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Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? * 1
    #26570075 - 03/31/20 09:37 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

My fiancee has always been into extremely violent sex and turned on by rape. That can be a little off-putting on it's own. Recently, she's started masturbating to non-sexual violence. For some reason, it's so much more disturbing to me. I feel like when the sexual component is removed it's just not the same and it really kind of freaks me out.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #26573083 - 04/02/20 11:17 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Yeah that is not normal. I would tell them that, and that it's freaking you out. If that doesn't change their mind, I'd gtfo of that relationship


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #26573334 - 04/02/20 01:37 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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Recently, she's started masturbating to non-sexual violence.



I'd find that pretty damn troubling too.

I suggest talking about it extensively with her.

Have you tried to broach it yet?


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #26573882 - 04/02/20 07:27 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Non-sexual violence? Yikes thats not good. U definitely need to talk to her about that.

Do you think shes a dangerous person? Would she ever physically harm you for sexual pleasure even when u didnt want it? :eek: :omgz:


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #26574141 - 04/02/20 10:27 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I psychoanalyze people too well to not be disturbed by "I want you to hit and dominate me." The only time I've known that to not be tied to abuse is when they're super dominant in ever day life and that's not my type to begin with.
The act itself is whatever to me but the psychological damage that spurs it makes me uncomfortable.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #26574148 - 04/02/20 10:32 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I'll think on this case in particular op.

I haven't known anyone personally who got off on "nonsexual violence." But I used to hang out in bdsm spheres.

What kind of violence btw? Is it the pain or blood or exertion or what? Is it men and women or only men?


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 1
    #26592602 - 04/11/20 02:37 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I told her right when she told me that I thought it wasn't very healthy. She mostly seemed to feel guilty or ashamed and I moved to another topic. It still was just weird enough to me to post it here.

As for the kind of violence, it's beating and the girl screaming or crying. She has this weird thing where she likes to look at dead girls too. I'm not sure the extent of it or what she gets out of it but she can spend hours looking at cute corpses. If we're ever on DocumentingReality or a similar site, she really likes to see the girl alive and then dead. Again, I really don't know what she gets from it, I just know she likes it.

As for the domineering in normal life, I'd say yes and no. She's not the type to go around giving orders, but she's also not the type to follow any orders. She likes to flex her emotional control over people. I guess a fairly disturbing situation in hindsight: One day we go to a new vape shop. The owner is a really cool guy and we have a couple beers. Eventually, his wife comes in and she looks very upset and won't really make eye contact. My fiancee suddenly got the idea to ask for a pen before she wrote our phone number (shared phone back then) and gave it to the owner as if they had been making plans before his wife walked in. She clearly did it to make the guy's wife feel insecure.

I asked her why she did that and she said the wife's face pissed her off. It must've worked because the next time I went alone, the owner told me my fiancee was an evil person and that I should be careful around her.




In response to Logical_Chaos, it's hard to say. Do I think she's dangerous to me? No. Do I think she is dangerous in general? Yeah. She has a very weird hatred for deformed people or mentally handicapped folks. Since she's studying to become a doctor, I've thought about her quietly offing patients she deems unworthy of life.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #26594385 - 04/11/20 09:44 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Ohhhh, she's training to be a physician. This all makes more sense now. Good thing you wrote anomalously-- wouldn't want this to ever come up in a court case.

Best wishes, I hope she gets some professional help.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #26594543 - 04/11/20 10:51 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I wonder then if she's getting off on controlling her natural abhorrence to seeing such things.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #26594607 - 04/11/20 11:30 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Damn, that's kinda scary :eek:

She sounds like she has a real dark side. Dark and twisted. Ive known the type. Like polar ends of the spectrum. Its a weird combo.

I would be careful around her. She sounds unpredictable.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #26599233 - 04/13/20 10:45 PM (3 years, 9 months ago)

Reminds me of a couple Dean Koontz books. Mr. Murder I believe is the title of one of them.

Doctors that kill for the "greater good". She wants to kill but is giving herself an excuse to kill. She wants to "help society" by getting rid of the ones that can't contribute enough or are holding others back.

The fact that you're with her and know all of this makes you a bad person in my eyes honestly. I could never be around anyone that hates any kind of handicapped or deformed person. My dad was that way even though he is the furthest thing from perfect that I know.

Ditch her and become a better person and also report her so she can never become a doctor please. I'm looking for the exact words that describe her that I learned from the Dean Koontz books.

