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Near Dylan
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Honestly. You're just part of a community, of people your age experiencing similar shit ya kno. It's inevitable to make friends and enemies and relationships and it's this super easy dynamic but, it's meant to be kinda. It's training wheels for the real world, but the real world aint a little community of people like you, it's just a clusterfuck pile of bodies. Hard to make any sense of it. I could understand it being pretty simple if you still are near where you grew up and have friends from high school/college obviously, or if you work with people in your age range. Make friends with a co-worker or two, meet some of their friends, some of their friends, boom. Got yourself a circle now. But if you work with people not in your age range and that you dont really like, or work alone or at home maybe, it definitely isnt that easy. Kinda gotta make an effort to meet people.
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Near Dylan]
#26522883 - 03/07/20 08:53 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Get a job where you work with a lot of people.
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no_one
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Near Dylan] 2
#26523091 - 03/07/20 11:20 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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If you're still having difficulties making friends, you could use this website to rent a friend.
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trees


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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: no_one] 2
#26523471 - 03/08/20 07:31 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I think the only real way to make real friends is to bond over some subject matter or activity that you value or something.
Like, I was at this park all by myself alone working on amd testing my motorbike in the open fields, and super randomly some other guy in this truck pulls in I'm like wtf this ain't suppose to happen. But he gets out and starts flying these drones. And then we're talking for like 1 hour about drones and how I can machine drone parts and how he can film cool stuff with his drones, and we start talking random stuff and then we smoke something and he's like, yo take my business card man, let me know if you need help with filming rides, we could grab a drink and talk machining, and I was like yeah man fosho fosho!
I never hit him up, but he was all set on a potential friendship, and I could have been too, but I'm super antisocial nowadays when it comes to it.
Samething all throughout my life, all my old friends were gained through weed. That's common these days, but true friendship came out of me just walking up to people and asking them if they wanna help me smoke a joint
I once became a BF for a girl who I ran up to and asked her for a cigarette and we kept talking right there aboit our surroundings until numbers were exchanged and experiences were had.
That's my friend formula for this thread.
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trees


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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: azzbo]
#26523494 - 03/08/20 07:50 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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azzbo said: I had to stop being a loner because it became really depressing after awhile. I find the best way to make new friends is to just walk up to a group of lads who are smoking weed and just be like "YOOOOO gimme somme of that bud man". Before you know it, you'll be at some random dudes house blazing weed and watching rick and morty.
Probably a good idea to have a good weed tolerence, otherwise you'll just be baked af whilst getting panic attacks around people you don't know, which is never good.
This is the way
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Near Dylan]
#26523652 - 03/08/20 09:41 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Near Dylan said: WHO HAS TIPS FOR HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS OUTSIDE OF WORK AS AN ADULT, FOR INTROVERTS
Say with me
C A S H
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: trees] 1
#26523669 - 03/08/20 09:51 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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It is true, it works. Trees and I became friends over a few bowl packs!
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Near Dylan
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Near Dylan]
#26523852 - 03/08/20 12:14 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Gonna go to art show
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Near Dylan] 3
#26523877 - 03/08/20 12:33 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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That's not how to make friends.
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Near Dylan
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: PatrickKn]
#26523881 - 03/08/20 12:37 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Gonna talk to people bitch fuck
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Near Dylan]
#26523949 - 03/08/20 01:26 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Art shows are dope!
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Near Dylan]
#26523951 - 03/08/20 01:27 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Dont just flirt with chicks there, slick dick
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Near Dylan
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Psicomb]
#26524189 - 03/08/20 04:04 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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It's not necessarily that I flirt as much as it is just that I have a hard time approaching people Im not attracted to. If that makes any sense
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Near Dylan]
#26524206 - 03/08/20 04:17 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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A few years ago I was getting sick as fuck of trying to find a girl in person.. I knew everyone in town and usually everyone was an asshole or bitch. I met my girlfriend of now 4 years on an app called okcupid. Best decision of my life and the happiest relationship I can imagine. I'd reccomend online dating just be careful not to get catfished. The first girl I met up with was like 400 pounds so i left fuck that. Video chat first. Found another girl shortly after and We decided to meet in a preserve at around 4PM our first date and hit it off so well we walked for 10 minutes decided to sit in a beautiful field and chatted till 3am under the stars and I ended up getting a blowjob and i wasn't even trying to initiate it. Still together today happier than ever though girlfriends are expensive.
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Ryzo]
#26524251 - 03/08/20 04:41 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Ryzo said:
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Near Dylan said: WHO HAS TIPS FOR HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS OUTSIDE OF WORK AS AN ADULT, FOR INTROVERTS
Say with me
C A S H
Time for Near Dylan to join the Illuminati and make some friends with The Enlightened Ones 
https://www.illuminatiofficial.org/
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psi
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Shit that's pretty dire. Maybe there are some people from the site who live in your area and would be up for hanging out?
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larry.fisherman
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Quote:
LogicaL Chaos said:
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Ryzo said:
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Near Dylan said: WHO HAS TIPS FOR HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS OUTSIDE OF WORK AS AN ADULT, FOR INTROVERTS
Say with me
C A S H
Time for Near Dylan to join the Illuminati and make some friends with The Enlightened Ones 
https://www.illuminatiofficial.org/
Where did you find that site? Any info on it? It looks so legit, it's secure and they're licensed for major credit cards. That is one hella legit website but I don't know what to believe. There's no doctrine out there really, it's pretty mysterious. I wanna say it's legit and the claims are honest but then we have stuff like a 2000 year old manuscript that says the mark of the eternal-torture-diety is a triangle so
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Re: HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS [Re: Near Dylan] 1
#26524781 - 03/08/20 11:13 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Near Dylan said: Gonna go to art show
Gives you something to talk about even if you don't make any friends there.
You have identified the problem with your mindset (prior page) and that's more than halfway to fixing it. Stay positive.
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Quote:
CookieCrumbs said:
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Near Dylan said: Gonna go to art show
Gives you something to talk about even if you don't make any friends there.
You have identified the problem with your mindset (prior page) and that's more than halfway to fixing it. Stay positive.
CC! Solid advice and great posts! Yeah ND, the art show is a GREAT start to socializing/getting out and doing things.
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