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So called "friends"
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Have a couple of so called friends here.
They ALWAYS want to borrow money of me, like every week, tenner, some times, 15, some times 20.
And they NEVER pay it back i mean never.
I said today to one git, i stopped landing money to people, and he said like "friends supposed to look after each other" and shit.
I reminded him the last few times he borrowed moneyu i never got it back and instead of saying - ohh im sorry i was skint or something he plain denied the fact that i lent him pounds.
Everytime he gets money from he promises to give it back, yet time after time when i remind him he owes me money he simply says thats not truth and says im talking rubbish.
Anyway, i am done with their friendship. Im gonna wind things down and down play it. I donnt wonna brush them off fast or they will get angry and fuck with me even more.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501016 - 02/24/20 07:31 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Wanna be my friend...I dont need or want your fake British money.....I work in dollars bro Be my buddy and it comes with free hugs
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They are trolling me now
Spoke on the phone with 1, said i must give them money Just as i finished speaking with 1, 2nd phones me and tells me we should meet in town today. I told him im busy. In a minnute 1st one calls and asks if 2nd called me i say yes He then asks whhat he said and why i brushed him off.
This is getting fucking redicelous
Reminds me of a time i was in school 12 years old and shit heads always extorted money from me
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy] 4
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Seems like you should tell them to fuck off
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I got angry at someone yesterday. Just said you are no my friend.
Thought about going to where I used to work , to sit down order food
Take a bite then get mad and be like what the fuck is this shit , not pay and be like fuck you asshole
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy] 1
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And now at the ripe age of 16 you've finally learned to say no? Teehee... how old are you?
People should have 1 ... ONE chance to prove they will pay you back, if they don't and you still lend you've entered 'door mat' status
Learn to say NO more, its very liberating!
I once lent a guy i was kinda friends with at work 20$ (against my better judgement because he was always 'cool' with me) 1 week passed ... excuses no money, 2 weeks passed ....more excuses. Went to the paycheck manager and told them ... they held his check there when he asked for it and paged me to get my money .... there he was cursing me out as he was forced to pay the money back he owed.
anyway once you have some more respect for yourself you should be able to find some friends that do as well.
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 Put it in there butt....like a roll of change.
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I got angry at someone yesterday. Just said you are no my friend.
Thought about going to where I used to work to sit down order food
Take a bite then get mad and be like what the fuck is this shit , not pay and be like fuck you asshole
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Take a shit on there porch with a 10 under it
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy] 1
#26501098 - 02/24/20 08:42 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Gypsy Boy said:
I reminded him the last few times he borrowed moneyu i never got it back and instead of saying - ohh im sorry i was skint or something he plain denied the fact that i lent him pounds.
Everytime he gets money from he promises to give it back, yet time after time when i remind him he owes me money he simply says thats not truth and says im talking rubbish.
Fuck this person off per immediate please. That's got nothing to do with friendship. Its better to be alone than be covered in leeches like that.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501129 - 02/24/20 09:14 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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You should mess with them, tell them you'll borrow them money then act like you forgot about it
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definitely leeches if they need 15 or 20 all the time. sounds like they cant satiate their own drug habit or something. a friend you can lend 1,000s of dollars and know your gonna get that shit back. I had a bunch of "friends" like that and they were all heroin addicts if thats the case yoiur being a friend just talking to em at all and thats gotta be taxing in and of itself
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Bad idea. People who chronically and shamelessly mooch often have personality types that open them up to other activities like vandalism.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Asante]
#26501184 - 02/24/20 10:00 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501218 - 02/24/20 10:22 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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They sound co-dependent. Highschool mentality stuff. Find more mature and responsible friends. Good for you though. At least you've made the first step and hopefully this won't happen again. Happened to me too a few years ago. Kind of catches you off guard if you never experienced it firsthand and when you expect people to be mature and respect your boundaries.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
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I'm beginning to hate anyone who asks me for money. Doesn't matter if they're a best friend or not. If you need to borrow money from friends then youre fucking up big time. You buy weed but can't make rent?
