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Have you ever had to fight a family member? 2
#26527260 - 03/10/20 12:54 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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As the title states have you ever had to fight/defend yourself against a family member? I just got swung on today so I had to defend myself. I would do it again in a heartbeat.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow] 1
#26527269 - 03/10/20 12:59 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I had a family member try to make me have an accident as a kid.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Asante] 1
#26527278 - 03/10/20 01:03 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Does getting my ass beat constantly as a kid count?
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: feldman114]
#26527280 - 03/10/20 01:04 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Asante] 1
#26527281 - 03/10/20 01:05 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have a brother
We fought, I won
Being a carpenter and all he is now insanely strong and would probably just fold me in half
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Tripsurfer] 1
#26527283 - 03/10/20 01:06 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have, it’s not good. We’ve both won and lost.
Actually the only times he won was because he sucker punched me like a little bitch, and I wouldn’t even call them loses..
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Amanita86] 1
#26527289 - 03/10/20 01:09 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Hahaha thank you guys so much! All of your responses made me feel better ....except for a couple to which I'm sorry and wish I could give you hugs
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26527307 - 03/10/20 01:17 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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What the dilly yo? What created the scuffle?
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26527324 - 03/10/20 01:23 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have yet to fight a family member. I consider myself lucky.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 2
#26527338 - 03/10/20 01:34 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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My big brother once teased me a bit too much when I was little, I chased him down into a corner and delivered a volley of waist-height low punches to the tummy, not too hard but enough to get the message across
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Asante] 2
#26527348 - 03/10/20 01:40 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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When I was about ten, I whipped my brothers ass pretty good.
I was playing Guitar Hero and he kept shutting off the console while I was in the middle of a song. So I told him if he does it again, he's getting a whupping. He did it, and I cornered him and punched the fuck out of him. Felt pretty bad afterwards; he's a year younger than me and he cried pretty hard.
I haven't hit any sibling like that since.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Amanita86]
#26527628 - 03/10/20 03:50 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Amanita86 said: What the dilly yo? What created the scuffle?
Well long story short it was about smoking in my home and it escalated and this dumbass who is like 23 years older than me swings on me so I take him to the ground and punched his face until I felt better...
Edit: is also an alcoholic. I dont care who you are(except women I will never hit a woman) if you try to or successfully punch me out of the blue then I will defend myself every time.
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#26527633 - 03/10/20 03:52 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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That’s mah boy!   
Now don’t do that shit again, but I’m glad you handled your business..
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#26527641 - 03/10/20 03:56 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I dont like fighting but I will if it ever becomes my only option at preserving my own well being...
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow] 3
#26527644 - 03/10/20 03:57 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I didn't have to fight my older brother, but I did. He had been gone for days with some snatch and her mom was calling the house and freaking out. He shows up and he's with the chik, I put my arm out to push them from coming in the house when I answered the door (it was locked and he didn't have a key). When I did he rushed me inside and was swinging at me, I curled into a ball and he was on top of me hitting me in the back and then a few shots to the back of my head. Mom pulls him off me and was scolding him. He was looking up at her and sitting up with his back against the wall.
I drew back and reached around mom catching him square on the jaw, my mom looked back at me and turned, then I drew back my leg and kicked him square in the temple with the ball part of foot right there behind the big toe. he slumped over and was out. I chipped his front tooth with the 1st blow. I very well could have killed him. I still regret it to this day and when I think about it I almost cry. I have never been in a fight since then. I was 17. I wasn't a 'fighter" type guy anyway. I abhor fighting. A person can die with just a slight blow to the head. It's highly vascular and there could be clots and veins just waiting to explode by the slightest bump.
I will never fight anyone again unless it's a life threatening situation for me or my mate/family. I will run, push things in my way, get spit on etc...Yeah, I'm a "fucking pussy" or whatever names anyone wants to call me, but I'll be damned of I kill someone like that.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#26527647 - 03/10/20 03:59 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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tyrannicalrex said: I didn't have to fight my older brother, but I did. He had been gone for days with some snatch and her mom was calling the house and freaking out. He shows up and he's with the chik, I put my arm out to push them from coming in the house when I answered the door (it was locked and he didn't have a key). When I did he rushed me inside and was swinging at me, I curled into a ball and he was on top of me hitting me in the back and then a few shots to the back of my head. Mom pulls him off me and was scolding him. He was looking up at her and sitting up with his back against the wall.
