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My story thus far (since my breakup) 1
#26502468 - 02/25/20 12:20 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I was gonna post in the well being forum but it's pretty funny so I'll post here :p
SO... today I told the girl I kinda like that if her boyfriend ever treats her wrong that I would treat her right (lol) And after work at found out she told him about me (a while ago) so I'm like "that makes way more since why he was starring hard at me when I went into work today" haha I heard from other people that he was talking about it.
Hahaha what the fuck kind of man just talks shit to everyone but the person it was about. If it was my girl I'd be talking to me directly hahaha fuck me man I just dont care anymore this lame ass job was only temporary but since my plans went to shit I'm going to go to my original plan:
Finish college and live my life and persue my goals. So I'm going to find a better job and apply for college for the summer.
I'll let you guys know if I end up fighting lol and like I told someone tonight I dont want to fight but I will. It's pointless. He could beat my ass and it still wouldn't change how I feel lol
Edit: I work with her a couple more times this week so I'm sure this story will progress lol I just figured it would be a nice story that you guys could chime in/make fun of/whatever lol
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Edited by spirit_shadow (02/25/20 12:22 AM)
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 6
#26502489 - 02/25/20 12:59 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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There are plenty of single girls out there. Why would you want a girl that would leave her man over your silly pick-up line anyways? You should wait until they break-up or just find a single girl.
What you did was pretty disrespectful to her boyfriend and possibly her. Now, if she doesn't leave him for you, or you get into a fight it will just make you look silly and if it happens at work it could keep you from getting a reference and future work.
This guy could be having a bad day and take his anger out on you. Nothing will probably come of this, but people have killed others for much less. Be careful who you might be offending and don't fight this guy, especially at work. Fighting is for people in middle school anyways.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: Lophosaurus]
#26502518 - 02/25/20 02:05 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I couldn't agree more. I'm not trying to steal her away I just let her know how I feel respectfully 
Edit: and I think part of me wants some drama or anything because my life is fucking boring. Maybe getting my ass beat is what I need
Oh and yeah I'm not really perusing this it was just a funny moment that might turn into a fight but everyone knows I'm not actually trying to be a dick it's just hard for me to explain how I feel most times.
I also told her I won't persue her because I'm not that type of guy but I just had to let her know I like her. Fuck it.
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Edited by spirit_shadow (02/25/20 02:14 AM)
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26502528 - 02/25/20 02:29 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I mean I feel it's fair to tell her how I feel. I dont want to be friends with me secretly liking her or some shit. Now that is school yard bullshit lol that "line" was not my exact words. I just summarized. I really did respectfully tell her that I basically like her and that if shit ever went to shit for her that I'm available. More or less.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 1
#26502546 - 02/25/20 03:01 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow said: I'm not trying to steal her away I just let her know how I feel respectfully
Then what are you trying to do? What's the point of bringing it up if you honestly don't want to steal her away? What would it accomplish if you said something vs keeping it to yourself?
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: Newbie] 1
#26502597 - 02/25/20 05:24 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Hospital pics or it didn't happen.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 2
#26502650 - 02/25/20 06:43 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow said: SO... today I told the girl I kinda like that if her boyfriend ever treats her wrong that I would treat her right (lol)
And after work at found out she told him about me (a while ago) so I'm like "that makes way more since why he was starring hard at me when I went into work today" haha I heard from other people that he was talking about it.
what the fuck kind of man just talks shit to everyone but the person it was about.
What kind of man goes behind another man's back, and flirts with their girlfriend for the sole purpose of creating drama? That kinda shit belongs in the 8th grade...not in the workplace. How old are you?