I had someone yesterday do this and I got all pissed and then they got all pissed and, then I got pissed even more at the fact that they were pissed at me for not giving them my money. They use the fact that I have a job as leverage against me. They start saying things like "financial hardship" and "don't want to hurt my pride by asking my GF for money"
Then he tries to get me to pawn his "inherited grandparents jewelry" for him because he doesn't have valid ID. Told him that I'd buy him a new ID instead so he could pawn it himself and he got all mad and rejected my brilliant idea. I offered to pay 40 bucks out my pocket so he could have a valid ID free and clear and he didn't want it. Called him a retard and blocked number.
My new rule is absolutley nobody borrows or gets loans from me, not even family. I'm a cold blooded rejector of lending money
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: trees]
#26501253 - 02/24/20 10:46 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Same man
I never let anyone borrow money before , been asked
It's also something that I would never ask someone for
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Asante]
#26501417 - 02/24/20 12:13 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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MightyWhite said: You should mess with them, tell them you'll borrow them money then act like you forgot about it
Bad idea. People who chronically and shamelessly mooch often have personality types that open them up to other activities like vandalism.
You make a good point, I didn't consider that.
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Its gone further!!
Git 1 now said I owe HIM a tenner !!
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501642 - 02/24/20 02:02 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Typical bro behavior. 1 and 2 would prolly feel right at home at a frat.
Just be “busy” when they hit you up. If you don’t pick up they get pissed, but if you pick up and say “no, we’re not gonna chill, I got shit to do” they get sad about their non-life.
Alternatively, you can tell 1 to suck that 10 out the tip of your cock.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: feldman114]
#26501644 - 02/24/20 02:04 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501669 - 02/24/20 02:26 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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What are you doing? You are interrupting the flow of you giving money to me.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501671 - 02/24/20 02:28 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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You ever thought of calling them on all the money they owe you. Might be time to get in touch with your inner loan shark.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501830 - 02/24/20 04:12 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Gypsy Boy said: Have a couple of so called friends here.
They ALWAYS want to borrow money of me, like every week, tenner, some times, 15, some times 20.
And they NEVER pay it back i mean never.
I said today to one git, i stopped landing money to people, and he said like "friends supposed to look after each other" and shit.
I reminded him the last few times he borrowed moneyu i never got it back and instead of saying - ohh im sorry i was skint or something he plain denied the fact that i lent him pounds.
Everytime he gets money from he promises to give it back, yet time after time when i remind him he owes me money he simply says thats not truth and says im talking rubbish.
Anyway, i am done with their friendship. Im gonna wind things down and down play it. I donnt wonna brush them off fast or they will get angry and fuck with me even more.
Do these friends have jobs? They're asking for money every week? The fuck?
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: lowbrow]
#26501832 - 02/24/20 04:14 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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#26501841 - 02/24/20 04:19 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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If there's one thing I've learned in my 55 years, it's NEVER "lend" money to "friends". Only if it's a long time and very very trusted friend. The kind you know you could call if you're in jail type friend. If they all abandon you or get mad at you for turning them down when they ask for a fiver or whatever, then they weren't true friends. I don't care what fucking sob story or excuse or begging, do not lent it!
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: azramb] 1
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azramb said: I like to mooch off mooches. I'm a mooch moocher.
Are you minnie the moocher?
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Whoa! Whoa! Whoa!
Who said anything about violence?
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azramb said: I like to mooch off mooches. I'm a mooch moocher.
Are you minnie the moocher?
