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OfflineSkizor1337
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Tripping after breakup
    #26528746 - 03/11/20 08:37 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

How long should one wait to trip after having a breakup?
Breakup happened a few months ago
The breakup was civil and were still friends. No hard feelings we just didn’t have the connection I was looking for.

Have not tripped solo in a while. Not sure what to expect etc...

Anyone have any advice?


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Re: Tripping after breakup [Re: Skizor1337]
    #26528760 - 03/11/20 08:49 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I noticed your sig says professional psychonaut? Bad trips have taught me the most. Set and setting... Seeing as your asking I'm guessing there is probably/likely some fear going on there. Once that clears up and there's nothing else fogging your view it will just happen. In other words You'll know when. focus/meditate on something positive such as gratitude eat healthy appreciate nature and the universe for a week or however long to create a better internal set and then when you're feeling alot freer and comfortable go for it. That is my advice.


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Re: Tripping after breakup [Re: Zen999]
    #26528811 - 03/11/20 09:27 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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I noticed your sig says professional psychonaut? Bad trips have taught me the most. Set and setting... Seeing as your asking I'm guessing there is probably/likely some fear going on there. Once that clears up and there's nothing else fogging your view it will just happen. In other words You'll know when. focus/meditate on something positive such as gratitude eat healthy appreciate nature and the universe for a week or however long to create a better internal set and then when you're feeling alot freer and comfortable go for it. That is my advice.




I used to only trip alone for yearssss.
Then I met my GF and life changed.

Now I’m back to solo again haha.

Thanks for the advice I was considering doing it this weekend but I may wait.
I get anxiety thinking about it just because it’s not as routine as it once was. I plan on getting back into the routine of at least once a month as before


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Re: Tripping after breakup [Re: Skizor1337]
    #26528830 - 03/11/20 09:47 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I don’t think there’s really any set in stone, defined time.  You could do it as soon as the front door closes really.  It’s just gut instinct with these things.  A happy mix of don’t jump in the pool before there’s water in it mixed with don’t sit around and psyche yourself out by making a mountain out of a mole hill.

When you feel froggish, leap..


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Re: Tripping after breakup [Re: Amanita86]
    #26529003 - 03/11/20 11:32 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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I don’t think there’s really any set in stone, defined time.  You could do it as soon as the front door closes really.  It’s just gut instinct with these things.  A happy mix of don’t jump in the pool before there’s water in it mixed with don’t sit around and psyche yourself out by making a mountain out of a mole hill.

When you feel froggish, leap..




I appreciate that !!!
Perfect way to put things man.


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Re: Tripping after breakup [Re: Skizor1337]
    #26530239 - 03/12/20 03:42 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

IMO if there's nothing else wrong with you and if I were in your shoes, I'd say you should have tripped by now :p


Psychedelics are so variable though. I got out of a 4 year relationship and in the first few months they were actually helping me be very cold & stoic and goal-oriented about moving on and focusing on creating art & fitness and finding a new girlfriend...

like two years later a random medium-dose trip made me realize I missed that girl and I longed to hold her & tell her I'm sorry and that I loved her... I still even wish I could, but at the same time if it's black or white and that would be opening up us being together again, I know we'd never last and it'd be bad.


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Re: Tripping after breakup [Re: CMACD]
    #26532334 - 03/13/20 09:12 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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IMO if there's nothing else wrong with you and if I were in your shoes, I'd say you should have tripped by now :p


Psychedelics are so variable though. I got out of a 4 year relationship and in the first few months they were actually helping me be very cold & stoic and goal-oriented about moving on and focusing on creating art & fitness and finding a new girlfriend...

like two years later a random medium-dose trip made me realize I missed that girl and I longed to hold her & tell her I'm sorry and that I loved her... I still even wish I could, but at the same time if it's black or white and that would be opening up us being together again, I know we'd never last and it'd be bad.




Helping you being cold? That doesn’t sound very good haha.

I think I’ll be good. Thinking about a nice chill 2.5 dose this weekend to hangout during the day. I enjoy taking them around 1-2pm so I still have the night to play some video games and prepare the next day


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Re: Tripping after breakup [Re: Skizor1337] * 1
    #26544663 - 03/19/20 01:00 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I was devastated by my divorce (which took almost 2 years to finalize on paper) and which affected me for several years to come. I had been married for 13 of my then 39 years. I left the house in October of 1992 and felt stable enough to take a trip in March 1993. At one point while looking at the sky in Oleta River Park in North Miami Beach I heard a plane, looked up and saw one of those small planes pulling an advertisement banner which is so popular in South Florida over the beaches. This banner was from a shop called 'We B Joys' and it included a large red, white, and blue Grateful Dead stealie (Jerry was alive in '93 and my last show was 2 years away). I was delightfully surprised and interpreted the event positively like life goes on just as this plane was going on by.

Postscript: My wicked ex-wife died in delirium on March 9, 2020 after a month of hospitalization for alcoholic dementia, irreversible malnutrition, collapsed veins, osteoporosis and some other conditions. MY life got WAY better after I escaped that grievous error. I saw mythic significance in that trip from The Odyssey - Hermes giving a magickal herb to Odysseus and his men which broke the illusions of the sorceress Circe (who was turning Odysseus's captured men into animals and beasts of burden both to slaughter and to slave for her). My ex was an Alcohol Dependent, Borderline Personality Disordered Alcohol Dependent individual with marked Antisocial and Sadistic features (I diagnosed her myself according to the then current DSM III criteria). When young, children loved her and she let them braid her long bottle-blond hair as a classroom teacher. At the end of her career she became deranged and her appearance manifested that. I was told that children then ran from her and called her "the witch!" Circe archetype. She was a 'psychic vampire,' draining my life energies (self-esteem, finances, Joie de vivre) Meanwhile, I am very much a 'Hermes man' (according to Dr. Jean Shinoda-Bolen's book Gods in Everyman), that marriage was an ill-fated adventure and I was Odyssean for having undertaken that adventure in the first place.

If your relationship ended amicably then you're in a much better place than I was emotionally with a lot less risk. :thumbup: Feeling is my "inferior function" (MBTI) so I risked an emotional breakdown but I still saw a silver lining in a terribly dark time of my life. That was 'rock bottom' for me in terms of despair. "But I'm al-ready gone...And I'm fe-eling strong...I will sing this vict'ry song, 'cause I'm al-ready gone...Just remember this, my girl, when you look up in the sky, you can see the stars and still not see the light (that's right)..." - Already Gone by The Eagles


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