I drew back and reached around mom catching him square on the jaw, my mom looked back at me and turned, then I drew back my leg and kicked him square in the temple with the ball part of foot right there behind the big toe. he slumped over and was out. I chipped his front tooth with the 1st blow. I very well could have killed him. I still regret it to this day and when I think about it I almost cry. I have never been in a fight since then. I was 17. I wasn't a 'fighter" type guy anyway. I abhor fighting. A person can die with just a slight blow to the head. It's highly vascular and there could be clots and veins just waiting to explode by the slightest bump.
I will never fight anyone again unless it's a life threatening situation for me or my mate/family. I will run, push things in my way, get spit on etc...Yeah, I'm a "fucking pussy" or whatever names anyone wants to call me, but I'll be damned of I kill someone like that.
Man I agree so damn much....I made sure my punches were landing on the bone under his eye and his forehead and NOT the temple...
Edit: but still I really didnt want to fight and its came close before but I'd always walk away and leave like you I dont care to be called whatever I'd rather leave....but today was close quarters and I had no time to leave I had to defend myself
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26527650 - 03/10/20 04:00 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I hear you. Sometimes people don’t offer you much choice.
It’s always good to avoid if you can, I’d say especially family.
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#26527653 - 03/10/20 04:02 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I had a lump in my throat typing it. I apologize to him almost every time I see him and we get high together. He just had all his teeth taken out actually, so I guess I can't knock any more out in a fight, lol!
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#26527655 - 03/10/20 04:03 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm sorry man and I get it. Family shouldn't fight but damn....sometimes people are just so stupid
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26527663 - 03/10/20 04:06 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah, we never fought after that that I remember. One time we were scuffling and he threw a fork and it stuck in my back. I then threw mine at him and it gashed his knuckle, lol. I wish that shit was on film! He had to pull that fork out of my back, lol.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Amanita86] 1
#26527664 - 03/10/20 04:06 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I remember one time splitting up a drunken benzo fight between my cousin and uncle and regretting it immediately because I got blood all in my eyes and mouth and all over my nice white sweater. That was a fucked night, truly some trailer park garbage. He was bleeding because he was screaming some faggotry from behind a door after taking a swing at his son and running away, holding the thing closed as he's booting it in. Try and leave and cousin runs back like a hero because his dad accuses him of fucking his sister. like screaming it down the road. I break them up and son tries to steal dad's car and dad's punching in the window and then goes after me and then son runs away. Fucking hilarious. Dad was mad because we left the bar after he acts gay towards this dude then starts calling him a faggot and shit and trying to fight him. Like
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#26527672 - 03/10/20 04:11 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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This is why that show was so popular. Jerry Springer, Maury, etc.... Seems like 60-80% of america is/can be like that.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#26527682 - 03/10/20 04:22 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Holy shit glad it's all good now. I hope we will be good as well but I doubt it because he has let the alcohol completely take him it really is sad and I really do feel fucking bad cos he used to be a decent person but just went to shit with alcohol
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26527686 - 03/10/20 04:25 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Ya I have been forced to point guns at family members. Wasnt a highlight of the times. I imagine it wont be long before that happens again
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#26527693 - 03/10/20 04:29 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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My cousin came up here xanned out to work for me 3 days ago and he didn't do shit but sit around talking shit to me. He got my 20$ but the next time he comes up here and says even the smallest type of disrespectful shit to me it's done. I'm gonna ask him nice to get the fuck out and never come back. Then if he continues his shit I'm going to grab the shotty.
I never done shit to him to deserve getting talked down to. You know, I can take a lot of shit but I'm at my threshold.
I just had to run up on my neighbors with the shotty for killing my dog. I won't get into details. I'm not glorifying it but where I'm from you take it into your own hands or nothing gets done. No law enforcement really.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Asante] 3
#26527713 - 03/10/20 04:43 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Asante said: I chased him down into a corner and delivered a volley of waist-height low punches to the tummy, not too hard but enough to get the message across 
Asante did his big broski like
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#26528644 - 03/11/20 07:29 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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That last punch before it cuts off is "OOF"!