I actually have no idea who that is lol.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: azramb] 2
#26502019 - 02/24/20 05:56 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Lending money to a friend is the best way to lose your money and your friend
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Yeah that's why whenever I feel generous enough to give something to someone I do just that. If I'm worried about getting money back no point in giving it out in the first place.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: azramb]
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You made a mistake calling these fuckheads on mooching off you man. You should have just become suddenly and irreversibly skint. A million excuses why your money is gone and there's none for them. Maybe it's not too late for that now. They'll get bored and leave you alone if there's no pay day.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Northerner]
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Every time they call I'd ask if they have the money to pay you back. Tell them about your troubles, the things you were planning on buying with that money. Either that or else block their numbers and ghost em.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Northerner]
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Northerner said: You made a mistake calling these fuckheads on mooching off you man. You should have just become suddenly and irreversibly skint. A million excuses why your money is gone and there's none for them. Maybe it's not too late for that now. They'll get bored and leave you alone if there's no pay day.
Been there.
This is what I would do
If they hang out then cool, if not then move on and dont lend money to friends. I mean its one thing to pick up a round but friends s/n/b borrowing at 25 yo.
Also familiarity breads contempt, do be so easy to spot them $$.
Maybe everytime they ask you should break into a lecture about fiscal responsibility and ask them if they really need the loan or just want it
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Nah, just cut the motherfuckers off but don't tell them.
"Lend me a tenner mate?" "I was just about to ask you man, I'm so skint." "Where'd your money go?" "Spent it man."
Same conversation every time, forever, rinse and repeat.
Then if they ever see you spending money you claim you borrowed it from someone else.

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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Babylon]
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: azramb]
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You could just steel what your owed back from them if your that worried about it lol.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: trees]
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trees said: I'm beginning to hate anyone who asks me for money. Doesn't matter if they're a best friend or not. If you need to borrow money from friends then youre fucking up big time. You buy weed but can't make rent?
lol cause thats the only reason someone would need to borrow money what about starting a business or paying a deposit on a spot or a million other reasons? maybe the kind of stuff that would make you more than enough to pay them back tenfold? anyone would hate someone mooching 10-20 off you all the time but having trustworthy friends that will loan you $ when you need it is priceless. Id loan $ to anyone that I call a friend whenever they need it and they do the same for me. thats how its suppose to work. otherwise, yes. youre just being a petty mooch and deserve nothing
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: TedsDead]
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OP you want a real friend? I got you. You need money or spores? I won't ask you for shit
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careful... this guys scheming
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That's right 
Edit: not about OP tho
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trees said: I'm beginning to hate anyone who asks me for money. Doesn't matter if they're a best friend or not. If you need to borrow money from friends then youre fucking up big time. You buy weed but can't make rent?
lol cause thats the only reason someone would need to borrow money what about starting a business or paying a deposit on a spot or a million other reasons? maybe the kind of stuff that would make you more than enough to pay them back tenfold? anyone would hate someone mooching 10-20 off you all the time but having trustworthy friends that will loan you $ when you need it is priceless. Id loan $ to anyone that I call a friend whenever they need it and they do the same for me. thats how its suppose to work. otherwise, yes. youre just being a petty mooch and deserve nothing
I already told you bro, Im not lending you any more money. Never again. How about you think twice about quitting your job the next time you get corrected by your boss . You want a business loan from me now? What'll that be, a grand ateast? For what business??, what will you sell so quickly and successfully to pay me back in time???? When will i see my return? In 5 years to never? A deposit on a house? Something under 2 grand?? You'll never pay that back without a job. I cannot trust anyone to use my money the way they said they would. You'd probably take it straight to the casino to try double it and it would disappear and then you'd go to your other friend asking them for money with a sob story about how you "fucked up".
I've seen this exact scenario play out multiple times.
