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#26505839 - 02/27/20 03:28 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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was just really wanting to feel a woman's touch so I got the massage and all that
handjob sucked she just went straight to my dick with no ab or leg rubbing so I was barely even horny then all of a sudden my dick head is being relentlessly tickled by her technique and she only speaks chinese so I just endure it and eventually she learns how to coom me and she didnt give up and by god we got it done
I really just want a woman who is worth the deeply romantic and chivalrous love that I have to give but idk when that gonna heppen so I might go back to "Olivia" lol
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: yeah]
#26505849 - 02/27/20 03:49 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Maybe try use a phone to translate back and forth. Might help next time.
Ive done the massage thing but never the erotic massage. The regular one was really nice thou. I highly recommend looking into cuddle services if you miss a womans touch. Its not erotic, well its not supposed to be, but it feels amazing.
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26507239 - 02/27/20 08:57 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: Maybe try use a phone to translate back and forth. Might help next time.
Ive done the massage thing but never the erotic massage. The regular one was really nice thou. I highly recommend looking into cuddle services if you miss a womans touch. Its not erotic, well its not supposed to be, but it feels amazing.
I want both sex and cuddling not one without the other
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: yeah]
#26507241 - 02/27/20 08:59 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Sadly, you cant have your cake and eat it too. Unless you had a lover or girlfriend.
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26507367 - 02/27/20 10:33 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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duh?
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: yeah]
#26507403 - 02/27/20 11:14 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I know obvious right.
How come you don't wanna date? For me Im just taking a break rn. Strip clubs and cuddle services seems to be keeping me emotionally content. Im don't feel really lonely anymore. Its nice.
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26507564 - 02/28/20 02:48 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'd like to but I can't ever find women with whom the feeling is mutual.
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#26508004 - 02/28/20 11:18 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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What's the protocol if you were to get a boner during the cuddle session? Just wondering.
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#26508265 - 02/28/20 01:56 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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You have to reposition your body. So if you were spooning, you would become the little spoon.
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26508299 - 02/28/20 02:22 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Ok, makes sense.
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: yeah]
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yeah said: I'd like to but I can't ever find women with whom the feeling is mutual.
Neither can I
Pretty sure one doesn't exist
I am actually really friendly , they think I am giving them special treatment
it's just how I treat everyone, so it never works out not even for a short time.
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It's pretty frustrating
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yeah bro my plan is to pursue combat sports further maybe that way I will get to die in the ring lmao
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: yeah]
#26513924 - 03/03/20 03:53 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Try escorts.
They cuddle and fuck and all that stuff. You can even pay them to say love you or to go to see a movie or whatever.
For example, last week i saw an add of one than offered directly to speak about your past traumas or broken heart or whatever that you need to speak about. (with the same payment as if you spent that hour inside of her).
It is an expensive fix.
Just curious, what are your requeriments for a woman?
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Re: I did the asian handjob thing [Re: yeah] 5
#26513946 - 03/03/20 04:48 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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yeah said:
I really just want a woman who is worth the deeply romantic and chivalrous love that I have to give but idk when that gonna heppen so I might go back to "Olivia" lol
Maybe ditch this attitude and youll do better with women you dont have to pay:
1. Your love is not something a woman must be worthy of
2. Chivalry is dead, women want to be treated as equals, youre not going to save her and she likely doesnt neer your saving anyways
3. Repeat to yourself, women are no different than me, we are all just trying to get along and live in a crazy world, lasting relationships are built on friendship, mutual respect and trust
4. Save the romance for later in the relationship, if you come in like romeo talking about the light doth shining and all that shit shes gonna think its weird and run away.
Put the trench and fedora away, shave that neck beard and get a haircut, maybe hit the gym 3 times a week too, healthy and confident is sexy.
Edited by Sugabearcrisp (03/03/20 04:50 AM)
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Maybe ditch this attitude and youll do better with women you dont have to pay:
You have the same attitude all the time? You never joke? Because there is clear as ether that he is joking. Even if he isn't, it is unlikely that he will have exactly the same attitude all the time. So i doubt you can so easily identify what is his problem
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1. Your love is not something a woman must be worthy of
You can also say that love is only chemical reaction and impulses in our brains. And you can also say that justice is not real and that morality is an illusion. I just think this is not the place for that. If he has that believe, just "negating" it, doesn't work. But i don't even think that to be the case, he is just joking and taking with humour his situation. However, not your love, but yourself: If you don't think yourselve to be worthy or other people to be worthy of you. you can as well have a relationship with a fleshlight (or a whore).
