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My story thus far (since my breakup) * 1
    #26502468 - 02/25/20 12:20 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I was gonna post in the well being forum but it's pretty funny so I'll post here :p

SO... today I told the girl I kinda like that if her boyfriend ever treats her wrong that I would treat her right (lol)
And after work at found out she told him about me (a while ago) so I'm like "that makes way more since why he was starring hard at me when I went into work today" haha I heard from other people that he was talking about it.

Hahaha what the fuck kind of man just talks shit to everyone but the person it was about. If it was my girl I'd be talking to me directly hahaha fuck me man I just dont care anymore this lame ass job was only temporary but since my plans went to shit I'm going to go to my original plan:

Finish college and live my life and persue my goals. So I'm going to find a better job and apply for college for the summer.

I'll let you guys know if I end up fighting lol and like I told someone tonight I dont want to fight but I will. It's pointless. He could beat my ass and it still wouldn't change how I feel lol

Edit: I work with her a couple more times this week so I'm sure this story will progress lol I just figured it would be a nice story that you guys could chime in/make fun of/whatever lol :shroomeryhead:


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] * 6
    #26502489 - 02/25/20 12:59 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

There are plenty of single girls out there. Why would you want a girl that would leave her man over your silly pick-up line anyways? You should wait until they break-up or just find a single girl.

What you did was pretty disrespectful to her boyfriend and possibly her. Now, if she doesn't leave him for you, or you get into a fight it will just make you look silly and if it happens at work it could keep you from getting a reference and future work.

This guy could be having a bad day and take his anger out on you. Nothing will probably come of this, but people have killed others for much less. Be careful who you might be offending and don't fight this guy, especially at work. Fighting is for people in middle school anyways.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: Lophosaurus]
    #26502518 - 02/25/20 02:05 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I couldn't agree more. I'm not trying to steal her away I just let her know how I feel respectfully :salute:

Edit: and I think part of me wants some drama or anything because my life is fucking boring. Maybe getting my ass beat is what I need :shrug: 

Oh and yeah I'm not really perusing this it was just a funny moment that might turn into a fight but everyone knows I'm not actually trying to be a dick it's just hard for me to explain how I feel most times. 

I also told her I won't persue her because I'm not that type of guy but I just had to let her know I like her.  Fuck it.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26502528 - 02/25/20 02:29 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I mean I feel it's fair to tell her how I feel. I dont want to be friends with me secretly liking her or some shit. Now that is school yard bullshit lol that "line" was not my exact words. I just summarized. I really did respectfully tell her that I basically like her and that if shit ever went to shit for her that I'm available. More or less.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26502546 - 02/25/20 03:01 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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I'm not trying to steal her away I just let her know how I feel respectfully




Then what are you trying to do?  What's the point of bringing it up if you honestly don't want to steal her away?  What would it accomplish if you said something vs keeping it to yourself?


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: Newbie] * 1
    #26502597 - 02/25/20 05:24 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Hospital pics or it didn't happen.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] * 2
    #26502650 - 02/25/20 06:43 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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SO... today I told the girl I kinda like that if her boyfriend ever treats her wrong that I would treat her right (lol)

And after work at found out she told him about me (a while ago) so I'm like "that makes way more since why he was starring hard at me when I went into work today" haha I heard from other people that he was talking about it.

what the fuck kind of man just talks shit to everyone but the person it was about.







What kind of man goes behind another man's back, and flirts with their girlfriend for the sole purpose of creating drama?  That kinda shit belongs in the 8th grade...not in the workplace.  How old are you?


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: 1234go]
    #26502666 - 02/25/20 07:01 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I’d smack you in your mouth....I wouldn’t even punch you it’s clear you can’t handle one
Nah I’d prolly just fuckin deck you if u made it easy enough and didn’t hide out


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: theRealrollforever]
    #26502675 - 02/25/20 07:11 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

They say if you bust someone’s lip/face up real good they remember you better


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26502678 - 02/25/20 07:12 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

If you really like the girl, let him talk about you man. Take pride in it and laugh it off. The more he talks about you the more insecure he is and the more he'll drive her into your arms. I've been in your situation once before and it's kind of strange to watch a person shoot themselves in the foot in this fashion. It's a weird feeling when you feel sorry for a person for dealing with a shitty situation but know why it's happening, can offer advice to stop it but at the same time you're happy about what's going on so you say nothing because you know it benefits you in the long run.
If you're not into the girl that much then you're being twat and need to back off and stop putting tension on other people's relationships.

