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Gypsy Boy
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So called "friends"
#26501011 - 02/24/20 07:27 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Have a couple of so called friends here.
They ALWAYS want to borrow money of me, like every week, tenner, some times, 15, some times 20.
And they NEVER pay it back i mean never.
I said today to one git, i stopped landing money to people, and he said like "friends supposed to look after each other" and shit.
I reminded him the last few times he borrowed moneyu i never got it back and instead of saying - ohh im sorry i was skint or something he plain denied the fact that i lent him pounds.
Everytime he gets money from he promises to give it back, yet time after time when i remind him he owes me money he simply says thats not truth and says im talking rubbish.
Anyway, i am done with their friendship. Im gonna wind things down and down play it. I donnt wonna brush them off fast or they will get angry and fuck with me even more.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501016 - 02/24/20 07:31 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Wanna be my friend...I dont need or want your fake British money.....I work in dollars bro Be my buddy and it comes with free hugs
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Gypsy Boy
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They are trolling me now
Spoke on the phone with 1, said i must give them money Just as i finished speaking with 1, 2nd phones me and tells me we should meet in town today. I told him im busy. In a minnute 1st one calls and asks if 2nd called me i say yes He then asks whhat he said and why i brushed him off.
This is getting fucking redicelous
Reminds me of a time i was in school 12 years old and shit heads always extorted money from me
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy] 4
#26501031 - 02/24/20 07:45 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Seems like you should tell them to fuck off
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I got angry at someone yesterday. Just said you are no my friend.
Thought about going to where I used to work , to sit down order food
Take a bite then get mad and be like what the fuck is this shit , not pay and be like fuck you asshole
Edited by watermelon mon (02/24/20 08:27 AM)
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy] 1
#26501047 - 02/24/20 07:56 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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And now at the ripe age of 16 you've finally learned to say no? Teehee... how old are you?
People should have 1 ... ONE chance to prove they will pay you back, if they don't and you still lend you've entered 'door mat' status
Learn to say NO more, its very liberating!
I once lent a guy i was kinda friends with at work 20$ (against my better judgement because he was always 'cool' with me) 1 week passed ... excuses no money, 2 weeks passed ....more excuses. Went to the paycheck manager and told them ... they held his check there when he asked for it and paged me to get my money .... there he was cursing me out as he was forced to pay the money back he owed.
anyway once you have some more respect for yourself you should be able to find some friends that do as well.
Edited by C12ShroomMan (02/24/20 07:58 AM)
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psilly the kid
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 Put it in there butt....like a roll of change.
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ripe age of 25!!
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Quote:
watermelon mon said:

I got angry at someone yesterday. Just said you are no my friend.
Thought about going to where I used to work to sit down order food
Take a bite then get mad and be like what the fuck is this shit , not pay and be like fuck you asshole
This made me 
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Edited by theRealrollforever (02/24/20 08:03 AM)
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psilly the kid
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Take a shit on there porch with a 10 under it
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy] 1
#26501098 - 02/24/20 08:42 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Gypsy Boy said:
I reminded him the last few times he borrowed moneyu i never got it back and instead of saying - ohh im sorry i was skint or something he plain denied the fact that i lent him pounds.
Everytime he gets money from he promises to give it back, yet time after time when i remind him he owes me money he simply says thats not truth and says im talking rubbish.
Fuck this person off per immediate please. That's got nothing to do with friendship. Its better to be alone than be covered in leeches like that.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501129 - 02/24/20 09:14 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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You should mess with them, tell them you'll borrow them money then act like you forgot about it
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definitely leeches if they need 15 or 20 all the time. sounds like they cant satiate their own drug habit or something. a friend you can lend 1,000s of dollars and know your gonna get that shit back. I had a bunch of "friends" like that and they were all heroin addicts if thats the case yoiur being a friend just talking to em at all and thats gotta be taxing in and of itself
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Asante
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Quote:
MightyWhite said: You should mess with them, tell them you'll borrow them money then act like you forgot about it
Bad idea. People who chronically and shamelessly mooch often have personality types that open them up to other activities like vandalism.
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Gypsy Boy
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Asante]
#26501184 - 02/24/20 10:00 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Fuckin oath
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501218 - 02/24/20 10:22 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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They sound co-dependent. Highschool mentality stuff. Find more mature and responsible friends. Good for you though. At least you've made the first step and hopefully this won't happen again. Happened to me too a few years ago. Kind of catches you off guard if you never experienced it firsthand and when you expect people to be mature and respect your boundaries.
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: Gypsy Boy]
#26501220 - 02/24/20 10:23 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm beginning to hate anyone who asks me for money. Doesn't matter if they're a best friend or not. If you need to borrow money from friends then youre fucking up big time. You buy weed but can't make rent?
I had someone yesterday do this and I got all pissed and then they got all pissed and, then I got pissed even more at the fact that they were pissed at me for not giving them my money. They use the fact that I have a job as leverage against me. They start saying things like "financial hardship" and "don't want to hurt my pride by asking my GF for money"
Then he tries to get me to pawn his "inherited grandparents jewelry" for him because he doesn't have valid ID. Told him that I'd buy him a new ID instead so he could pawn it himself and he got all mad and rejected my brilliant idea. I offered to pay 40 bucks out my pocket so he could have a valid ID free and clear and he didn't want it. Called him a retard and blocked number.
My new rule is absolutley nobody borrows or gets loans from me, not even family. I'm a cold blooded rejector of lending money
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Re: So called "friends" [Re: trees]
#26501253 - 02/24/20 10:46 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Same man
I never let anyone borrow money before , been asked
It's also something that I would never ask someone for
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