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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2]
#26495773 - 02/20/20 06:09 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous #2 said: That's dumb, no sane persons going to buy into that no-sex cult
Well......they are saner than you apparently not being clouded by sex. Seems to work out for Tolle.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10] 1
#26495841 - 02/20/20 06:42 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Buddhism and their monks although probably the coolest of the religions, is just that a religion.
I think that single handedly all religions of the world are the greatest threat and are responsible for the retardation of mankind.
I think we would be so much better off without any. Just my honest opinion.
People who tend to hate on what I am doing, I think are in a dogmatic type of thinking.
I notice when I go out that women tend to pick up on my sexual vibe, and being said myself that I am a regular looking fellow, but with confidence and the I don't give a fuck attitude.
Being financially secure, not rich by any means, but also no debt a great work ethic and personal responsibility is I believe is also a big contributing factor.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
#26495854 - 02/20/20 06:48 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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You can find plenty of monks who can do without it just fine, proof that this is something to transcend not endorse.
Transcend having sex or masturbating? WTF?
I can say that it is not the focus of a relationship for me, it's a bonus to an already present mental connection and that makes the sex more than a one night stand or the best sex I thought I ever had, the connection to my mate now transcends any sex I had before.
I guarantee you they have nocturnal emissions, and or fuck each other on the sly, not all of them, but quite a few I'm sure. No one would EVER know except those people who do it. Then there's those who masturbate. I mean you really honestly believe deep in your heart that every single one of the Buddhists, monks, or whoever takes a vow of celibacy actually keeps it?
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex] 1
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tyrannicalrex said: You can find plenty of monks who can do without it just fine, proof that this is something to transcend not endorse.
Transcend having sex or masturbating? WTF?
I can say that it is not the focus of a relationship for me, it's a bonus to an already present mental connection and that makes the sex more than a one night stand or the best sex I thought I ever had, the connection to my mate now transcends any sex I had before.
I guarantee you they have nocturnal emissions, and or fuck each other on the sly, not all of them, but quite a few I'm sure. No one would EVER know except those people who do it. Then there's those who masturbate. I mean you really honestly believe deep in your heart that every single one of the Buddhists, monks, or whoever takes a vow of celibacy actually keeps it?

Not the Christian clergy obviously but the Buddhist monks do. Otherwise they leave. No nocturnal emissions (by the way I never had those growing up). The end result is a peace of mind and joy that far outclasses anything that sexy gives, which explains why they give it up and don’t often return. Sorry you can’t see that.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: zenarrow]
#26496053 - 02/20/20 08:47 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Not exactly things to be proud of, and it’s not dogma to be against what you do (that’s a predictable response really) it’s just more rooted in fact. People who sleep around (I don’t have a better term for it) are usually less well adjusted than others, and far less so than those who give it up and see it through (the monks). I honestly haven’t met another human being like a Buddhist monk. Kind of reinforces how needless sex is beyond procreation. I’ve had it more times than I remember and I find myself agreeing with them.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#26496089 - 02/20/20 09:01 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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tyrannicalrex said: You can find plenty of monks who can do without it just fine, proof that this is something to transcend not endorse.
Transcend having sex or masturbating? WTF?
I can say that it is not the focus of a relationship for me, it's a bonus to an already present mental connection and that makes the sex more than a one night stand or the best sex I thought I ever had, the connection to my mate now transcends any sex I had before.
I guarantee you they have nocturnal emissions, and or fuck each other on the sly, not all of them, but quite a few I'm sure. No one would EVER know except those people who do it. Then there's those who masturbate. I mean you really honestly believe deep in your heart that every single one of the Buddhists, monks, or whoever takes a vow of celibacy actually keeps it?

Well of course they do....just like all those catholic priests.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
#26496125 - 02/20/20 09:22 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Hmmm, you're beginning to sound like some posters in the past. I've seen these posts before in the same subject matter.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#26496219 - 02/20/20 10:39 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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tyrannicalrex said: Hmmm, you're beginning to sound like some posters in the past. I've seen these posts before in the same subject matter.