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: 1234go]
#26502666 - 02/25/20 07:01 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I’d smack you in your mouth....I wouldn’t even punch you it’s clear you can’t handle one Nah I’d prolly just fuckin deck you if u made it easy enough and didn’t hide out
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They say if you bust someone’s lip/face up real good they remember you better
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26502678 - 02/25/20 07:12 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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If you really like the girl, let him talk about you man. Take pride in it and laugh it off. The more he talks about you the more insecure he is and the more he'll drive her into your arms. I've been in your situation once before and it's kind of strange to watch a person shoot themselves in the foot in this fashion. It's a weird feeling when you feel sorry for a person for dealing with a shitty situation but know why it's happening, can offer advice to stop it but at the same time you're happy about what's going on so you say nothing because you know it benefits you in the long run. If you're not into the girl that much then you're being twat and need to back off and stop putting tension on other people's relationships.
Keen for a follow up story mate. Don't let me down.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 1
#26502725 - 02/25/20 07:59 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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If their relationship is normal/healthy they'll probably just think you're a bit of a weirdo for saying that, and not do much else, unless you like harass her or something.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: remake]
#26502954 - 02/25/20 11:03 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Guys it a story of ironony. She liked me when I had a girlfriend but never said it and it just makes awkward company. Now that I dont I found out she does but I still felt it needed to be said how I feel. Yes I'm NOT perusing her and even told her that. I just felt she deserved to know before I leave in a few months. Jesus all you guys hating on me lol I'm not telling her to leave her boyfriend and I never will.
Also, I wish he would talk to me so I can explain things. I really dont want to fight. I'd tell him same thing. I like her but I'm not going to actively try to take her. It's better with everything out in open I dont care what anyone says.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: Shroom_guy4]
#26502957 - 02/25/20 11:05 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Shroom_guy4 said: If you really like the girl, let him talk about you man. Take pride in it and laugh it off. The more he talks about you the more insecure he is and the more he'll drive her into your arms. I've been in your situation once before and it's kind of strange to watch a person shoot themselves in the foot in this fashion. It's a weird feeling when you feel sorry for a person for dealing with a shitty situation but know why it's happening, can offer advice to stop it but at the same time you're happy about what's going on so you say nothing because you know it benefits you in the long run. If you're not into the girl that much then you're being twat and need to back off and stop putting tension on other people's relationships.
Keen for a follow up story mate. Don't let me down.

I do like her. But I'm not a twat like everyone on here thinks lol
Edit: yeah the follow up story will depend entirely on their choices because as I stated I've said what I wanted to say so I'll just leave them alone and leave it at that.
Edited by spirit_shadow (02/25/20 11:12 AM)
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spirit_shadow
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theRealrollforever said: I’d smack you in your mouth....I wouldn’t even punch you it’s clear you can’t handle one Nah I’d prolly just fuckin deck you if u made it easy enough and didn’t hide out
I'd let you cos I'm not a bitch. I can take a punch. Can you?
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 1
#26502981 - 02/25/20 11:16 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Mmmmmm Mmmmhhhmmmmm
Give me that sweet, sweet gossip. Nothing funny happens at my office.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: feldman114] 1
#26502986 - 02/25/20 11:20 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I knew someone would appreciate it
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 1
#26502999 - 02/25/20 11:29 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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It is always brave to say how you feel, I hope she really liked you at one point though. Then it would be kinda like a love story from a movie.
Always interesting, although not always pleasant or worthwhile when drama does indeed unfold.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: remake]
#26503004 - 02/25/20 11:34 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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She did for real. I think she still kinda does which is why this is all fucked. The old me would be worried like crazy.....but this new me isn't worried not even in the least.
But as shroom guy said I would really feel bad if I am the cause of their breakup. That is NOT my intention. Which is why I said my piece and now am going to not do/say anything else.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] 1
#26503011 - 02/25/20 11:42 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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My mom was engaged to another guy when she met my dad.
They have been married for 32 years now. So you never know, love is wack.
Edit: Not 'before' - 'when'
Edited by remake (02/25/20 11:54 AM)
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: remake]
#26503016 - 02/25/20 11:46 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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That's what I'm saying. I've seen waaay weirder stories :/
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