Keen for a follow up story mate. Don't let me down.
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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26502725 - 02/25/20 07:59 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

If their relationship is normal/healthy they'll probably just think you're a bit of a weirdo for saying that, and not do much else, unless you like harass her or something.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: remake]
    #26502954 - 02/25/20 11:03 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Guys it a story of ironony. She liked me when I had a girlfriend but never said it and it just makes awkward company. Now that I dont I found out she does but I still felt it needed to be said how I feel. Yes I'm NOT perusing her and even told her that. I just felt she deserved to know before I leave in a few months. Jesus all you guys hating on me lol I'm not telling her to leave her boyfriend and I never will.

Also, I wish he would talk to me so I can explain things. I really dont want to fight. I'd tell him same thing. I like her but I'm not going to actively try to take her. It's better with everything out in open I dont care what anyone says.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: Shroom_guy4]
    #26502957 - 02/25/20 11:05 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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If you really like the girl, let him talk about you man. Take pride in it and laugh it off. The more he talks about you the more insecure he is and the more he'll drive her into your arms. I've been in your situation once before and it's kind of strange to watch a person shoot themselves in the foot in this fashion. It's a weird feeling when you feel sorry for a person for dealing with a shitty situation but know why it's happening, can offer advice to stop it but at the same time you're happy about what's going on so you say nothing because you know it benefits you in the long run.
If you're not into the girl that much then you're being twat and need to back off and stop putting tension on other people's relationships.

Keen for a follow up story mate. Don't let me down.
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I do like her. But I'm not a twat like everyone on here thinks lol

Edit: yeah the follow up story will depend entirely on their choices because as I stated I've said what I wanted to say so I'll just leave them alone and leave it at that.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: theRealrollforever]
    #26502974 - 02/25/20 11:13 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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I’d smack you in your mouth....I wouldn’t even punch you it’s clear you can’t handle one
Nah I’d prolly just fuckin deck you if u made it easy enough and didn’t hide out



I'd let you cos I'm not a bitch. I can take a punch. Can you?


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26502981 - 02/25/20 11:16 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Mmmmmm
Mmmmhhhmmmmm

Give me that sweet, sweet gossip. Nothing funny happens at my office.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: feldman114] * 1
    #26502986 - 02/25/20 11:20 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I knew someone would appreciate it :shroomeryhead:


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26502999 - 02/25/20 11:29 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

It is always brave to say how you feel, I hope she really liked you at one point though. Then it would be kinda like a love story from a movie.

Always interesting, although not always pleasant or worthwhile when drama does indeed unfold.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: remake]
    #26503004 - 02/25/20 11:34 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

She did for real. I think she still kinda does which is why this is all fucked. The old me would be worried like crazy.....but this new me isn't worried not even in the least.

But as shroom guy said I would really feel bad if I am the cause of their breakup. That is NOT my intention. Which is why I said my piece and now am going to not do/say anything else.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26503011 - 02/25/20 11:42 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

My mom was engaged to another guy when she met my dad.

They have been married for 32 years now. So you never know, love is wack.

Edit: Not 'before' - 'when'


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: remake]
    #26503016 - 02/25/20 11:46 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

That's what I'm saying. I've seen waaay  weirder stories :/


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26503722 - 02/25/20 05:58 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

:lol: you're such a dweeb. Are you like 17?


