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Define a bad friend. 1
#26564524 - 03/29/20 05:09 AM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Is there Any general guide lines as to when you might be being a bad friend? Seems this is different to being a bad human being prehaps as sometimes despicable acts are covered up by friends. How do you tell if you've done something wrong in another individual'seyes(perhaps this is is a difficult task without another individual's say)
Most importantly of all, when is it time to let a friend go? If you take the time to answer any questions I'd consider this the most important. Thank you all.
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Buckomcdoogle
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Someone who is manipulative.... Someone who is a moocher... Someone who makes you feel anxious when you arent around them.
Intuition. Trust your gut. They say the first feelings you have about a situation are usually right. I wish I had listened to my instincts more in the past.
I think its kind of like being an alcoholic.
If you think you "might" be an alcoholic, you are most definitely an alcoholic.
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Edited by Buckomcdoogle (03/29/20 05:49 AM)
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cez

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If your friend gossips and talks negatively about other friends when they’re not around, it’s reasonable to assume they talk that way about you when you’re not around.
A good friend will be transparent with you. If you’ve done something wrong, they should tel you.
Trust yourself on letting friends go. A good friend is rare. If you have a hunch that a person is not good for you, they probably aren’t. If you can’t trust a person, they should be let go.
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LogicaL Chaos
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I would define a "bad friend" as someone who brings misery, emotional (or physical) pain to you and typically makes your life a living Hell.
A bad friend is selfish and wants only whats good for them at your expense. Ive definitely have had some moments where I had bad friends come into my life. Its usually they have lots of good characteristics mixed with some bad ones that make you question the friendship you have with them.
If the relationship is more negative than positive with your friend, then its DEFINITELY time to let go of that person.
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DisturbedEnby
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I think it’s all about intentions. Are you sincere? Do you have their best interest? Do they matter to you?
If you say No then could probably consider yourself a bad friend. If pissed my friends off many times, have been a bitch, or else a bit toxic. I think we’re humans and all have less great character traits on us that should not be tolerated but certainly not completely demonized, either, so a “bad friend”, generally, does probably not care about you, and most certainly does not want to see you succeed or do great...
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