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Anonymous #12
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lol I was just curious. I’m a woman At times I have heard men body shame women when they would be considered fat men.
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Anonymous #3
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Im average weight and shape. For me, my preference is average weight, petite or a little thicc. But not too much, just a little.
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Anonymous #21
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I really tried! Big girls are awesome! They give me allowances and fix me delicious meals.
When you get pushed into the wall by her backing that ass up, it hurts.
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Anonymous #22
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Why does your attraction to her have any relevance to whether she is allowed to feel good about her body? How egotistical.
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Anonymous #23
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I am both big and overweight. Tall, large-framed, well-developed muscles, AND some excess body fat.
I'd like to get my BMI down into the normal range, but I'll still remain a big dude either way. When I get closer to my ideal body weight, I definitely notice more attention from women. But not all THAT much more. It seems like a lot of the women who would have a problem with my excess weight tend to date shorter/smaller guys anyway.
I'm very into sexual dimorphism. A woman who's overweight- not obese, just overweight- is fine with me. But I'm still going to like her better if she's short, petite, and small-framed. I like a woman I can throw around.
That said, I'd prefer a woman who's slightly overweight to one who's slightly underweight any day of the week.
In actual practical terms, though, I'm attracted to the same individual women year in and year out, and their weight fluctuations don't really matter much to me.
I can't help but feel that people who are morbidly obese are suffering from a serious addiction and mental health-related condition. No different than an alcoholic working overtime to blow out their liver, or a tweaker dead-set on losing all their teeth. I don't find any of that particularly attractive. And I do feel that obesity is slightly different from some of the other things that people talk about when discussing body positivity, as it's something that we do have some control over, compared to things like height/skin color/breast size/penis size etc.
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Anonymous #12
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I liked your response You spoke respectfully Thank you
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Anonymous #24
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Quote:
Anonymous #23 said: I like a woman I can throw around.
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Anonymous #25
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I've noticed a pattern of Nigerians in my Area being "attracted" to a certain large, white, female, stereotype. My honest opinion is these women are insecure and easily manipulated. 3 or 4 kids differnt ethnicities. Fat AF white chick. A Nigerian green card cow.
If you will.
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Anonymous #23
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Quote:
Anonymous #25 said: I've noticed a pattern of Nigerians in my Area being "attracted" to a certain large, white, female, stereotype. My honest opinion is these women are insecure and easily manipulated. 3 or 4 kids differnt ethnicities. Fat AF white chick. A Nigerian green card cow.
If you will.
Different strokes for different folks.
I've known guys with no compelling reason who also seek those women out.
Insecurity might be part of the equation, but I don't think it's all of it.
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Anonymous #26
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I've got a buddy who's done dating fat chicks. His selection process is, if her gut sticks out past her tits, no go; if her tits stick out past her gut, good to go.
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