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #26503771 - 02/25/20 06:22 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

No. I'm just making it sound way worse than it is lol I already said I'm horrible with words :shrug:

Edit: and my current not giving a fuck mood I've been in lately  sure isn't helping anything :/


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26503823 - 02/25/20 06:46 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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Quote:

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I’d smack you in your mouth....I wouldn’t even punch you it’s clear you can’t handle one
Nah I’d prolly just fuckin deck you if u made it easy enough and didn’t hide out



I'd let you cos I'm not a bitch. I can take a punch. Can you?



I’ve definitely never been rocked :rofl:
I’m talking drunk shit outta my ass

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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: theRealrollforever]
    #26503827 - 02/25/20 06:48 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

And then that’s a good time if you are gonna make it easy if it’s less than a two hour drive I’d happily oblige but the fact of the matter is I’m not mad at you it isn’t my girl and I got my own problems.  You do u bud

I just think what u did is fuckin lame
It’s a passive aggressive shot at their relationship and you don’t know how much each means to the other no matter what is happening.  Just be fuckin decent. Keep your feelings to yourself if you aren’t head over heels for her I’ve been right in your shoes


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: theRealrollforever] * 2
    #26503856 - 02/25/20 07:05 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Dont worry I am keeping it decent....I may have had a bit to drink when I first posted as well. And she deserved to know. I've let everyone know I'm not trying to break them up I just wanted my feelings known. Fuck hiding shit. Get it all out there. face your feelings. Face life.

And I've been been hit before. I've had my face smashed before and I can still get up. I have. Fact is I can take pain. I just dont like to fight because it really is pointless when words work way better.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26503894 - 02/25/20 07:30 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I understand spirit shadow :peace:

also believe you , when you say that it's not as bad as it seems , or at all.

That's what most women do , they just jump from guy to guy. Or cheat , it's how it is. When your feelings grow stronger for them , as time goes on. Their feeling for you dont , their feeling are just there for a short time. Probably 8 out of 10 shit maybe 99 %

All you can really do is say sorry. Keep in mind sorry dosent mean much nowadays. That's why I'm not looking for a relationship anymore. If it happens that's cool but I wouldn't expect it to go anywhere , like at all.

If anyone ever leaves somone else for you. Or cheats with you , they will do that to you.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: watermelon mon] * 1
    #26503909 - 02/25/20 07:37 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I think the # 1 thing I need to remind myself is that

pretty much no one really gives a fuck about me

It's pretty much like that for all of us

I will give a fuck about you though


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: watermelon mon]
    #26503912 - 02/25/20 07:39 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Same I value everyone on here.... even you  therealrollforever :p and I would totally let you punch me in the face if it would make you feel better :shroomeryhead:


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26503928 - 02/25/20 07:49 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Sorry if what I wrote sounds cold

I'm sure you already know that's the way it mostly is

I think that society and just everything , it dose a good job at making people want to live some bull shit fairytale. it's mostly just so they can suck whatever out of us. The only thing they can suck is my dick.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: watermelon mon]
    #26503937 - 02/25/20 07:53 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

In America? Oh yeah. I already know she is that type of girl. Just like my sister....so it really doesn't even matter. But still at the end of the day I'm not someone who breaks people up for self gain. But in my scenerio(which there is still some info I have not shared) I felt it best to let her know how I feel the best way I could.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26503949 - 02/25/20 07:59 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Canada too

I usually have a happy mindset

A postive mindset , some people might not see that as positive

I do , because I think it may give us the upper hand


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: watermelon mon] * 1
    #26504151 - 02/25/20 10:16 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

There are a whole lot of relationships that are fake. Real ones are there, but they are, by definition - rare. If you want a relationship with one person only from a pool of 7 billion people, it's probably going to take some kind of miracle and dedication.

Here where I live, you get all kinds, but plenty of women are also very loyal.

Not all people are drones. I also wouldn't say that people don't care about you. All of us are probably just thinking about ourselves, just like you.

Isolation however is an illusion, imo. I can sit here and be like yeah, there's nobody like me etc. etc. while there are probably like 500 million people thinking the exact same thing with not one truly unique characteristic in any of them.