Get a job, fool, impose your financial burdens on yourself, not your "friends" and don't quit your job so easily due to your fragile pride. Here's a big to you
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: trees]
#26502599 - 02/25/20 05:25 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Sometimes someone you love really needs help though. Depends on the quality of friend or family member, imo. Shit happens. No one is truly independent, no one made it all on their own, ever. You need clients, they need you. You needed education or whatever, and now you're giving a service for a reward. At the end of the day, we're supporting each other in any case whether we like it or not. Not every single person is criminally minded who needs help in the form of money. Just my 2cents.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: remake] 1
#26502605 - 02/25/20 05:33 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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One time a good friend lent me 10k when I really needed it. Thank goodness for her, she really saved me and made everything possible to get through a difficult situation. It was a pleasure to pay her back. It's good to have friends like that.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: trees]
#26502742 - 02/25/20 08:16 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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trees said:
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TedsDead said:
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trees said: I'm beginning to hate anyone who asks me for money. Doesn't matter if they're a best friend or not. If you need to borrow money from friends then youre fucking up big time. You buy weed but can't make rent?
lol cause thats the only reason someone would need to borrow money what about starting a business or paying a deposit on a spot or a million other reasons? maybe the kind of stuff that would make you more than enough to pay them back tenfold? anyone would hate someone mooching 10-20 off you all the time but having trustworthy friends that will loan you $ when you need it is priceless. Id loan $ to anyone that I call a friend whenever they need it and they do the same for me. thats how its suppose to work. otherwise, yes. youre just being a petty mooch and deserve nothing
I already told you bro, Im not lending you any more money. Never again. How about you think twice about quitting your job the next time you get corrected by your boss . You want a business loan from me now? What'll that be, a grand ateast? For what business??, what will you sell so quickly and successfully to pay me back in time???? When will i see my return? In 5 years to never? A deposit on a house? Something under 2 grand?? You'll never pay that back without a job. I cannot trust anyone to use my money the way they said they would. You'd probably take it straight to the casino to try double it and it would disappear and then you'd go to your other friend asking them for money with a sob story about how you "fucked up".
I've seen this exact scenario play out multiple times.
Get a job, fool, impose your financial burdens on yourself, not your "friends" and don't quit your job so easily due to your fragile pride. Here's a big to you
hell, I dont need to borrow money. sounds like you must just know some shitty people
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: TedsDead]
#26502776 - 02/25/20 08:58 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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You guys must be absolute angels with money, I've never met a person who can pay anything back. I found that the only thing my money did for them was bury them deeper in shit. And with most of them, that day I handed them the cash was the last time ever saw or heard from those "close friends". If it happens enough times you adjust your understanding of reality and adapt appropriately.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: trees]
#26502805 - 02/25/20 09:22 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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trees said: You guys must be absolute angels with money, I've never met a person who can pay anything back. I found that the only thing my money did for them was bury them deeper in shit. And with most of them, that day I handed them the cash was the last time ever saw or heard from those "close friends". If it happens enough times you adjust your understanding of reality and adapt appropriately.
You had fake friends, and you got cashed out. Happens to everybody.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: lowbrow] 1
#26502862 - 02/25/20 10:02 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Lately I hate this world , it's disgusting
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Yep.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Amanita86] 2
#26506143 - 02/27/20 09:02 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Just realised this friend is basically Bernie Sanders lol
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: azramb]
#26506438 - 02/27/20 12:38 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Got my tenner back !   
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26506468 - 02/27/20 01:02 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26506484 - 02/27/20 01:16 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Gypsy Boy said: Got my tenner back !   
Miracles do happen 
Did you threaten to bust some kneecaps? How was said miracle performed?
Or after a lifetime of douchebagery did he finally see the error of his ways?
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Northerner]
#26506492 - 02/27/20 01:21 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Woot
Just please tell me you didn’t end up using that 10 to spark them on a blunt or smthn lol
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: feldman114]
#26506495 - 02/27/20 01:22 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Haha , donno what happened... maybe he saw this thread 
No offence tho, he is a good friend, he just rubbish paying back i guess
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26506517 - 02/27/20 01:31 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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friends that use you, you could be too paranoid because they probably fair enough anyways
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tyrannicalrex said: miracles R.I.P Ass Dan!
its ok, my kid looks like him
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: TedsDead]
#26507853 - 02/28/20 09:27 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Looks like which one? Ass Dan?
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yeah
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: TedsDead]
#26507966 - 02/28/20 10:44 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Well he's adorable.
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