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I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. 7
#26500037 - 02/23/20 02:43 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I know 
I was in a pretty dark depression for years. Fat, drunk, disinterested in almost everything... The past 2 years have been a roller coaster but I've finally gotten out of my own head and I'm in the best mental and physical shape of my life, and I'm ready to put myself out there again.
I've been chatting with this woman on OKcupid and we really hit it off. She's cute as hell too; half Brazilian/Portuguese.
We're gonna go out for some Greek food and see the Impractical Jokers movie. I'm actually pretty pumped. I forgot how awesome it feels getting ready for a date with a gorgeus chick who's into you.
Wish me luck!
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Newbie]
#26500041 - 02/23/20 02:45 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: remake]
#26500056 - 02/23/20 02:52 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Awesome! I hope you guys have a good time!!!
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Newbie]
#26500074 - 02/23/20 03:02 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Lophosaurus]
#26500077 - 02/23/20 03:03 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Theater on the first night out is a no no for me.
Wish u the best
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Newbie]
#26500108 - 02/23/20 03:32 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Thats whats up man. Best of luck, enjoy yourself and your hot date.
Was that your choice for the greek? I have only had authentic greek food a couple times but it was stellar.
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Savantfou]
#26500111 - 02/23/20 03:34 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: The Influence]
#26500113 - 02/23/20 03:35 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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You got this buddy! Glad to hear of this progress
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Savantfou]
#26500114 - 02/23/20 03:38 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Brazilian/Portuguese have fun
The nicest chicks I ever met so far were Brazilian
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Newbie]
#26500399 - 02/23/20 07:13 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Right on man! You've made it! Congrats! 
Hope it goes well. Dont forget to run a couple jokes by her! She'll like that
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Newbie] 1
#26500434 - 02/23/20 07:38 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I will require a full briefing of said such date upon completion of said such date..
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Amanita86]
#26500464 - 02/23/20 07:57 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Good luck man! I just got out of a 6 year LDR and I'm going to ask this girl that I'm into to hang out with me tomorrow.... wish me luck too!
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Amanita86] 3
#26500492 - 02/23/20 08:23 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
Amanita86 said: I will require a full briefing of said such date upon completion of said such date..
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: audiophoenix] 3
#26500583 - 02/23/20 09:34 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Wow, what a night.
When I picked her up the conversation just flowed. Zero awkward silence, real connection. We started dinner, halfway through she asked about my one tattoo and that's where it took a turn.
I explained that it's a tattoo related to atheism. She's like you're an atheist? I'm like, "yes". Then all of the color drained from her face and she said something like, "Thaaaaat could be a problem."
I told her I'd rather not have that discussion on a first date but we danced around some of the topics and she said she has a close relationship with god and nobody can change that. I explained that I wasn't trying to, and that I'm against religion itself, not the people in it. She asked why I'm atheist and I explained it, and that my beliefs are rooted in evidence, and she said that her evidence was that her prayers have been answered before. I asked her if that was a pass for a test, what would a fail look like? How would she test that? And she replied that she would never test it, she just knows it in her heart.
That's where the date kind of dropped off, but we bounced back and went to the movie, (which was hot garbage BTW) and I dropped her off.
I texted her kind of saying I get it that she's bothered by my atheism and no hard feelings, I get it. But she replied saying that she felt like I kind of gave up at that point. So we talked it out and agreed it was a huge mis-communication and mixed signals, and we're totally down to see each other again. We're still texting right now and we'll probably go out again Friday.
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Newbie]
#26500591 - 02/23/20 09:40 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Glad it went good for you.. and even if it ever doesn't ....try try again.
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Newbie] 9
#26500631 - 02/23/20 10:05 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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You should play it safe and just talk politics on the second date...
Hey look at it like this, you two can have a massive disagreement and move on, avoiding throwing plates and other patrons over tables and through windows etc. That is a good sign.
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Amanita86]
#26500664 - 02/23/20 10:31 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Best of luck my friend, just be yourself you're always a good man to us I'm sure you'll be great
I'm in a similar non dating place in my life due to depression, addiction and injuries. Hopefully I'll be posting something like this in the next year or so, still pretty deeply depressed.
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Newbie]
#26500672 - 02/23/20 10:38 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Good story bro! 
But I have gotten laid/offered sex on every first date. ( actually there were a few I didn't_)
NEVER EVER discuss religion, politics, or even sex.
Just wait, and usually she will go in for the kiss.
And when that happens just be slow, and don't over talk/over agress her sexually.
Then, MAKE SURE you actually want to have sex with her.
THat's my hold up usually because like she's fine and all that, but I really just want to be good friends and only fuck sometimes, but not tonight on the first date.
After that, it's more better.
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I honestly wish I could give you better advice, but the only thing that works for me is diet and exercise. Especially cardio. Without it I'm a hot mess. I still regress sometimes back into it, but with a good diet and cardio it feels more like a passing storm and not my permanent atmosphere.
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Re: I have a date tonight! First date in 6 years. [Re: Newbie]
#26500699 - 02/23/20 11:23 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I knew you'd blow it OP.
Btw what was the tattoo you sinner?
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