Maybe take yourself less seriously. Nobody really wants to think of one person ALL THE TIME. There's shit to be done.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26504182 - 02/25/20 10:50 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

treating girls right doesnt make them wet. youre being a sterotypical beta. and your post is difficult to read for some sentences, is english your second language?


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: pivotingpenguin]
    #26504186 - 02/25/20 10:54 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

If my posts get difficult to read it's probably cos I'm drinking. And as I said fuck it all. None of it matters. I'm only posting this here for your guys entertainment.

Edit: also, what the fuck lol alpha? Beta? Dude you need to check yourself. Labels don't matter one fucking bit. If I REALLY wanted to push for her and be a dick I could. But that is not me.

Listen well: ALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS. and if you can't treat them as such then you can't appreciate life and what it is worth.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26504216 - 02/25/20 11:26 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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If my posts get difficult to read it's probably cos I'm drinking. And as I said fuck it all. None of it matters. I'm only posting this here for your guys entertainment.

Edit: also, what the fuck lol alpha? Beta? Dude you need to check yourself. Labels don't matter one fucking bit. If I REALLY wanted to push for her and be a dick I could. But that is not me.

Listen well: ALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS. and if you can't treat them as such then you can't appreciate life and what it is worth.



yeah women are beautiful flowers, i tell my girls theyre pretty too. im not that insecure. but behavior can be more or less alpha and women can smell that shit on you the 1st time you meet. thats why i fuck multiple hot girls and you get upset because a girl doesnt even like you back


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    #26504247 - 02/26/20 12:25 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I dont want to fuck multiple girls. I mean I dont judge. My best friend fucks multiple men :shrug: Its just a crush that may or may not go anywhere. I'm still going to go live my life. I'm not sitting here crying about it if that is what you are thinking lol I could go fuck a couple loose women right now but again, not my cup of tea. All I did was tell a girl that I like her. Damn lol


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    #26504446 - 02/26/20 07:16 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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That's what most women do , they just jump from guy to guy. Or cheat , it's how it is. When your feelings grow stronger for them , as time goes on. Their feeling for you dont , their feeling are just there for a short time. Probably 8 out of 10 shit maybe 99 %





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I do like her. But I'm not a twat like everyone on here thinks lol





I personally don't think that, so not everyone on here thinks you're a twat... You've clearly got some self esteem issues to make you jump to that conclusion. It might be worthwhile thinking about why you have the thoughts you do and then take steps to deal with those issues whether they be induced by emotional trauma or physical.

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It's better with everything out in open I don't care what anyone says.




I agree with this 1000%, especially as an adult and the clock is ticking. Why waste time on trivial head/mind games like in HS or even your 20's. Lay things on the line,if it works great, if not move along, learn from it.


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You gave me an excellent quote WM!

SS- hang in there, live it! Glad you decided to go back to school. SEE, this is how things happen good from something seemingly devastating, it steered you on the path you really should have taken in the 1st place.:heart:


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    #26504633 - 02/26/20 10:28 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

My whole problem with this is just your meh attitude about the girl in general.  If you are head over heels or someone I agree with getting your feelings in the open but if it’s something you never pursued bc it’s relatively insignificant and the rejection is NBD then there was really no reason to put unduepressure / stress on their relationship anyway just because you are sad about a breakup.  My 2c

Trex I was just tellin you about how I point blank approached that girl and even to this day shes playing with me head mate.  I agree with open feelings expressions no regrets etc, Just sayin to think about other people’s feelings and lives a bit more than randomly interjecting in their life at your own convenience.  Say it to the guys face when he’s with her.  I doubt you would.


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    #26504648 - 02/26/20 10:40 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

rex I was just tellin you about how I point blank approached that girl and even to this day shes playing with me head mate.  I agree with open feelings expressions no regrets etc, Just sayin to think about other people’s feelings and lives a bit more than randomly interjecting in their life at your own convenience.  Say it to the guys face when he’s with her.  I doubt you would.


I agree with this.

