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spirit_shadow
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: 1234go] 2
#26507238 - 02/27/20 08:57 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Ok that was a little overboard. I am sorry about that one and take it back. And again it was just hard to get my feelings across without looking like a shitty person. I wanted to do it. I did do it. I'm sorry if people think that is shitty. I respectfully disagree. Better?
Edit: it's just when I feel wrongfully attacked I turn a bit nasty...... I have many faults.
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Edited by spirit_shadow (02/27/20 08:58 PM)
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 1
#26507250 - 02/27/20 09:04 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: zZZz] 2
#26507292 - 02/27/20 09:27 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I do respect all of you here for real. Even the negative opinions. If I retaliate it is just pure instinct. I know I need to work on it and have been but nothing seems to work...
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 2
#26507771 - 02/28/20 08:09 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow said: Thing is I dont care what is done to me anymore. It really doesn't matter. That being said I'm still not a dick. I still have zero intentions of breaking them up. It's just ironic that she liked me when I was unavailable(and I liked her but never told her) but even though she has bf now I just felt I owed it to her to tell her I like her too. I'm sure word will get around to her bf that I have no ill intentions.
People love attention mate, committed people especially. They love it like everyone, but they especially love it when it gets back to their partners and makes their partners jealous eg realise that others want them too. Leverage, value, security... There's many reasons a person in a dedicated relationship loves attention from others but never cheats. I thought you stould a chance when i first commented but now i relaise that this girl is playing you. Get involved on Tinder or something. At the least you need to forget this girl, stop talking to her abruptly, stop being her little tool. She may say you two are friends and beg for your attention but it's all a rouse. Stay logical. If she is your friend when was the last time you two caught up for a friendly get together? Oh you talk daily over messenger? I bet she she only replies to you when her boyfriend is watching. You can stop living your life in the passenger seat mate, but you need to open the other door, get in and learn to drive. It's not easy at first but it's totally worth it in the end.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26507789 - 02/28/20 08:25 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow said: Ok that was a little overboard. I am sorry about that one and take it back. And again it was just hard to get my feelings across without looking like a shitty person. I wanted to do it. I did do it. I'm sorry if people think that is shitty. I respectfully disagree. Better?
Better.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: 1234go]
#26508012 - 02/28/20 11:21 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Shroom_guy4 said:
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spirit_shadow said: Thing is I dont care what is done to me anymore. It really doesn't matter. That being said I'm still not a dick. I still have zero intentions of breaking them up. It's just ironic that she liked me when I was unavailable(and I liked her but never told her) but even though she has bf now I just felt I owed it to her to tell her I like her too. I'm sure word will get around to her bf that I have no ill intentions.
People love attention mate, committed people especially. They love it like everyone, but they especially love it when it gets back to their partners and makes their partners jealous eg realise that others want them too. Leverage, value, security... There's many reasons a person in a dedicated relationship loves attention from others but never cheats. I thought you stould a chance when i first commented but now i relaise that this girl is playing you. Get involved on Tinder or something. At the least you need to forget this girl, stop talking to her abruptly, stop being her little tool. She may say you two are friends and beg for your attention but it's all a rouse. Stay logical. If she is your friend when was the last time you two caught up for a friendly get together? Oh you talk daily over messenger? I bet she she only replies to you when her boyfriend is watching. You can stop living your life in the passenger seat mate, but you need to open the other door, get in and learn to drive. It's not easy at first but it's totally worth it in the end.
I was thinking the same thing. I thought there could be something at first but now realize she is just looking for attention 24/7 just like my sister...... not cool :/
Edit: in an ironic twist of fate I feel sorry for that guy now
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Edited by spirit_shadow (02/28/20 11:22 AM)
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 3
#26508030 - 02/28/20 11:33 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Omg. This thread has better character arcs than Game of Thrones season 8...
Our hero was faced with heartbreak and drama, went through an emotional roller coaster, made a bold, out-of-character move, learned his perception was flawed, and finally came out a smarter, more mature person!and he didn’t even go nuts and burn an entire city for no good reason
D & D, take fucking notes, you diarrhea-covered cum guzzlers.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: feldman114]
#26508102 - 02/28/20 12:12 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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How could her boyfriend be mad at you at all OP?
You are very clearly autistic. Lmao, don't do whatcha did again, we all do dumb shit though. How old are you anyway?
Edited by PreparationH (02/28/20 12:17 PM)
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 2
#26508213 - 02/28/20 01:22 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow said: Ok that was a little overboard. I am sorry about that one and take it back. And again it was just hard to get my feelings across without looking like a shitty person. I wanted to do it. I did do it. I'm sorry if people think that is shitty. I respectfully disagree. Better?
Edit: it's just when I feel wrongfully attacked I turn a bit nasty...... I have many faults.
It was a dumb ass thing to say, nothing more, nothing less . Even if your intentions were totally pure. Even if you're just a sarcastic son of a bitch with kind of a dark dead-pan kind of humor that makes it feel like this was honestly just joking around, there's still consequences to your words and I think most people in a committed and monogamous relationship would bristle at it,
Not saying she's not obnoxious in her own right for only wanting your attention when she couldn't have it. That's a pretty common feeling amongst immature girls, and I've definitely felt it myself(there was no existing relationship, I would never try and get with someone in a relationship) when I was younger and dumber, so I'm far from surprised. Don't waste your time with someone who's playing those kind of games, it really is just about getting that sweet sweet attention, and you deserve better.
Go meet new people. For real. Nothing has to come of it. And I should really take my own advice, but you sound like you could really use a change of pace.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: pirate-blues] 1
#26508348 - 02/28/20 03:03 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm not wasting my time. I just felt it was owed to say I liked her. Damn lol I know I got drunk and said shit that blew it all way out of proportion and I really am sorry to you all. There is a reason I hardly ever drink....
Edit: I turn into a punk ass kid when I drink :/
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Edited by spirit_shadow (02/28/20 03:04 PM)
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 2
#26508381 - 02/28/20 03:11 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I don’t think anyone thinks less of you cause of this shit, dude.
Whoever does should remember their last heartbreak and how they acted/felt and promptly stfu.
If you ask me, you actually did the healthy thing by venting about the situation.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: feldman114] 2
#26508412 - 02/28/20 03:14 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I know it's all good. I am moving on with my life. I'm about to head back to college and work a decent job I've worked before. I'm also thinking of banning myself for a bit so I literally have no distractions and can get my shit done...
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 2
#26508491 - 02/28/20 03:54 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow said: I'm not wasting my time. I just felt it was owed to say I liked her. Damn lol I know I got drunk and said shit that blew it all way out of proportion and I really am sorry to you all. There is a reason I hardly ever drink....
Edit: I turn into a punk ass kid when I drink :/
lol sorry, I don't mean to be another preachy asshole repeating the exact same thing for the 30th time - we've all been there dude, my intended point that it's really not that big of a deal.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: feldman114] 2
#26508616 - 02/28/20 05:13 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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feldman114 said: Omg. This thread has better character arcs than Game of Thrones season 8...
Our hero was faced with heartbreak and drama, went through an emotional roller coaster, made a bold, out-of-character move, learned his perception was flawed, and finally came out a smarter, more mature person!

I'm hoping for a Better Call Saul style spin off in the future
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: Niffla] 2
#26508680 - 02/28/20 05:50 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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..... I plus 1'd lol
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