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Anonymous #1
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Just not into bigger girls 1
#26568450 - 03/31/20 05:01 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Let me just start by saying, I don't like hurting people, not with actions or words.. I do not consider myself to be really that superficial.
But I just do not find bigger women attractive.
Body positivity is becoming an ever more prominent part of our culture, and in a lot of ways it is definitely a good thing.
But in a lot of ways, it is very one sided as far as men/women go.
If a woman isnt attracted to "husky" men its really no big deal.
But if a guy isnt into "bbw" hes a shallow asshole.
It just makes me feel kind of guilty because I try to be accepting and understanding with everyone.
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Anonymous #2
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Yeah I feel the same. Different strokes for different folks. As long as you don't attack or offend what's the big deal? I have somethings that turn me on and some that turn me off. Double standards are not unheard of when it comes to certain things. It's not a racial or socioeconomic bias. Anyone should understand if someone doesn't find them attractive for whatever reason. We all have a type. I like short petite women mostly, does that make me a bad guy?
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Anonymous #3
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Cant change your perferences. 
Im definitely not that attracted to BBWs. Small BBWs sure but the huge ladies, nah. I'll pass.
Theres nothing wrong with saying "No" to a BBW. Just be gentle about your personal preferences for HWP women and it should work out fine.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Just not into bigger girls [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#26574167 - 04/02/20 10:41 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Same. They don't have to be super skinny but I like to be able to pick them up, flip around and blend into positions plus stamina is important
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Just not into bigger girls [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#26592618 - 04/11/20 02:53 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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To each their own. My fiancee has gained like 15 pounds in quarantine and I love the way she looks and feels right now. She wasn't fat to begin with though.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Just not into bigger girls [Re: Anonymous #5] 1
#26593537 - 04/11/20 01:30 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Kind of reminds me of Viva. Sorry to bring that up. The fatter she got the more people wanted to plow her.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Just not into bigger girls [Re: Anonymous #6] 1
#26595409 - 04/12/20 10:12 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Same. I honestly wish that I could get it up. I already know that I cant do that for them.
Thick chicks are pretty hot.
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Anonymous #8
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Fat chicks are gross. I cant get it up for them. I met one girl years ago, in the days of the no strings attached Craigslist section, that was bigger than she led me to believe. We were suppose to fuck, but twice we tried to get rolling and I lost my wood before i could get in her all the way cause I just wasnt into it. She ended up blowing me, I blew in her mouth and then never answered any of her calls the next day.
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Anonymous #3
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Thicc is hot. Fat is Not.
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Anonymous #9
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Sometimes I wonder if people who say these things have ever been in a relationship with someone who's weight cycled. When a thin woman gets big then she gets thin again, some of us have a tendency to miss when she was bigger, because, omg, have you ever felt that?
Fuuuck, so sensational. So much to love.  999
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Anonymous #10
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I've been with a few bigger girls. They're good for a ride but even the ones I semi dated I didn't really take them out and be seen with them in public
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Anonymous #6
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Its embarrassing. They can ride it though
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Anonymous #3
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Wont you get crushed thou?
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Anonymous #11
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Everyone likes something different.
As we get more into the offended group, and not discriminating.
Even my simple tastes, might be seen as shallow.
I like my women, like I like my coffee.
Without a penis.
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Anonymous #6
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Much better without the penis and two spoons of sugar sweeten her up and some cream but def black or light latte color without the penis is better then anything else
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Anonymous #4
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Quote:
Anonymous #11 said: Everyone likes something different.
As we get more into the offended group, and not discriminating.
Even my simple tastes, might be seen as shallow.
I like my women, like I like my coffee.
Without a penis.
Same here.... unless the're really hott, it's not bigger then mine, and my friends dont find out.
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Anonymous #12
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Re: Just not into bigger girls [Re: Anonymous #4] 1
#26695328 - 05/25/20 04:46 PM (3 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm defined as bigger. My stomachs flat. But I'm all hips & breasts. Until COVID, I worked out every day the last 5 years. I think you can be bigger & not gross. I have gained weight & lost muscle during isolation. But I still don't have rolls. I'd post a pic if I could.. not a sexual one. But idk how. But you can't control what your attracted to... I can't. I'm not attracted to men that are extremely overweight. And i think it's a personal preference.
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Anonymous #13
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Nothing to be ashamed about if you're not attracted to someone. The same applies the other way too, no one should be too hurt or offended if they're not someone's "type."