I think spirit was just feeling wicked and did a sort of passive aggressive thing to get some of his anger out, and it wasn't a stellar move, but it wasn't that bad either. The aren't married or anything, and he did say she is unhappy with that guy, so it was a fair shot.:shrug:

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    #26504649 - 02/26/20 10:42 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

It was a bit of a shitty move.
But
If that ruins their relationship, they never stood a chance anyway. Time saved for both people🤷🏻‍♂️


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    #26504653 - 02/26/20 10:44 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Yes! Great point, shitty, I don't think shitty, maybe a bit manipulative,and squirrelly. (:heart:you spirit!) I myself have been a complete asshole and fucker, so that shit is light compared to some shit I pulled in my teens and 20's, lol.


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    #26504663 - 02/26/20 10:55 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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I do like her. But I'm not a twat like everyone on here thinks lol





I personally don't think that, so not everyone on here thinks you're a twat... You've clearly got some self esteem issues to make you jump to that conclusion. It might be worthwhile thinking about why you have the thoughts you do and then take steps to deal with those issues whether they be induced by emotional trauma or physical.

Sending you good vibes mate.



I meant everyone on this thread. I know most of you dont hate me. And I drank in the thread and made myself look like an idiot(why I rarely drink).  But I'm not gonna say sorry because I have learned from it..... I will say thank you though. Thank you to everyone who has responded. I post here because I value all of your guys opinions.


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    #26504667 - 02/26/20 10:58 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Also it was not a dick move. I Do like her a lot. I clearly stated my motives and reasons. She had to know. Maybe it would change your guys mind if I told you she stole my number from from someone else without me knowing? She likes me. I had to let her know I like her too. Fuck all of you who thinks that is wrong.


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    #26504676 - 02/26/20 11:09 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

It’s cool bro we luv u yo :heart: keep us updated don’t mind us... :peace:


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    #26504681 - 02/26/20 11:13 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Lol ok, “shitty” might be the wrong word. I just meant the move was at the expense of her BF.

But, thing is, if I was the dude, I wouldn’t blink an eye. Duh, of course other people will like her, so what? Why would I want to be with an unattractive person anyway, ya know?
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    #26504693 - 02/26/20 11:22 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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rex I was just tellin you about how I point blank approached that girl and even to this day shes playing with me head mate.  I agree with open feelings expressions no regrets etc, Just sayin to think about other people’s feelings and lives a bit more than randomly interjecting in their life at your own convenience.  Say it to the guys face when he’s with her.  I doubt you would.


I agree with this.

I think spirit was just feeling wicked and did a sort of passive aggressive thing to get some of his anger out, and it wasn't a stellar move, but it wasn't that bad either. The aren't married or anything, and he did say she is unhappy with that guy, so it was a fair shot.:shrug:

@RRF--Also, forget about that game playing head trip biznitch!



She’s too hot she was supposed to come hang out and melt glass and get her pendant but then never called last night because I didn’t hit her up or ask her or anything where she was!  Total games but she’s easily the prettiest girl that’s ever been willing to play these games with me and thus I am an unwilling participant :rofl:


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    #26504699 - 02/26/20 11:25 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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It was a bit of a shitty move.
But
If that ruins their relationship, they never stood a chance anyway. Time saved for both people🤷🏻‍♂️



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It was a bit of a shitty move.
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If that ruins their relationship, they never stood a chance anyway. Time saved for both people🤷🏻‍♂️



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    #26504828 - 02/26/20 12:50 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Thing is I dont care what is done to me anymore. It really doesn't matter. That being said I'm still not a dick. I still have zero intentions of breaking them up. It's just ironic that she liked me when I was unavailable(and I liked her but never told her) but even though she has bf now I just felt I owed it to her to tell her I like her too. I'm sure word will get around to her bf that I have no ill intentions.


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    #26504867 - 02/26/20 01:21 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

You have zero intention but felt compelled to share your affection for her?  Seems conflicted


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    #26504870 - 02/26/20 01:23 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Btw I’m really not tryin to be a dick but honestly feel like you are letting your own emotional satisfaction triumph over actually being a decent person :twocents:


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Hmmm.... possibly. Nobody is perfect. At least I'm trying to be decent about it all.


