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spirit_shadow
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Still missing the point thanatos. You CAN NOT PROVE NOR DISPROVE IT. therefore the most logical thing to do would be to enjoy what you can comprehend.
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I think you're not holding him accountable to adult standards of decency. As I said, I have more experience than anyone should assume I don't have, and there is a difference between lack of empathy and disdain.
Thantos10 I am not trying to be a giant cunt when I say you are blaming the wrong cause. Continuing to blame a condition that is not causing the symptoms is not helpful to the individual. Narcissism has to be confronted differently than most diseases because somewhere between your ear and your brain, narcissism intercepts the signal and twists it into something more palatable to your self-image. Being very direct and not feeding into your bullshit is what I'm doing. You have this gigantic web of bullshit that is your entire world and it's very transparent to someone who has been around narcissistic personality disorder enough to recognize it.
Look you obviously have half the people here snowed and feeling sorry for you. Good for you. You're an excellent narcissist!!! Now, is that making you happy? Possibly. Maybe that's all you need. See, you're cured already.
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I just find it a little weird that you seem to know him so well to make all these assumptions you think are correct about what diagnoses he might have and what kind of person he is. Maybe you are, but you are so certain I can only think of transference at work in your case.
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bound2grow
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Whatever. If you are saying I am unable to judge from afar, you shouldn't follow that up with a judgement from afar of your own. So by any rational standard your comment is nonsensical.
Narcissism is a clearly defined personality disorder and not a nebulous, undefinable illness like ASD. It has definite symptoms and a definite diagnosis. See also DSM. Sometimes, it just isn't that deep, and this is one of those times.
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Regardless, you are not qualified to diagnose it. If you were, the first thing you'd say is that it cannot be diagnosed from some posts on the internet.
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Touche. Well, I don't know him like you do going through all his posts so I have nothing more to say in regards to his personality.
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Re: What is love? [Re: Enlil]
#26629867 - 04/26/20 01:15 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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You have a rational reply Enlil. I'm fine with anyone disagreeing with my opinions as long as they are intellectually consistent. You're correct that I am not able to diagnose him from afar. But, he asked for help. Don't be a hater because you don't like how I am helping him. I didn't have a problem with someone disagreeing with me, I just have a problem with someone saying I judge you to be unable to judge others.
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No hating...just pointing out that your horse isn't quite as high as you purport it to be.
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Re: What is love? [Re: Enlil]
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I'm not sure why you think that directness and honesty, especially when called for, is being on a high horse?
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I'm not sure why you think anything I said had anything to do with either of those traits.
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Thanatos10
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InnerWisdom said: But that's basic philosophy a'la Descartes. "I think therefore I am." He was wondering about the same things, but the obvious conclusion is that you exist, your experience and there is an obvious outer feeling world to it. What's the big deal to get hung up on, I don't get it. Obviously you would kill yourself if you were entirely alone, anyone would being trapped in a void alone. But there is no proof of that!
Well Descartes said that only you can be verified to exist. Not that there is an outer world, remember he had to invent god to get out of it.
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Thanatos10
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spirit_shadow said: Still missing the point thanatos. You CAN NOT PROVE NOR DISPROVE IT. therefore the most logical thing to do would be to enjoy what you can comprehend.
Which is nothing. You keep forgetting that solipsism itself has no true solution. I can’t really enjoy life I’m not sure my choices or actions are having any impact on the people around me. It makes it impossible to love someone or make friends behave I can’t be sure if my efforts are wasted or not.
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Re: What is love? [Re: feevers]
#26630175 - 04/26/20 03:44 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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sorry
No idea what this thread is about, but damn this song is beautiful. Always gets me going.
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"Yo yo just here to spread my clit and show ya'll what a wonderful and free being we are all inside lets take the acid and turn inside into the outside come on over baby lets smell the roses ohh ohh come on we're about to get lit show my undies to your baby I'll hug it down three times go around frown come on we aint a nice clown kiss me upside down down down come on sorry if you cant handle my wokeness come on lets take her panties off write shroomery on my asshole and taste it lick it make if feel like we was 1978 come on baby lets do the locamotion"-Twig dude
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CJ-714
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i think its like a feeling u get when ur with the person u love.. kinda makes u forget abt every thing else and feel good and happy when ur together no matter what
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Re: What is love? [Re: CJ-714]
#26630644 - 04/26/20 07:35 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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CJ-714 said: i think its like a feeling u get when ur with the person u love.. kinda makes u forget abt every thing else and feel good and happy when ur together no matter what
I have heard that mentioned a lot to be honest but I can’t say that I have ever experience such a feeling with another guy. Like even during sex all I can think about is when it’s gonna be over with.
But solipsism is the biggest roadblock for me, there’s just this permanent gap between me and other people and no matter how much I pretend I can’t seem to get over it .
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spirit_shadow
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spirit_shadow said: Still missing the point thanatos. You CAN NOT PROVE NOR DISPROVE IT. therefore the most logical thing to do would be to enjoy what you can comprehend.
Which is nothing. You keep forgetting that solipsism itself has no true solution. I can’t really enjoy life I’m not sure my choices or actions are having any impact on the people around me. It makes it impossible to love someone or make friends behave I can’t be sure if my efforts are wasted or not.
They wont be wasted lol read man, I said ENJOY IT. is it really a waste, fake or not, if you enjoy it?
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Thanatos10
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Thanatos10 said:
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spirit_shadow said: Still missing the point thanatos. You CAN NOT PROVE NOR DISPROVE IT. therefore the most logical thing to do would be to enjoy what you can comprehend.
Which is nothing. You keep forgetting that solipsism itself has no true solution. I can’t really enjoy life I’m not sure my choices or actions are having any impact on the people around me. It makes it impossible to love someone or make friends behave I can’t be sure if my efforts are wasted or not.
They wont be wasted lol read man, I said ENJOY IT. is it really a waste, fake or not, if you enjoy it?
They will be, you need to read to understand why it will be wasted .
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LikeMyc
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Have you tried therapy with someone whom specializes in cases such as yours?
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spirit_shadow
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Re: What is love? [Re: LikeMyc]
#26630766 - 04/26/20 08:54 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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It will not be a waste if you actually let yourself enjoy life. It's a waste that you are not.
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CJ-714
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i didnt think its real to but it happened.. it kinda feels like me and him r in our own world sometimes and all the shitty things just go away for a little.. it happened like right away when he talked to me the first time.. ig u might feel it when that guy talks to u for the first time
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