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2. Chivalry is dead, women want to be treated as equals, youre not going to save her and she likely doesnt neer your saving anyways
He was joking, but i doubt you know how all woman works. If he wants to be that way because himself (which i doubt because he was joking but it might be) because himself or his values, trying him to stop him being that way just to get laid is well... some next level low. Also, if that was the objective, just pay a whore.
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3. Repeat to yourself, women are no different than me, we are all just trying to get along and live in a crazy world, lasting relationships are built on friendship, mutual respect and trust
2+2=5 2+2=5... Look, reality doesn't work that way. Woman are different than him, woman are different that woman, because woman are i don't even know because of the new gender definitions but well, is just a group of people with a few in common characteristics, and most people i know are different and facing different problems. Lasting relationships are built on people who agrees with what the relationship is for years. There are a lot of kind of relationships, a lot of them long lasting, and a lot of those long lasting relationships don't have the slightiest love of friendship.
Also, if only long lasting relationships or relationships at all could get done from friendship introverted and antisocial people would have been extinc milleniums ago...
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4. Save the romance for later in the relationship, if you come in like romeo talking about the light doth shining and all that shit shes gonna think its weird and run away.
Except when the woman wants that, then she doesn't run away. Again, if what you are suggesting him is how to make friends or go to get laid... He can pay a whore or join a internet forum for friendship!.
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Put the trench and fedora away, shave that neck beard and get a haircut, maybe hit the gym 3 times a week too, healthy and confident is sexy.

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I just think he is struggling with the same struggle a lot of men today are struggling. Is sad, is frustrating, it doesn't seems to get easier with time. The fact that he is joking about it, is a good way of dealing with it.
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I just think he is struggling with the same struggle a lot of men today are struggling. Is sad, is frustrating, it doesn't seems to get easier with time. The fact that he is joking about it, is a good way of dealing with it.
Keep rejecting sound advice, the idea that woman are equal and youll stay frustrated and alone.
Nothing indicates he was joking. Everything i wrote was meant to be constructive. Your offense and last paragraph i quoted seems to point to you having a similar incel attitude, refusing to accept that you might need to change your perspective on women to find one.
But what do i know, i am just a guy with a 14 year happy marriage to a woman ive been with for 20 years.
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I just think he is struggling with the same struggle a lot of men today are struggling. Is sad, is frustrating, it doesn't seems to get easier with time. The fact that he is joking about it, is a good way of dealing with it.
Keep rejecting sound advice, the idea that woman are equal and youll stay frustrated and alone.
Nothing indicates he was joking. Everything i wrote was meant to be constructive. Your offense and last paragraph i quoted seems to point to you having a similar incel attitude, refusing to accept that you might need to change your perspective on women to find one.
But what do i know, i am just a guy with a 14 year happy marriage to a woman ive been with for 20 years.
Women are equal is not the same statement as women are not different than me. This is a big strawman and a big accusation. If it is to yeah, i doubt he is a machist, if it is to me. I am not machist. I don't think men or women are "better" than the other, thank you for the insult though.
I don't have a fucking incel attitude for the love of god. I had doubts in my past, but the fucking incel thing is just old as hell god damnit. I've been married, i have been not with as many woman as i want but i've been with some, of course to be with the ones i really consider sexy machines i have to pay, but i think is the same for most men. The problem is having a love relationship. It is not a problem only to men, women seeking the same have the same problem, but in the case of yeah, he is a man, so i spoke about men having that problem because culturally is expected for men to not "want long lasting relationships" or whatever bullshit it is said now.
Jesus christ, there is tinder, there are whores, you can travel (being in another country gives you +3 points of sexappeal somehow) or whatever. But finding a relationship is hard, congrats for having one, i had one too!. The ex-husband of my sister had one too, my father had one too! and after that they got none. Because finding a relationship, is hard man, and making it last, is even harder.