If she is this twisted, you can never trust her.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Distorted Vision]
    #26599243 - 04/13/20 11:02 PM (3 years, 9 months ago)

I can't find it and it's pissing me off. I believe it was at the end of his book 'Mr. Murder' that he talks about how there's been many doctors in the past with this ideology and how truly frightening it is.

She probably looks up to "The angel of death" or Harold Shipman, a doctor believed to have killed around 250 in England with this ideology.

Please don't allow this woman to have power over other's lives.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Distorted Vision]
    #26599278 - 04/13/20 11:33 PM (3 years, 9 months ago)

It's been kind of refreshing to share these things. She can be an extremely dark person and it's nice to be able to share it anonymously without her being judged harshly IRL. She is certainly of a mixed nature. She's had full-on breakdowns when we've interacted with homeless people because it's too much for her to bear. She also has extreme empathy for the elderly. She despises one of my friends because she is poor but when that friend's father needed medicine, even though we didn't really have the money, she begged me to buy it for him.

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I wonder then if she's getting off on controlling her natural abhorrence to seeing such things.




I've considered this possibility. I've always had a theory that some of the most out of control people wish to be sexually controlled, both male and female. I think it's especially common in females because it's related to a father figure putting them in their place (she likes to call me "daddy"). She never much had a father figure.

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I would be careful around her. She sounds unpredictable.




While I always am, I actually trust her with my life. As dark as she can be, she has morals and hasn't strayed from them. After being raped, she tried to convince the guy he was marked for death but otherwise took few actions. To my knowledge, she's never falsely accused anyone of rape or abuse which would be my biggest concerns.

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The fact that you're with her and know all of this makes you a bad person in my eyes honestly. I could never be around anyone that hates any kind of handicapped or deformed person. My dad was that way even though he is the furthest thing from perfect that I know.




Many would certainly say so. She holds a lot of ideas that can be a bit off-putting. I try to temper them often but some are deeply rooted. She cannot, under any circumstances empathize with black people. I tried to show her this heart-breaking scene from a documentary from Zimbabwe in which a mother was dying from AIDS and being taken care of by her toddler daughter. After the mom dies, the toddler, and this is heart-wrenching said she was relieved that her mother was dead. My fiancee said "ewwww, why do you show me these disgusting creatures?!" It's some kind of mental block. At the same time, she'll be sobbing over something she saw from Korea. That bothers me quite a bit, but she is who she is.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #26599300 - 04/13/20 11:54 PM (3 years, 9 months ago)

Yeah, she sounds like my dad. I still think anyone that spends time around people like that is enabling their hatred while sacrificing their own morals.

I'd still make sure she can't get her medical license 100%, not only for others but for herself. She sounds like she will get herself into trouble. Her hatred is too deep to pass up the chance to take lives or at least complicate them if she has the easy chance to do so.

Just like pedophiles get jobs to get close to children, she will desire a job to give her that power that she's always wanted. To pick and choose who is bettered by medicine.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Distorted Vision] * 1
    #26602065 - 04/15/20 04:15 AM (3 years, 9 months ago)

I’m interested in hearing more stories, this chick truly sound fascinating and terrifying.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #26604605 - 04/16/20 01:34 AM (3 years, 9 months ago)

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Anonymous #1 said:
My fiancee has always been into extremely violent sex and turned on by rape. That can be a little off-putting on it's own. Recently, she's started masturbating to non-sexual violence. For some reason, it's so much more disturbing to me. I feel like when the sexual component is removed it's just not the same and it really kind of freaks me out.




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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: yeah] * 2
    #26604629 - 04/16/20 01:51 AM (3 years, 9 months ago)

If for some reason it doesn’t work out you can pass her my way. Sounds like my kinda girl. Maybe try fulfilling her fantasies a little? Choke her, tell her how beautiful her corpse would be, how you’d like to paint the walls with her thoughts stuff like that.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #26604878 - 04/16/20 05:22 AM (3 years, 9 months ago)

coo


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #26608270 - 04/17/20 02:19 PM (3 years, 9 months ago)

A beautiful woman I once dated told me to swallow my own cum after I came on her tits. She asked me to do this a few times so I tried it once. I Didnt like it but i couldnt refuse because this woman was gorgeous.

Another woman once licked my ass and I also didnt like it. I couldnt refuse though because this was the deal in order for her to allow me to lick hers.


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Re: Has a partner's fetish ever freaked you out? [Re: Double] * 2
    #26609279 - 04/17/20 10:42 PM (3 years, 9 months ago)

Fuuck I loved when my ex wife would eat my ass while going down on me. A lil prostate massage too is nice


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