often times I have people targeting me. subtly showing complete disrespect. It's happend From when I was a small child , up to right now. I think sometimes they dont even know they're doing it.
I've noticed it's pretty much only North Americans or anyone from a civilized country , Who does it. How do I deal with them ? I do have self respect , with boundaries. I am too friendly and loyal though.
I always thought that honesty , loyalty and commitment would bring you somewhere. I thought that those kinds of things would be well respected. I guess the only thing that matters , is that you just keep showing those things to yourself.
I didn't show up to work the other day. I was surprised that everbody was worried about it. When I came back the next day , they all started shaking my hands. Telling me they were happy to see me. That they were worried and stuff. For real. I've been pretty down lately , it also shows. I couldn't picture many people from here being like that. The people who showed me that. They know what suppression & discrimination feels like.
Not that it really matters. How do you stop all of the bullies ? One or two is fine but It's a lot more then that. Is this normal ?
Edited by watermelon mon (03/01/20 12:15 AM)
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Some people just like to make others feel bad, like there always scheming a plan up to ruin your day or say something nasty... But you can never let them achieve their goal or they get the dopamine rush and go back for more. If it's a manager at work or family member it can be difficult to deal with because you have to deal with them most days.
Reflect all negative comments with one word answers and keep smiling, if I was to sit and think about all the horrible nasty people around me I'd never get to enjoy life and wasting your own time thinking about that shit is the worst
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