My brother almost died from type 2 diabetes a couple of years ago. He was the person who always said "fuck doctors, I'm healthy. I know my body", and so on, etc...well, you almost died didn't you? I bet you go to the doc now. He just said, "yeah, I do". He lost like 25% or more muscle mass, and just looks terrible, but he's got it under control. He does have to inject insulin now for the rest of his life due to him being un-diagnosed and just eating sugar all the time. I love him and he loves me too, so glad we don't fight like that now.
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#26529092 - 03/11/20 12:35 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Had a countless childish fight with cousins over the garden hose when we were kids.
My dad always yelled at me during my teenage days, Shouting with a punch, you useless cum of mine through your mothers cunt. It breaks the heart although its actually logically true, & i do get it now as time goesby, it made me more self-controlled & temperate when it come to it.
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#26529127 - 03/11/20 01:05 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm sorry man. You seem like a great person. I say fuck the past. Always look forward
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#26529195 - 03/11/20 01:43 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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The day I left home my Dad swung a vicious punch at me, I sidestepped it and popped him one right on the nose. He went down. I packed my stuff quickly before it could start again and left. I was 15.
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#26529222 - 03/11/20 02:03 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Thanks man, i do believe everyone is, sometimes our close ones are just goin thru their shitty times just as we do. This thread is a good reminder.
Ive always loved to observe the kids that have gone thru a fight then later on proceed on playin and having a joyful time. They are the enlightened masters of forgive and forget.
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Yeah and it just sucks all the way around. I believe MOST(not all) things can be talked out
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Northerner said: The day I left home my Dad swung a vicious punch at me, I sidestepped it and popped him one right on the nose. He went down. I packed my stuff quickly before it could start again and left. I was 15.
Damn man I'm sorry
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That is very harsh! I am glad I got to stay at home even though I was a shitass to my mom at times. When I hear these stories about peoples fathers/dads, I'm glad I never had one really.
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Northerner said: The day I left home my Dad swung a vicious punch at me, I sidestepped it and popped him one right on the nose. He went down. I packed my stuff quickly before it could start again and left. I was 15.
Damn man I'm sorry 
It's okay man, thanks anyways. That was a very long time ago now. We sorted out our shit about 10 years ago. I don't have any resentment anymore.
Remembering back the incident was terrifying, I'd forgotten all about it. I can't even remember where I slept that night. Thrown headlong into a life of crime and drugs. I gave up the crime when I turned 18.
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Yeah it was pretty hardcore at the time. The thing to remember though is that people are generally just doing their best. Some just do better than others.
My kids have got a considerably different experience than me. I'm a rock of love and understanding in their lives. My wife was trying to tell me if should be harder on them the other day. Not my approach though. I'm unwavering, not hard.
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Good for you man, it sucks that some people have to go through shit so their offspring can live a good life...
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow]
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My little big brother and I have been getting in brawls with each other since we could muster a punch....but suprisingly we always have been pretty cool with each other within a couple hours. We fight over dumb shit to. We have both won and lost to each other.