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    #26505022 - 02/26/20 03:03 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I’m just sayin man you are one of the good guys IMO
At least be real I got no prob with you wanting to steal someone’s beeotch.  But be honest about it lol


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You gave me an excellent quote WM!





I'm happy you understand. People have laughed at me when I wrote , I want to make things into a song. They just never heard the kind of music , that it would go with.

They also laughed at me when I wrote , that I can walk more than I can talk. It's for real I walked non stop like a soldier. Bare footed allover places most wouldn't dare step a single foot.

My feet came back , black / blistered as fuck and on fire. I'm doing it 4 life , Ain't no pussy ass bitch. I just go underestimated. It's stright up in my blood.


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    #26507175 - 02/27/20 08:20 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Well I just worked with her and all is good. She has dialed way back on the flirting since I told her that I like her which I'm glad because again, not that guy. And like I said I'm leaving soon anyway so why not be honest  and go for broke? Fortune favors the bold right?

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    #26507232 - 02/27/20 08:49 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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Fuck all of you who thinks that is wrong.





Dude, you literally invited people to criticize, and make of the situation.  Which leads me to believe that you know what you're doing is kinda shitty.


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    #26507238 - 02/27/20 08:57 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Ok that was a little overboard. I am sorry about that one and take it back. And again it was just hard to get my feelings across without looking like a shitty person. I wanted to do it. I did do it. I'm sorry if people think that is shitty. I respectfully disagree. Better?

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    #26507250 - 02/27/20 09:04 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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    #26507292 - 02/27/20 09:27 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I do respect all of you here for real. Even the negative opinions. If I retaliate it is just pure instinct. I know I need to work on it and have been but nothing seems to work...


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    #26507771 - 02/28/20 08:09 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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Thing is I dont care what is done to me anymore. It really doesn't matter. That being said I'm still not a dick. I still have zero intentions of breaking them up. It's just ironic that she liked me when I was unavailable(and I liked her but never told her) but even though she has bf now I just felt I owed it to her to tell her I like her too. I'm sure word will get around to her bf that I have no ill intentions.





People love attention mate, committed people especially. They love it like everyone, but they especially love it when it gets back to their partners and makes their partners jealous eg realise that others want them too.
Leverage, value, security...
There's many reasons a person in a dedicated relationship loves attention from others but never cheats.
I thought you stould a chance when i first commented but now i relaise that this girl is playing you.
Get involved on Tinder or something. At the least you need to forget this girl, stop talking to her abruptly, stop being her little tool. She may say you two are friends and beg for your attention but it's all a rouse. Stay logical. If she is your friend when was the last time you two caught up for a friendly get together? Oh you talk daily over messenger? I bet she she only replies to you when her boyfriend is watching.
You can stop living your life in the passenger seat mate, but you need to open the other door, get in and learn to drive. It's not easy at first but it's totally worth it in the end.


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Ok that was a little overboard. I am sorry about that one and take it back. And again it was just hard to get my feelings across without looking like a shitty person. I wanted to do it. I did do it. I'm sorry if people think that is shitty. I respectfully disagree. Better?






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spirit_shadow said:
Thing is I dont care what is done to me anymore. It really doesn't matter. That being said I'm still not a dick. I still have zero intentions of breaking them up. It's just ironic that she liked me when I was unavailable(and I liked her but never told her) but even though she has bf now I just felt I owed it to her to tell her I like her too. I'm sure word will get around to her bf that I have no ill intentions.





People love attention mate, committed people especially. They love it like everyone, but they especially love it when it gets back to their partners and makes their partners jealous eg realise that others want them too.
Leverage, value, security...
There's many reasons a person in a dedicated relationship loves attention from others but never cheats.
I thought you stould a chance when i first commented but now i relaise that this girl is playing you.
Get involved on Tinder or something. At the least you need to forget this girl, stop talking to her abruptly, stop being her little tool. She may say you two are friends and beg for your attention but it's all a rouse. Stay logical. If she is your friend when was the last time you two caught up for a friendly get together? Oh you talk daily over messenger? I bet she she only replies to you when her boyfriend is watching.
You can stop living your life in the passenger seat mate, but you need to open the other door, get in and learn to drive. It's not easy at first but it's totally worth it in the end.