I'm saying I can see why transcending sex is a big thing in spirituality and why some faiths advocate it, but I've only seen Buddhism do it with success.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
#26496409 - 02/21/20 04:15 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Thanatos10 no point in trying to preach this, it's silly.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
#26496576 - 02/21/20 08:02 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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tyrannicalrex said: Hmmm, you're beginning to sound like some posters in the past. I've seen these posts before in the same subject matter.
I'm saying I can see why transcending sex is a big thing in spirituality and why some faiths advocate it, but I've only seen Buddhism do it with success.
The only thing I can see as to why a person would abstain from sex of any kind is because they feel it is a distraction from their extreme faith and pursuit of complete "enlightenment". Seems to me that once I have an orgasm, enlightenment in a "god" is there, lol!
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
#26496662 - 02/21/20 08:59 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Thanatos10 said: Not exactly things to be proud of, and it’s not dogma to be against what you do (that’s a predictable response really) it’s just more rooted in fact. People who sleep around (I don’t have a better term for it) are usually less well adjusted than others, and far less so than those who give it up and see it through (the monks). I honestly haven’t met another human being like a Buddhist monk. Kind of reinforces how needless sex is beyond procreation. I’ve had it more times than I remember and I find myself agreeing with them.
That's a lot of words to say you just can't get laid..!!
Listen, I was in a marriage for 27 years, the last 10 were basically sexless.
I guess you can call those my vfx monk years ... That is a new description of a sexless marriage,
"I am in the monk stage of my marriage"
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: zenarrow]
#26496681 - 02/21/20 09:17 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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"I am in the monk stage of my marriage"
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Thanatos10 said: I honestly haven’t met another human being like a Buddhist monk
Well no fucking shit! Look at your surroundings, where you're from etc...that is a completely different way of being outside of that country/place. The people closer to it and know the people are more used to it and more than likely have a different view of it just by proxy.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: zenarrow]
#26496693 - 02/21/20 09:23 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Thanatos10 said: Not exactly things to be proud of, and it’s not dogma to be against what you do (that’s a predictable response really) it’s just more rooted in fact. People who sleep around (I don’t have a better term for it) are usually less well adjusted than others, and far less so than those who give it up and see it through (the monks). I honestly haven’t met another human being like a Buddhist monk. Kind of reinforces how needless sex is beyond procreation. I’ve had it more times than I remember and I find myself agreeing with them.
That's a lot of words to say you just can't get laid..!!
Listen, I was in a marriage for 27 years, the last 10 were basically sexless.
I guess you can call those my vfx monk years ... That is a new description of a sexless marriage,
"I am in the monk stage of my marriage"
Yeah.....no. I’ve been laid many times over, I just don’t want it because I know what it’s like. Also once one has become enlightened they don’t need or want for sex after. Still further proof that it is a failing beyond procreation.
Also being concerned about being sexless for 10 years shows you stil haven’t matured yet.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10] 2
#26496709 - 02/21/20 09:33 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Thanatos10 said: Not exactly things to be proud of, and it’s not dogma to be against what you do (that’s a predictable response really) it’s just more rooted in fact. People who sleep around (I don’t have a better term for it) are usually less well adjusted than others, and far less so than those who give it up and see it through (the monks). I honestly haven’t met another human being like a Buddhist monk. Kind of reinforces how needless sex is beyond procreation. I’ve had it more times than I remember and I find myself agreeing with them.
That's a lot of words to say you just can't get laid..!!
Listen, I was in a marriage for 27 years, the last 10 were basically sexless.
I guess you can call those my vfx monk years ... That is a new description of a sexless marriage,
"I am in the monk stage of my marriage"
Yeah.....no. I’ve been laid many times over, I just don’t want it because I know what it’s like. Also once one has become enlightened they don’t need or want for sex after. Still further proof that it is a failing beyond procreation.