10 year old picture almost but he is on the right. He's got a hell of a left hook lol
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Lol sounds like how my brother and I were growing up. We got physical A LOT but always managed to patch things up by the end of the day lol
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spirit_shadow said: Lol sounds like how my brother and I were growing up. We got physical A LOT but always managed to patch things up by the end of the day lol
Lol I kinda have always thought it was normal. Would die for that kid, but would also bust his shit if we get too riled up. We were roomates a short time after this picture. Our mom always did our laundry growing up, so one day while washing my brand new jeans i decided to do him a favor and threw in some of his clothes which included some white t shirts ( they had colored logos) that may have cost a bit....that turned into a brawl because he refused to accpet my apology
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: The Influence]
#26529813 - 03/11/20 08:00 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'd be surprised if anyone with siblings never fought. I've also fought my similar aged cousin
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Yea. My mom would get mad or drunk and beat the shit out of me with whatever she had in her hand at the time. I took that shit for years believing I deserved it because she said I did. She was very verbally abusive too. I had come home from my second high school graduation day that week . Apparently me graduating twice that week with honors (once from my local high school, the second from the county technical school) was more than she could bear. She started screaming at me, came up and swung at me. I caught her hand & told her I've had enough I did nothing wrong. Hit me again & I'll hit you back. A look of shock, then this glare came over her. She drew back again, I let her hit me without flinching a few times, but that only made her more mad. So she grabbed a shot glass and threw it at me. She came at me and swung, I swatted her hand away, she open hand slapped me. I pushed her away & told her to stop it. She came at me again. Well that was it, I hit her square in the face breaking her glasses. She threatened to beat me with the belt. I told her to 'just try it bitch, I'll take it away from you & beat your ass with it. I ain't taking this shit from you anymore, I'm not gonna be your babysitter, maid, cook AND punching bag!' She screamed get the fuck out of my house. I didn't want to leave my baby sister there alone but I did (my step sister was safe, mom loved her). Thanks for the graduation memories mom! She's been dead about 2 1/2 years now. I never liked her as a person, but I loved her & wanted her to want me, love me... but she just wasn't capable. She hated my dad so much, she just saw him every time she looked at me & made me pay for all the shit my dad did to her. My dad went on to marry a few more times & have a bunch more kids (3 of which just found me last year thanks to ancestry.com). Dad's been put in a nursing home by his most loved youngest son about nine months now. I had to block his number after he kept calling me 10 times a day to bitch me out about his son putting him in a home, telling me gross stories in explicit detail about his sexcapades with all my siblings moms & talking shit about how my body reminds him of my moms!
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: MycQueen]
#26530218 - 03/12/20 02:40 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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That is sad I always say try to patch things up but sometimes it's impossible. And after death it really hurts but there is nothing that can be done at that point but keep your head held high and move forward
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26530228 - 03/12/20 03:12 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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That's fucked up MycQueen. Some people we are just better off without despite what we need.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: MycQueen]
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MycQueen said: Yea. My mom would get mad or drunk and beat the shit out of me with whatever she had in her hand at the time. I took that shit for years believing I deserved it because she said I did. She was very verbally abusive too. I had come home from my second high school graduation day that week . Apparently me graduating twice that week with honors (once from my local high school, the second from the county technical school) was more than she could bear. She started screaming at me, came up and swung at me. I caught her hand & told her I've had enough I did nothing wrong. Hit me again & I'll hit you back. A look of shock, then this glare came over her. She drew back again, I let her hit me without flinching a few times, but that only made her more mad. So she grabbed a shot glass and threw it at me. She came at me and swung, I swatted her hand away, she open hand slapped me. I pushed her away & told her to stop it. She came at me again. Well that was it, I hit her square in the face breaking her glasses. She threatened to beat me with the belt. I told her to 'just try it bitch, I'll take it away from you & beat your ass with it. I ain't taking this shit from you anymore, I'm not gonna be your babysitter, maid, cook AND punching bag!' She screamed get the fuck out of my house. I didn't want to leave my baby sister there alone but I did (my step sister was safe, mom loved her). Thanks for the graduation memories mom! She's been dead about 2 1/2 years now. I never liked her as a person, but I loved her & wanted her to want me, love me... but she just wasn't capable. She hated my dad so much, she just saw him every time she looked at me & made me pay for all the shit my dad did to her. My dad went on to marry a few more times & have a bunch more kids (3 of which just found me last year thanks to ancestry.com). Dad's been put in a nursing home by his most loved youngest son about nine months now. I had to block his number after he kept calling me 10 times a day to bitch me out about his son putting him in a home, telling me gross stories in explicit detail about his sexcapades with all my siblings moms & talking shit about how my body reminds him of my moms!
Sorry to hear that man. i can relate to it and higlighted those words that went straight to the heart. it's really a struggle to grow being caught in the middle of a broken household. That there's no other way around for us but to look and focus on the good side of the bad, that gave you strength and brought out the goodness within you, despite of the past.
