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Thanatos10
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feldman114 said: Oh you’re an example of someone who Can Never be happy?
Maybe if you stop boo-hoo’ing for a minute and WORK ON YOURSELF instead of feeling sorry for yourself, you’ll find your guy faster. Even if it turns out you’re asexual, that doesn’t mean you can’t have a happy relationship or fall in love. I hate being this guy...but shiiiit...how many people tried the soft and measured approach with you already? Sometimes, you need a kick in the ass more than sympathy. And no one can provide a kick more effective than yourself.
I never said I couldn’t be happy just that I’m one of those people who don’t have the potential to be in a relationship. I have several failed ones to prove it.
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feldman114
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So your past relationships prove you can’t be in a relationship? Got it.
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feldman114
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You still haven’t defined psychopathy btw
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tyrannicalrex
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Thanatos10 said:
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feldman114 said: Oh you’re an example of someone who Can Never be happy?
Maybe if you stop boo-hoo’ing for a minute and WORK ON YOURSELF instead of feeling sorry for yourself, you’ll find your guy faster. Even if it turns out you’re asexual, that doesn’t mean you can’t have a happy relationship or fall in love. I hate being this guy...but shiiiit...how many people tried the soft and measured approach with you already? Sometimes, you need a kick in the ass more than sympathy. And no one can provide a kick more effective than yourself.
I never said I couldn’t be happy just that I’m one of those people who don’t have the potential to be in a relationship. I have several failed ones to prove it.
Honestly, I think you're wrong. One day you'll prove it to yourself. You're just in a valley for now, climb that hill/mountain!
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living_failure
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I think there are levels of lies, and levels of truth.
It is not the same cheating your husband and not telling him than forgetting to wash the dishes and telling him your mother has died.
It is not the same to jerk it off in the bathroom and then telling her "it is the first time that it happened to me" when it doesn't get up, than saying that she looks beautifull when you are trying to watch the TV.
There are also moments to tell the truth. Imagine, your son just died of leukemia, and while you cry she says "why are you crying? he wasn't yours", than if she had told you while she was pregnant before the wedding.
That is my opinion.
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Thanatos10
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feldman114 said: You still haven’t defined psychopathy btw
You already did in the link and it proved my point.
And yes, several past relationships prove that it’s just not a possibility for me. Just like how no matter how hard you strike certain rocks against each other you won’t start a fire or get a spark even.
-------------------- As lightless oblivion devours you, drown in the ever-blooming darkness.
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tyrannicalrex
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living_failure said: I think there are levels of lies, and levels of truth.
It is not the same cheating your husband and not telling him than forgetting to wash the dishes and telling him your mother has died.
It is not the same to jerk it off in the bathroom and then telling her "it is the first time that it happened to me" when it doesn't get up, than saying that she looks beautifull when you are trying to watch the TV.
There are also moments to tell the truth. Imagine, your son just died of leukemia, and while you cry she says "why are you crying? he wasn't yours", than if she had told you while she was pregnant before the wedding.
That is my opinion.
WOW!
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