Exagerating: It is like if Shaquille O'Neal just tells a blind deaf lobotomized tetraplegic dwarf that basketball is easy. Ok, for you, now people have problems.
Now again, if a man is struggling with a problem, and is still doing his best, and is joking about it. assuming things about him or even calling him an incel, is in the best case cruel. We are in the sexual and relationships subforum, it would be nice to judge less and try to help. But whatever.
For the moment, i can only assume that you are a presuntous asshole. I hope my deduction is wrong.
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living_failure said with some, of course to be with the ones i really consider sexy machines i have to pay...
Thanks for proving my point with this objectification of women as machines for your sexual pleasure ... let me guess you were joking?
We are in the sexual relationship forum and i am pointing out that you and OP have a toxic attitude towards women and would have better relationships if you showed respect and empathy for the opposite sex. 100% on topic fuck face.
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there are whores, you can travel (being in another country gives you +3 points of sexappeal somehow
Another shining example of your respect for women and understanding of what makes people attracted to eachother.
Sorry for picking out your and ops toxic attitude towards women. I am not trying to insult you, trying to open your eyes to how others see you based upon these statements.
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Thanks for proving my point with this objectification of women as machines for your sexual pleasure ... let me guess you were joking?
I didn't prove anything. I don't consider all woman as sexual machines, or all woman who are so attractive to me that we call them vulgarly sexual machines are only sexual machines. And i neither said or implied something along the lines that you imply that i objetify woman. You are again, strawmaning, which is a low thing to do.
Just in case, because it is also a common mistake, objetifying woman does not even imply machism (not that i did neither).
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We are in the sexual relationship forum and i am pointing out that you and OP have a toxic attitude towards women and would have better relationships if you showed respect and empathy for the opposite sex. 100% on topic fuck face.
Dude like what the fuck are you talking about. I've been in CBT theraphy for a long time, sometimes i've been better, sometimes i've been worse. Had a really bad breakup years ago but for the last months i've been a lot of better (thank god), but honestly: What the fuck did he or me said about woman that showed "lack or respect, or empathy". 100% on your imagination, also, stop objetifyng me, i dont want to be your fuck face.
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there are whores, you can travel (being in another country gives you +3 points of sexappeal somehow
Another shining example of your respect for women and understanding of what makes people attracted to eachother.
Ehm, what? like, i mean, there are whores, i don't mean "a non-sexual worker woman you can actually met at a bar and have sex with" but, whores, someone you paid with money to have sex with. They exist, and i respect them, like, honestly, sometimes they really help making you feel better. It is nothing to feel shame about, not for paying them, and they neither need to feel bad for choosing that work. Also yes, people of other countries are usually seen as "exotic" and "original" not only by women but by men too... making them sexually more appealing. It is normal, it is not bad or good, it is just a common think. At least during most of my life it has been like that on Spain. Maybe in your experience is different, but in my experience and in the experience of the people i know, it is like that. What is machist about that?
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Sorry for picking out your and ops toxic attitude towards women. I am not trying to insult you, trying to open your eyes to how others see you based upon these statements.
You are insulting me, not trying, just directly doing so. Fuckface and accusations of machismo being the insults.
The fact that i use the word whore, or that i talk about using their services openly speak more about my respect for free and voluntary prostitution, than about "machist views on women". The fact that i don't think he said anything wrong, or that i dont think that he is an "incel" but just a guy struggling with their daily life and dreams and frustration say more about my empathy and yours WITH HIM that a THEORETHICAL empathy of ME AND HIM WITH WOMEN AS A WHOLE (which is, in the best case a really abstract concept).
Again, you are virtue signaling, jumping into conclussions about how are people and judging them and their problems and how they should act in the less empathetic way you can manage. The dude is just joking about how he is having problems finding a relationship. Maybe he doesn't like sexual dating culture, and he craves sex which is normal and sane, but he also craves love. Maybe if he cannot have sex and love, he prefers getting a handjob that going into tinder or whatever. Nothing to be ashamed, nothing to be judged. Nothing bad or immoral or insane or anything, just people with their problems.
Dude seriously. What the fuck. No Incel here.
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