@Notherner its wonderful to hear that, your little ones are very blessed to have you. Ive always aspire to be the same.
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#26530460 - 03/12/20 08:17 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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WOW! So glad you did well and are doing well now. Posting here and getting those things out either by verbalizing or writing them is very cathartic! I'm lucky I didn't have it as bad as some people even though my family life was dysfunctional.
I have an inlaw who has had similar events happen with a step mom. He's my mates nephew. He also doesn't know who his real father is. He thought it was this one guy his mom fooled around with at the time, did the dna test, came back negative. Then he asked his uncle to do it, came back negative (he WILL NOT ask his supposed father, my mates brother. That's why he asked my mate). I still think he needs to ask him, but it's not happening. His mom basically said she doesn't know. She probably really doesn't, she may have had several flings, IDK. (if you're reading this, I love you man!)
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#26530540 - 03/12/20 09:13 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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#26537731 - 03/16/20 12:57 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow, Northerner, pacmanbreed. tyrannicalrex Thank you! This is the first time I've spoken of this publicly... the first place I've felt safe enough to be vulnerable, to put it out there. I would never dream of saying anything on two-faced Book as there are too many trolls in their mamas basements that live to belittle people. Also, many of those people are so 'fake', putting on masks to look good in public, but are horrible to people in real life (I'm sure you know at least a few). It may not surprise you to know I have some major trust issues, so this was a very big step for me. I feel like I've found my people here... a real kinship. Thank you all ever so much for your kind words, hugs, empathy and genuine compassion!
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: MycQueen]
#26537891 - 03/16/20 04:59 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I was abused when I was a toddler, sad thing is I still not sure who did it
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MycQueen said: spirit_shadow, Northerner, pacmanbreed. tyrannicalrex Thank you! This is the first time I've spoken of this publicly... the first place I've felt safe enough to be vulnerable, to put it out there. I would never dream of saying anything on two-faced Book as there are too many trolls in their mamas basements that live to belittle people. Also, many of those people are so 'fake', putting on masks to look good in public, but are horrible to people in real life (I'm sure you know at least a few). It may not surprise you to know I have some major trust issues, so this was a very big step for me. I feel like I've found my people here... a real kinship. Thank you all ever so much for your kind words, hugs, empathy and genuine compassion! 
Hell yeah! And I get it, as I've said this place has helped me out more than anything else ever could 
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I'm sorry man, kids should not be actually beat
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: MycQueen]
#26538383 - 03/16/20 11:09 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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You're welcome!
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26538544 - 03/16/20 12:40 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Gypsy Boy said: I was abused when I was a toddler, sad thing is I still not sure who did it 
Im guess u just have a vague memory but cant remember the specific details? 
MycQueen, beautiful words. Thanks for sharing that Sounds like u went thru Hell too. So sorry, no one deserves that kind of abuse
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#26538709 - 03/16/20 02:19 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yea man, I have a lot of indirect memories that I sence sometimes, I can tell there was alot of damage and abuse... very vague and non specific memories. Cant expect to remember what happened in days and weeks I was born
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26538764 - 03/16/20 02:48 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Still sorry it happened man
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26538807 - 03/16/20 03:08 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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My dad was physically and verbally abusive when I was younger but it never quite came to a point of me all-out fighting back. Bare-bum spankings that were way overboard were pretty common. He was an elementary school teacher, and was my teacher in grade 5, and was known for throwing desks and stuff. I think I heard of at least once with a student in the desk (those ones with the chair built in).
From about grade 8 I was obsessed with getting stronger and was doing chin-ups constantly. As it became less clear that he would be able to overpower me without things getting a lot nastier, the less he tried that stuff with me, though he would still totally lose his shit on me verbally, and on a couple of occasions he'd go get in the car and peel off in a crazy manner. At one point (probably into high school) we arm wrestled and I beat him, and that was sort of confirmation that he was not necessarily any stronger than I was.