Attraction is an interesting phenomenon. When it comes to myself there is practically no pattern at all.
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Anonymous #3
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I like Thick Hips and Boobs. As long as its not too much. I think its sexy. Upload to your gallery using the "Pics" link and you should have a photo uploaded.
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Anonymous #6
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Quote:
Anonymous #13 said: Nothing to be ashamed about if you're not attracted to someone. The same applies the other way too, no one should be too hurt or offended if they're not someone's "type."
Attraction is an interesting phenomenon. When it comes to myself there is practically no pattern at all.
I notice that same exact shit. I never know what woman I will meet some seem very hot at first then turn out to be very dumb. Others seem very dumb then turn out to be very hot.
I guess a bitch could be fat and you want to fuck her. To me what qualifies a woman getting into my heart is if she rips off those panties and sits her ass right on my cock and I just shove it on up her ass and hell yeah.
But yeah personality goes a long ways defining looks. I like feet too. Socks. A bitch who sends socks to me through the mail for sure has my heart for life if she is just the tiniest bit pretty.
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Anonymous #14
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Quote:
Anonymous #12 said: I'm defined as bigger. My stomachs flat. But I'm all hips & breasts. Until COVID, I worked out every day the last 5 years. I think you can be bigger & not gross. I have gained weight & lost muscle during isolation. But I still don't have rolls. I'd post a pic if I could.. not a sexual one. But idk how.
Yes please, come back anon 12.
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Anonymous #3
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Pro tip when you have sex with a bigger woman: Go Doggie Style, dont do Missionary and definitely no Cowgirl position.
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Anonymous #15
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Quote:
Anonymous #3 said: Pro tip when you have sex with a bigger woman: Go Doggie Style, dont do Missionary and definitely no Cowgirl position.
cool thanks
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Anonymous #14
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Yeah it's all about that butt momentum. Generating powerful shock waves through those ass cheeks makes me feel strong and like I have a big dick. And there is a mesmerizing symmetry to the way that ass moves.
Honestly though I did have to learn to get turned on by a bigger woman at first. A lot is just media programming and porn. If you're going to watch porn, watch it with all different body sizes and races I think. If pretty much every woman is pretty hot to you, then the potential field of partners is any woman who's interested (within personality compatibility constraints.)
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Anonymous #10
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Re: Just not into bigger girls [Re: Anonymous #3] 1
#26755467 - 06/18/20 07:58 PM (3 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous #3 said: Pro tip when you have sex with a bigger woman: Go Doggie Style, dont do Missionary and definitely no Cowgirl position.
I dunno I had a really fat bitch go cowgirl. I was more amazed that she could hold her body weight up and ride well.
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Anonymous #1
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L0L! *legendary
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Anonymous #16
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Fat chicks definitely give the best head. I've got a pretty big dick and I've never met a skinny bitch who can open their throat and take the whole thing.
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Anonymous #3
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Big Girls win 
I'll take a thicci girl thou.
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Anonymous #3
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The lady ive been chatting to that i met on a video game just revealed that she is a bigger girl. She was about to exchange pics with me too. I had a feeling she was. Sad. Oh well, i cant change my preferences.
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Anonymous #12
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 Interesting thread As a woman it’s interesting . I’ve never been a small petite girl & when younger I hated it. I spent the first 20 years hiding my body. Thinking I needed to be 120 to be ok I’m 49 now Body shaming hurts Preference doesn’t hurt Unless you start putting people down or generalizing I’ve never chased anyone nor am I rejected I do ok. Idk how attractive I am but I’m ok with me My weight fluctuates because I work out I’ve been with men of all sizes except very very obese Men & women are different I’m sexually attracted to a man when I have a connection No matter what his physical appearance- im not attracted until I connect Best sex ive had is with men that love & understand a woman’s body Men that enjoy sex Truly enjoy That’s everything!! A man with emotional intelligence, enjoys sex - Yes please If I limited myself to a physical criteria I would of missed some of the best experience, relationships, flings in my life

Edited by Anonymous (10/01/22 12:22 AM)
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Anonymous #17
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I don’t think it’s as big a deal as a lot think it is. If I see a guy with a big lass, however big, I don’t really bat an eyelid. I think most don’t, at least in 21st century UK. It’s only assholes that feel inclined to judge. Go with who you want. In terms of sex-life, IME at least, there is no correlation AT ALL between ‘good looks’ and quality of sex.