Also being concerned about being sexless for 10 years shows you stil haven’t matured yet.
Sex is both a physiological need and a social need. If you were enlightened enough to truly not want sex, you’d be enlightened enough to truly not give a fuck what any of us here think. If you evolved, you wouldn’t be wasting your time talking it out with a bunch of primates.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10] 1
#26496729 - 02/21/20 09:47 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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"Yeah.....no. I’ve been laid many times over, I just don’t want it because I know what it’s like. Also once one has become enlightened they don’t need or want for sex after. Still further proof that it is a failing beyond procreation."
"Also being concerned about being sexless for 10 years shows you still haven’t matured yet."
OK, these are very bold statements coming from a 20 something year old without much world experience to back it up. But hey, do what you want man, I was trying to give some good advice and help as much as I could from a keyboard POV. This kind of posting will bring a shitstorm on you from some people in here. Maybe you want that, IDK. I like your style feldman, lol. We seem to be on the same page a lot, both physically and mentally, lol!
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex] 1
#26496753 - 02/21/20 10:02 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Back at ya, trex!
If I’m being honest, I’ve been catching myself at half-flaming people lately, and I don’t like it. Dunno where it’s coming from, but “enlightened” people are deff a trigger lol. Might need to up my mushroom intake
I’m no spiritual guru, but I know enlightened people aren’t constantly going on about how enlightened they are.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: feldman114] 1
#26496762 - 02/21/20 10:07 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yeah, I can be a "knee jerk reactionary" guy at times. I do try to see all facets of a conversation and respect POV's as much as possible. This is an interesting forum. CHEERS!
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: feldman114]
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Thanatos10 said: Not exactly things to be proud of, and it’s not dogma to be against what you do (that’s a predictable response really) it’s just more rooted in fact. People who sleep around (I don’t have a better term for it) are usually less well adjusted than others, and far less so than those who give it up and see it through (the monks). I honestly haven’t met another human being like a Buddhist monk. Kind of reinforces how needless sex is beyond procreation. I’ve had it more times than I remember and I find myself agreeing with them.
That's a lot of words to say you just can't get laid..!!
Listen, I was in a marriage for 27 years, the last 10 were basically sexless.
I guess you can call those my vfx monk years ... That is a new description of a sexless marriage,
"I am in the monk stage of my marriage"
Yeah.....no. I’ve been laid many times over, I just don’t want it because I know what it’s like. Also once one has become enlightened they don’t need or want for sex after. Still further proof that it is a failing beyond procreation.
Also being concerned about being sexless for 10 years shows you stil haven’t matured yet.
Sex is both a physiological need and a social need. If you were enlightened enough to truly not want sex, you’d be enlightened enough to truly not give a fuck what any of us here think. If you evolved, you wouldn’t be wasting your time talking it out with a bunch of primates.
I never said I was enlightened, but I did say that those who are aren’t bound by sex anymore. Also sex isn’t a physiological or social need, that’s a very narrow view of humans.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
#26497218 - 02/21/20 03:45 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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When did you exactly fall from grace?
Where did you exclude yourself from the earth and raise yourself above?
Don't take that wrong, but I think humans tend to forget that we are on a rock hurling through space... lost and all alone.
Somehow we stood up and recognized ourselves as separate from everything else. When we are not, we are not anything special from the river that flows and cuts through the rocks over eons of time.
It's up to you how caught up in self importance you wish to be.
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: zenarrow]
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zenarrow said: When did you exactly fall from grace?
Where did you exclude yourself from the earth and raise yourself above?
Don't take that wrong, but I think humans tend to forget that we are on a rock hurling through space... lost and all alone.
Somehow we stood up and recognized ourselves as separate from everything else. When we are not, we are not anything special from the river that flows and cuts through the rocks over eons of time.
It's up to you how caught up in self importance you wish to be.
Because the human condition is something to rise above. We are in some sense special as you won’t find other animals or life forms quite like us. But to be concerned with sex is base and low, ego. It’s something to leave behind and transcend.
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