
As for Nature, everything is natural. There is no intent in nature. Our current state is natural as well. Healthy? No. But still natural. Even “man made” stuff is still natural.
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Re: Homosexuality is cool yo [Re: Thanatos10]
#26625201 - 04/24/20 04:59 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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I once read part of a book that was about 1 persons sexual relationship with a dolphin, they had a relationship for almost a year.
Found it when doing research for an abnormal psychology class, and it was pretty out there, so I checked it out.
I wish I could remember the title of it. Absolutely fascinating, and a bit strange by all accounts.  
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The Blind Ass said: I once read part of a book that was about 1 persons sexual relationship with a dolphin, they had a relationship for almost a year.
Found it when doing research for an abnormal psychology class, and it was pretty out there, so I checked it out.
I wish I could remember the title of it. Absolutely fascinating, and a bit strange by all accounts.  
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Wet Godess
Considering animals can’t give consent then such acts seem to be rape.
I’m just trying to argue against Cookiecrumbs and the “design” argument. Nature doesn’t design anything in an intelligent sense, it’s more like shit happens. It could be argued that our current state is the result of thousands of years of evolution.
As for the constructs it could be argued that every species has them to some extent.
Gender and sex do exist for humans though, but the sad thing is that long ago religion decided what’s what and that’s what we went with rather than understand that sexuality and gender are extremely complex. I took a college course on it and was kind of blown away by how different cultures exhibited it.
Alas I get conservatives in this country with an outdated view of what it means to be human telling me how I ought to be rather than understand how I am. I’m not sure about my gender per se but sexuality seems pretty set, but maybe not.
I can agree with Crumbs that it does not matter. Just let people be and focus on the shit that actually harms other people, like climate change
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Re: Homosexuality is cool yo [Re: Thanatos10]
#26625390 - 04/24/20 06:30 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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This thread can get me banned. Have fun with yourselves. And I guess, eachother.
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