Eventually he was able to actually get his anger under control and I've been able to forgive him for the past. My mom on the other hand can be just as nasty and manipulative as ever, though it's generally a lot more subtle and my sisters are more likely to be the targets these days (she was not happy that my one sister married a Jewish guy). I don't call her out for it or anything but I really don't have a close connection to her at all.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: psi] 2
#26538965 - 03/16/20 04:09 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah man I dealt with shit like that except with stepfather. It sucks so many people have had this type of life
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26539926 - 03/17/20 04:38 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I remember someone hitting me on the face... cantvremember who, as I was few weeks old. I call these instances - Twinkies 
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#26545659 - 03/19/20 10:59 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Gypsy Boy  While I'm very sorry you had those experiences, I'm equally happy you DON'T remember the specifics... it's bad enough you have the vague feelings of damage and abuse. I sometimes wonder if parents realize (in the moment or ever) if they are being physically and verbally abusive, or if they were carrying on family traditions or subconsciously passing along the abuse they received. Not that it in any way excuses their behavior it only makes the origin more understandable, and more forgivable... I mean that if they were abused as children & pass it on, that's easier to forgive than if they had a normally loving family, suffered no abuse themselves, yet grow up to abuse their kids.
psi  Sorry man, sounds like your dad enjoyed the authoritarian position he was in & took it to extremes at home and work. Not making any excuses for your mom, but maybe she became that way (nasty & manipulative) to deal with your dads anger, a way to have control over the situation & she just never snapped out of it (he may still be an angry person when you're not around)... then again that may just be who she is. I'm glad you channeled your anger/frustration into physical fitness even if you only did so to prepare to defend yourself. Good to know he came out of that & you were able to forgive him.
LogicaL Chaos  Thank you, just glad I have a place to share that might help others. It was hell, I didn't deserve it, nor does any kid. Most kids are born innocent & loving... it's what they learn by watching, listening or being actively taught or abused that fucks them up! 
I have to look at it like this; if I had to go thru that shit to know how bad it feels(that was only part of one day - I could write a book), so that I would learn empathy/compassion & not pass that shit on to my kids (verbal-mental-physical-sexual-emotional abuse/neglect/cruelty), it was totally worth it. I'd do it all over again to protect them from the 'cycle of abuse'! I don't know if they realize how much I overcame, but it doesn't really matter. Because it was my privilege to be their mom, carry them, birth them, teach them & watch them grow into the awesome young men they are today!
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Amanita86]
#26568226 - 03/30/20 10:19 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Amanita86 said: I hear you. Sometimes people don’t offer you much choice.
It’s always good to avoid if you can, I’d say especially family.
Very true. Unfortunately desperate people do desperate things, so the longer this thing drags on I've got a feeling that it won't be long until many folks start having domestic disputes from being quarantined together under extreme socioeconomic stress, escalating to neighborhood disputes or out right murdering each other when paranoia makes them even think you might be sick or visiting from a hot spot area.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: MycQueen]
#26568243 - 03/30/20 10:33 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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I never fought my family exactly, not since being adults, but I had to physically restrain and grapple with my mom to keep her from killing herself while blacked out on benzos and booze. We both got a little scuffed up. In itself was pretty traumatic but also triggered my ptsd. Pretty much none of my family was okay for a while after that.
My little bro tried to keep me from leaving while he was drunk. Grabbed my carpal tunnel wrist in a death grip and blocked the door. I was like one of us is about to get hurt and it'll probably be me. I just went cold and in a dead calm voice said "if you don't let me go I'm gonna kick your teeth in." Doubt I could have but I was ready to try it. Really glad I didn't have to and that these situations didn't escalate further.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#26569867 - 03/31/20 07:37 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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I personally haven't but have come close to going toe to toe with my father on a couple of occasions. I don't think I could have ever actually struck my father but I came really close when he would get extremely violent with me or get in my face and threaten me physically. I felt the rage in me ready to strike him down with all my force but I wasn't ready to tear my family apart or potentially be kicked out of my house at that age.
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Re: Have you ever had to fight a family member? [Re: Funky Fingaz]
#26569871 - 03/31/20 07:38 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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I did hear a story my cousin told me about one night he got extremely drunk and came home and began choking out his stepfather for no reason and his mom got involved tried to stop him and he shoved her against a wall in a drunken rage. Thats when I knew my cousin was a drunk alcoholic piece of shit.
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