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Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? 1
#26608834 - 04/17/20 06:57 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Has anyone had a spouse that they love, and they love you, and y’all are cooking dinner, she mostly, but the pressure cooker is running at 15 PSI and she knows you love Mycology, and study it* , but she don’t actually know,
But she wants your children, and your life, but you just trying for some extra cheese, and nobody needs to know but You* ,
And you just living a great life under quarantine.
But you been sober for years, except for alcohol and maybe ever so rarely the Green.
Can any of the distant friends give a word? For Gods sake?just a word
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin] 3
#26608860 - 04/17/20 07:08 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yall don’t even know how good it is
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin]
#26608866 - 04/17/20 07:13 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Do u ever intend to tell her? Or is it a secret you keep forever?
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin] 1
#26608906 - 04/17/20 07:29 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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MajickMuffin said: but the pressure cooker is running at 15 PSI and she knows you love Mycology, and study it* , but she don’t actually know,
she aint that dumb homie.
she know.
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#26608944 - 04/17/20 07:42 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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k00laid said:
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MajickMuffin said: but the pressure cooker is running at 15 PSI and she knows you love Mycology, and study it* , but she don’t actually know,
she aint that dumb homie.
she know.
We’ll she knows I’m growing edible mushrooms *shrug*
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LogicaL Chaos said: Do u ever intend to tell her? Or is it a secret you keep forever?
I’m not Sure yet
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin]
#26608961 - 04/17/20 07:49 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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MajickMuffin said: Well she knows I’m growing edible mushrooms *shrug*
oh, well for my value systems and ethic systems, i would call that a little white lie, and thats not a big deal at all to me.
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: k00laid] 1
#26608989 - 04/17/20 08:01 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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k00laid said:
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MajickMuffin said: Well she knows I’m growing edible mushrooms *shrug*
oh, well for my value systems and ethic systems, i would call that a little white lie, and thats not a big deal at all to me.
That’s kinda how I’m thinking of it. But this is a woman that I’ve built a solid foundation with, over the course of over a Years time and a lot within. And I haven’t grown even edible mushrooms for Years,,
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin]
#26609005 - 04/17/20 08:08 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Definitely a long held secret. Im guessing she really hates psychedelics?
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin] 3
#26609018 - 04/17/20 08:12 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Lying to the wife is never a good plan. She'll find out and hold it against you for decades, even if she doesn't give a shit about psychedelics.
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 1
#26609021 - 04/17/20 08:13 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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She is actually intrigued by them, and also because she knows my Past, I used to be into psyehcedelics hardcore back in my day, she she has heard stories. But only stories.
I’ve been sober from All hard drugs for almost 4 years now, and I don’t even intend on using mushrooms at all.
She smokes weed and drinks. And is tempted by psychedelics but has never had any.
My initial intention is to keep this a secret until it’s over with.
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Ahab McBathsalts said: Lying to the wife is never a good plan. She'll find out and hold it against you for decades, even if she doesn't give a shit about psychedelics.
Thanks for the input, I’m listening It’s already In full fledged process!
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin]
#26609044 - 04/17/20 08:20 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah man, I'd say be honest with her. Even if she's upset, I think she'll at least be happy that you told her and that she means enough to you to be honest with her. Who knows, she may surprise you and be more interested in psychedelics than you think. Good luck, friend!
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin]
#26609262 - 04/17/20 10:32 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah, well if you've done it for this long I'd definitely wait until you're done growing before you tell her. If you think it may be an issue at all.
I don't know her at all but one little argument could change your life. 
But it's kind of shitty and I don't think I'd be able to do it. But now you're in, lol.
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Don't make a big deal out of it if you do tell her though. Just drop it in conversation and move along as if it's normal. It doesn't need to be a big deal. Just don't tell anyone else though, or you compromise her safety and freedom as well as your own.
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin]
#26609591 - 04/18/20 04:43 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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na man
my lady hid all kinds of shit from me for years but i never hid my shroomz, even tho she never fucked with em
i treat lies to a lover like 7up
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin]
#26609695 - 04/18/20 06:36 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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It's not going to work.
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: Brian Jones]
#26609696 - 04/18/20 06:37 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Sometimes people just get married without thinking these things through.
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: Brian Jones]
#26609758 - 04/18/20 07:32 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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MajickMuffin mentioned the wife is curious about shrooms, just maybe not the selling them for profit thing. So its not a total "OH SHIT, GOTTA KEEP THIS SECRET" situation
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#26610294 - 04/18/20 11:50 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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I grew under my dad's roof when I was younger unknown to him. I never sold, but it's breaking trust and it could make you have a you vs them mentality and erode the relationship.
I say be open about it, especially if she's curious and your wife. Except maybe if she's vengeful and there's the risk she'll use it against you. In that case, grow edibles for cover.
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin] 4
#26610328 - 04/18/20 12:04 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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no.
I certainly wouldnt keep a secret like that from my wife. the implications from being caught with shit like that affects her life too, profoundly even. partners in a marriage represent a team, I dont believe secrets should be kept from one another, aside from birthday surprises or really minor shit that doesnt have a serious impact on the trust between the two of you.
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: ManianFH]
#26610459 - 04/18/20 12:42 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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I agree with this, but her not knowing actually keeps her safe. If there is a time where he gets caught and the police question them, then it will be easier if she 100% does not know.
If he or she isn't lying about her ignorance on it, then it will be a lot easier to prove if it's true. Just my opinion.
It's definitely still shitty to not give her the choice to accept it or not, but it keeps her freedom safe this way.
I wouldn't do this and couldn't because I don't lie or keep secrets from most people. Especially with someone that close.
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: Distorted Vision] 2
#26610660 - 04/18/20 02:10 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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She’s not my Wife yet, we are dating but we want to get married one day, but there’s complexities in between and certain reasons make it so we Cannot get married for a while.
Sorry if I didn’t make that clear, we don’t live together yet but she stays with me for days often.
We’ve been dating for over 1 year.
I’ve been listening and reading everyone’s input, and it’s very much appreciated!
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin] 1
#26610664 - 04/18/20 02:11 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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well that is entirely different
if you're not living together and not married, don't tell her
you don't want that shit exploding back on you when you end it
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin] 1
#26610670 - 04/18/20 02:13 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Oh y'all don't even live together? Yep, secret it is. I thought you were living with her, then I felt like it was pretty shitty. But now I think it's just smart of you.
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Yea that was my fault from how I worded it at first. Silly me, sometimes when your close you see her as a ‘spouse’ but no it’s not quite there yet.
Thanks y’all.
I think with all the input, I’ll keep it a secret.
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Distorted Vision said: Yeah, well if you've done it for this long I'd definitely wait until you're done growing before you tell her. If you think it may be an issue at all.
I don't know her at all but one little argument could change your life. 
But it's kind of shitty and I don't think I'd be able to do it. But now you're in, lol.
This. Rule #1 of fight club. But given that you have a number 2, it may be necessary to hedge your bet. Be safe.
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