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Distorted Vision
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: ManianFH]
#26610459 - 04/18/20 12:42 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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I agree with this, but her not knowing actually keeps her safe. If there is a time where he gets caught and the police question them, then it will be easier if she 100% does not know.
If he or she isn't lying about her ignorance on it, then it will be a lot easier to prove if it's true. Just my opinion.
It's definitely still shitty to not give her the choice to accept it or not, but it keeps her freedom safe this way.
I wouldn't do this and couldn't because I don't lie or keep secrets from most people. Especially with someone that close.
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"Yo yo just here to spread my clit and show ya'll what a wonderful and free being we are all inside lets take the acid and turn inside into the outside come on over baby lets smell the roses ohh ohh come on we're about to get lit show my undies to your baby I'll hug it down three times go around frown come on we aint a nice clown kiss me upside down down down come on sorry if you cant handle my wokeness come on lets take her panties off write shroomery on my asshole and taste it lick it make if feel like we was 1978 come on baby lets do the locamotion"-Twig dude
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MajickMuffin
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: Distorted Vision] 2
#26610660 - 04/18/20 02:10 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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She’s not my Wife yet, we are dating but we want to get married one day, but there’s complexities in between and certain reasons make it so we Cannot get married for a while.
Sorry if I didn’t make that clear, we don’t live together yet but she stays with me for days often.
We’ve been dating for over 1 year.
I’ve been listening and reading everyone’s input, and it’s very much appreciated!
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pixelpopper
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin] 1
#26610664 - 04/18/20 02:11 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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well that is entirely different
if you're not living together and not married, don't tell her
you don't want that shit exploding back on you when you end it
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Distorted Vision
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Re: Growing mushrooms a secret from the spouse? [Re: MajickMuffin] 1
#26610670 - 04/18/20 02:13 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Oh y'all don't even live together? Yep, secret it is. I thought you were living with her, then I felt like it was pretty shitty. But now I think it's just smart of you.
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"Yo yo just here to spread my clit and show ya'll what a wonderful and free being we are all inside lets take the acid and turn inside into the outside come on over baby lets smell the roses ohh ohh come on we're about to get lit show my undies to your baby I'll hug it down three times go around frown come on we aint a nice clown kiss me upside down down down come on sorry if you cant handle my wokeness come on lets take her panties off write shroomery on my asshole and taste it lick it make if feel like we was 1978 come on baby lets do the locamotion"-Twig dude
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MajickMuffin
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Yea that was my fault from how I worded it at first. Silly me, sometimes when your close you see her as a ‘spouse’ but no it’s not quite there yet.
Thanks y’all.
I think with all the input, I’ll keep it a secret.
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AroundtheSon
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Quote:
Distorted Vision said: Yeah, well if you've done it for this long I'd definitely wait until you're done growing before you tell her. If you think it may be an issue at all.
I don't know her at all but one little argument could change your life. 
But it's kind of shitty and I don't think I'd be able to do it. But now you're in, lol.
This. Rule #1 of fight club. But given that you have a number 2, it may be necessary to hedge your bet. Be safe.
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