I do agree, however, that curvy/soft = good and nice, but obese, fat and healthy is definitely not. In this sometimes overly PC world these two are often confused which isn’t healthy, and I don’t think BIG should be encouraged or marketed as ‘beautiful’.
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Anonymous #6
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Anonymous #3 said: Pro tip when you have sex with a bigger woman: Go Doggie Style, dont do Missionary and definitely no Cowgirl position.
Cowgirl was a really big girl is like expecting to have a crushed pelvic bone
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Anonymous #3
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If she rides too hard, you're going straight to the hospital!
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Anonymous #6
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Anonymous #3 said: If she rides too hard, you're going straight to the hospital!
Ouch!
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Anonymous #18
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Tbh the smallest girl I've been with rode me the hardest and she was pretty smol
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Anonymous #6
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Rode it hard and put it back in the barn wet
Ride it ride it like a cowboy ride it ride that sucker on through
Immense pleasure for the cock when she rocks it like that
Sex so good the beats don't stop when you hip hop it like that
Fuck all the way through the 12th Overture when she can ride you like a train and she's the precious cargo
Rock it while its inside her until you feel the pain because the sex is better than Robbie Margo
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Anonymous #19
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No fat chicks. If you're gonna have standards you gotta stick to em.
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Anonymous #20
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Most of us aren’t, it’s natural.
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Anonymous #12
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Out of curiousity..are the people who are not into bigger girls, are you in shape?
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Anonymous #6
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Like a Man In Shape isn't a bigger girls but a man not in shape is not into bigger girls?
Well I can tell you sir that I'm in great shape super athletic. So I guess by that standard I will be the first one to bang the fat girl
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Anonymous #12
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lol I was just curious. I’m a woman At times I have heard men body shame women when they would be considered fat men.
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Anonymous #3
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Im average weight and shape. For me, my preference is average weight, petite or a little thicc. But not too much, just a little.
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Anonymous #21
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I really tried! Big girls are awesome! They give me allowances and fix me delicious meals.
When you get pushed into the wall by her backing that ass up, it hurts.
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Anonymous #22
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Why does your attraction to her have any relevance to whether she is allowed to feel good about her body? How egotistical.
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Anonymous #23
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I am both big and overweight. Tall, large-framed, well-developed muscles, AND some excess body fat.
I'd like to get my BMI down into the normal range, but I'll still remain a big dude either way. When I get closer to my ideal body weight, I definitely notice more attention from women. But not all THAT much more. It seems like a lot of the women who would have a problem with my excess weight tend to date shorter/smaller guys anyway.
I'm very into sexual dimorphism. A woman who's overweight- not obese, just overweight- is fine with me. But I'm still going to like her better if she's short, petite, and small-framed. I like a woman I can throw around.
That said, I'd prefer a woman who's slightly overweight to one who's slightly underweight any day of the week.
In actual practical terms, though, I'm attracted to the same individual women year in and year out, and their weight fluctuations don't really matter much to me.
I can't help but feel that people who are morbidly obese are suffering from a serious addiction and mental health-related condition. No different than an alcoholic working overtime to blow out their liver, or a tweaker dead-set on losing all their teeth. I don't find any of that particularly attractive. And I do feel that obesity is slightly different from some of the other things that people talk about when discussing body positivity, as it's something that we do have some control over, compared to things like height/skin color/breast size/penis size etc.
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Anonymous #12
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I liked your response You spoke respectfully Thank you
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Anonymous #24
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Anonymous #23 said: I like a woman I can throw around.
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Anonymous #25
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I've noticed a pattern of Nigerians in my Area being "attracted" to a certain large, white, female, stereotype. My honest opinion is these women are insecure and easily manipulated. 3 or 4 kids differnt ethnicities. Fat AF white chick. A Nigerian green card cow.
If you will.
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Anonymous #23
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Anonymous #25 said: I've noticed a pattern of Nigerians in my Area being "attracted" to a certain large, white, female, stereotype. My honest opinion is these women are insecure and easily manipulated. 3 or 4 kids differnt ethnicities. Fat AF white chick. A Nigerian green card cow.
If you will.
Different strokes for different folks.
I've known guys with no compelling reason who also seek those women out.
Insecurity might be part of the equation, but I don't think it's all of it.
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Anonymous #26
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I've got a buddy who's done dating fat chicks. His selection process is, if her gut sticks out past her tits, no go; if her tits stick out past her gut, good to go.
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