I was thinking the same thing. I thought there could be something at first but now realize she is just looking for attention 24/7 just like my sister...... not cool :/

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    #26508030 - 02/28/20 11:33 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Omg. This thread has better character arcs than Game of Thrones season 8...

Our hero was faced with heartbreak and drama, went through an emotional roller coaster, made a bold, out-of-character move, learned his perception was flawed, and finally came out a smarter, more mature person!and he didn’t even go nuts and burn an entire city for no good reason

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    #26508102 - 02/28/20 12:12 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

How could her boyfriend be mad at you at all OP?

You are very clearly autistic.  Lmao, don't do whatcha did again, we all do dumb shit though.  How old are you anyway?


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    #26508213 - 02/28/20 01:22 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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Ok that was a little overboard. I am sorry about that one and take it back. And again it was just hard to get my feelings across without looking like a shitty person. I wanted to do it. I did do it. I'm sorry if people think that is shitty. I respectfully disagree. Better?

Edit: it's just when I feel wrongfully attacked I turn a bit nasty...... I have many faults.






It was a dumb ass thing to say, nothing more, nothing less :shrug:.  Even if your intentions were totally pure. Even if you're just a sarcastic son of a bitch with kind of a dark dead-pan kind of humor that makes it feel like this was honestly just joking around, there's still consequences to your words and I think most people in a committed and monogamous relationship would bristle at it,

Not saying she's not obnoxious in her own right for only wanting your attention when she couldn't have it. That's a pretty common feeling amongst immature girls, and I've definitely felt it myself(there was no existing relationship, I would never try and get with someone in a relationship) when I was younger and dumber, so I'm far from surprised. Don't waste your time with someone who's playing those kind of games, it really is just about getting that sweet sweet attention, and you deserve better.


Go meet new people. For real. Nothing has to come of it. And I should really take my own advice, but you sound like you could really use a change of pace.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: pirate-blues] * 1
    #26508348 - 02/28/20 03:03 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I'm not wasting my time. I just felt it was owed to say I liked her. Damn lol I know I got drunk and said shit that blew it all way out of proportion and I really am sorry to you all. There is a reason I hardly ever drink....

Edit: I turn into a punk ass kid when I drink :/


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    #26508381 - 02/28/20 03:11 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I don’t think anyone thinks less of you cause of this shit, dude.

Whoever does should remember their last heartbreak and how they acted/felt and promptly stfu.


If you ask me, you actually did the healthy thing by venting about the situation.


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    #26508412 - 02/28/20 03:14 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I know it's all good. I am moving on with my life. I'm about to head back to college and work a decent job I've worked before.  I'm also thinking of banning myself for a bit so I literally have no distractions and can get my shit done...


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    #26508491 - 02/28/20 03:54 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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spirit_shadow said:
I'm not wasting my time. I just felt it was owed to say I liked her. Damn lol I know I got drunk and said shit that blew it all way out of proportion and I really am sorry to you all. There is a reason I hardly ever drink....

Edit: I turn into a punk ass kid when I drink :/





lol sorry, I don't mean to be another preachy asshole repeating the exact same thing for the 30th time - we've all been there dude, my intended point that it's really not that big of a deal.


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Re: My story thus far (since my breakup) [Re: feldman114] * 2
    #26508616 - 02/28/20 05:13 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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feldman114 said:
Omg. This thread has better character arcs than Game of Thrones season 8...

Our hero was faced with heartbreak and drama, went through an emotional roller coaster, made a bold, out-of-character move, learned his perception was flawed, and finally came out a smarter, more mature person!






:canthelpbutlaugh:

I'm hoping for a Better Call Saul style spin off in the future


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    #26508680 - 02/28/20 05:50 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

..... I plus 1'd lol


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