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Supernova
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ever slept with another man’s wife?
#26526372 - 03/09/20 11:04 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Whether you have or not, how do you feel about that? I mean, if a married woman comes on to you and you are attracted to her, do you sleep with her or not? If not, why>? If so, how do you justify it?
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: Supernova] 1
#26526455 - 03/10/20 12:31 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Haven't myself, but if I did, I know all I would be able to think about would be the poor bastard who's wife I'd be fucking. I could only imagine the devastation of finding out the love of my life was sucking off and getting railed by some other dude, especially if you're under the impression that you're 'happily' married. Plus, people are fucking crazy; next thing you know, the husband'll find out and come after your ass with a sling-blade or some shit.
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: Supernova]
#26526463 - 03/10/20 12:47 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Not that proud, but a few years ago I met this girl at a party who was married. I was just checking her out because she was kind of hot, and she gave me this look the whole time too.
A little later, me and her were talking and she started rubbing her leg against mine and started to pull me in to kiss her. We made out, and she then told me she was married but she hates her husband and wants to divorce. At first I was like 'woah, can't do this shit'... but then she kept reassuring me that it was over between them.
We then got super freaky.
I met the guy a couple weeks later and still see him around in the small town I'm living in. They did eventually get divorced, but it was just a one night thing between me and the girl.
I even sort of partied with the guy once. He knew and I knew he knew but he acted like he didn't, and would tell me about his divorce in this weird kind of way,and how he can get really angry and how he and his brother used to beat people up.
I just told him "you should mediate".
I felt pretty bad after it first happened, but people who knew the guy told me he cheated on her first, and he's generally kind of a giant asshole. So I then didn't care as much.
I wouldn't do it again with someone else though, unless the divorce is truly final.
Hearing this song makes me think of that night.
Edited by remake (03/10/20 12:58 AM)
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: remake]
#26526468 - 03/10/20 12:57 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Went to the bar with my boss after work and we ended up hanging out with some random girl. My boss was hitting on her and she was making fun of him for coming on so strong / she wasnt really into him but she was chatting me up quite a bit .
She slid me a note that said “let’s get out of here “.
We were heading to another bar but never made it , she took me back to her Airbnb and we smashed For hours .
She didn’t have a ring on or anything or mention another man , we finished up and between lines of blow she told me she was visiting town and gotten married earlier that week!
I felt bad but had no idea before it happened.
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: remake] 1
#26526469 - 03/10/20 12:57 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm disgusted by the thought of doing that to someone.
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: ichugwindex]
#26526484 - 03/10/20 01:19 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Girl's got serious issues if she's banging strangers the week she got married. That or she's bullshitting you to make you stay away.
Hard to tell.
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: Northerner]
#26526489 - 03/10/20 01:32 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Technically I did, but they were in the process of getting divorced and already no longer living together anymore. So that was sufficient justification for me.
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: Supernova]
#26526751 - 03/10/20 07:31 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah i've played with a wife before but the husband was there too so i do'nt think it counts. He still ended up getting mad though. I came in his wife's mouth, which was what i think caused him to flip out for some reason. He threw my clothes across the room and was trying to get me out ov there quick. I asked the wife how my cum tasted, to which she replied "semi-sweet and nutty"(like a Cameroon wrapper cigar!), and this sealed the deal for him projecting the vibe ov 'get the fuck out ov my house' without saying as much.
I'm gay though so i've more experience playing with several cheating husbands too in earlier days, with one long term affair. I'm okay with it all looking back but not so sure i'd be okay entertaining such discretions now as my personal outlook has changed.
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: lavod]
#26526900 - 03/10/20 09:16 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
I came in his wife's mouth
I'm gay though
Shroomery gold once again
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: Supernova] 1
#26526910 - 03/10/20 09:23 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I believe most of the responsibility falls on the wife to be faithful.
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: The Mycologist]
#26526918 - 03/10/20 09:26 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yes, guys dont have the mental fortitude to say no to pussy
I know I havent. Good thing im hella ugly, so no cheating for me
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: Tripsurfer]
#26526992 - 03/10/20 10:06 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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There’s a couple chicks I had a shot with and didn’t take. Never again will I miss a golden opportunity and feel regret like that. I don’t think I would be able to do it with a cheating wife though. That shit destroys people and if they have kids etc
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How does the moral responsibility land with the dude? Assuming he’s not married, why should he feel guilty about casual sex?
It’s the cheating wife that should justify herself, imo. If my wife was capable of cheating, I’d kinda prefer she get on with it and stop wasting my time
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: feldman114] 1
#26527004 - 03/10/20 10:15 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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You're still just regretting not banging that Shroomer on the train the other day.
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: christopera] 1
#26527008 - 03/10/20 10:23 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Get. Out.
OF MY HEAD!
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: feldman114]
#26527029 - 03/10/20 10:35 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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If they are aware of the marriage then that would make them a home wrecker. It takes 2 to tango
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: ichugwindex]
#26527033 - 03/10/20 10:37 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Placing the “home wrecker” label on someone isn’t much of an argument though. Why should a single guy feel guilty for having consensual sex?
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Re: ever slept with another man’s wife? [Re: feldman114]
#26527130 - 03/10/20 11:40 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Because he’s a desperate loser most of the time unless she’s really a prize
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I’m biased tho Don’t get married if you think like that!
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Too late
Sure, on an emotional level, I totally agree - that’s such a scumbag move.
But I don’t think you can defend that using logic. One person is breaking a vow, the other is just having consensual sex.
Edit: I should also add that I’d never do something like this. In fact, I’d take the time to give the husband a heads up.
Edited by feldman114 (03/10/20 11:51 AM)
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