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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex] * 1
    #26493947 - 02/19/20 07:02 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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I am so very very happy I'm gay and married a man. Not only a man, but a man who is the coolest human being (male or female) I have EVER been involved with. I can go out with friends alone, leave the state alone, or stay up later with NO BITCHING about ANYTHING! Of course he was married to a woman and the 2 kids are in their 20's (thank goodness!). I have never had kids, and never wanted them. I also swore off marriage due to my mom being married 4 times, my brother twice and a few friends getting divorces after a few years. I feel very lucky.

There seems to be a perpetuation of how women and men should and do interact/have relationships etc...movies and media and docs, friends, peers, parents all push a certain type of agenda or way of being and that is wrong.

OP: fuck yeah! I'd do that in a fucking heartbeat. Older people are sexier to me anyway. I was with a 75yo in my late 20's early 30's and it was fantastic (a man). People are like fine antiques to me, the older they get the more I like them, lol. Like a fine wine. You kids better get used to it now anyway because THAT IS YOUR FUCKING FUTURE!!!

You're doing nothing wrong! Live life, love it! Fuck mainstream idealism's about how or why or what you "should" do/be doing. Have a 3 way, use some toys, get a sling for crying out loud. :thumbup::heart::thumbup:





Well said.
Why should we live up to some sort of fucked up orthodox dogma that is just plain outdated.

If what I am doing is not up to the standards of what others feel I should be living up to and they have a problem with that, well it's just that, it's their problem.

I am not lieing,  when I say I see  couples who are seemingly happily married for 25 + years and the wife is completely domineering.

The husband goes through life agreeing, going along with her plan. Just to get a little peace of mind.

A little peace from the nagging the allowance she allows him.

The myth of the sad lonely old man is just that a myth.

I don't need companionship so bad that I am willing to have flower bouquets on the wall and loud yapping poodles in my house.

I can live the way I want, go to concerts, yes more than one a summer if I wish and I don't have to beg or make concessions to do so.

And to say I want to make love to women and not Wed them is not a hole or a void in my life. That seems like old school orthodox bullshit to me. Conformity at its highest degree.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: zenarrow]
    #26494579 - 02/20/20 07:40 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Are you very religious, or did you grow up in a religious household? This could be the main reason why you seem to feel a little guilt and are trying to justify some thing(s) that don't need justification. Rock on and wrap it! Plus 2 adults over 40 and 60 even can make their own decisions. I have seen the type of behavior you describe in gay relationships as well, married or not. Some people just like some sort of power and control and are always right, and you should do as they say etc....fuck that shit!

I found a person (or maybe I should say we found each other) who is give and take 50/50, sometimes giving more without me asking or expecting it, and I reciprocate as well. It's not a feeling of I should do the things I do, but a feeling of OH, he's going to love this and he'll feel good etc....and I don't expect anything. I love to see him happy because his existence in my life makes me happier than I've ever been. I didn't think I would ever meet a person like this, ever.:heart:


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #26494860 - 02/20/20 10:28 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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"No where near that bad"

So my friends who's wife is fighting 50% of his 20 year old 401k account isn't that bad.

My dad's wife who never worked a day in her life, filed divorce against him and my dad's agreed to let her leave with 50% of a house that's worth millions.

My mom got remarried at 50, and she's been happy for 9 years, so I know it CAN work, (if youre old and very settled.) but not enough to justify promoting it.

I'm sure your marriages seem like a 100% legit deal right now, but don't be shocked when if it turns 180 degrees overnight

Me not getting the article? 40-50% is baseline. In the article explains only how that likely hood of divorce only gets worse.




You realize that all those “My”s aren’t proof of anything. Like I said, most who get married suck at it because they don’t understand what a relationship is. Hence such a popular perception of divorce.

Also slightly related, but having sexual with someone as though they are an extension of your cock/body is a very selfish way of doing it simply because they aren’t you. You gotten figure out what they like and do that.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10] * 1
    #26495028 - 02/20/20 12:00 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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"No where near that bad"

So my friends who's wife is fighting 50% of his 20 year old 401k account isn't that bad.

My dad's wife who never worked a day in her life, filed divorce against him and my dad's agreed to let her leave with 50% of a house that's worth millions.

My mom got remarried at 50, and she's been happy for 9 years, so I know it CAN work, (if youre old and very settled.) but not enough to justify promoting it.

I'm sure your marriages seem like a 100% legit deal right now, but don't be shocked when if it turns 180 degrees overnight

Me not getting the article? 40-50% is baseline. In the article explains only how that likely hood of divorce only gets worse.




You realize that all those “My”s aren’t proof of anything. Like I said, most who get married suck at it because they don’t understand what a relationship is. Hence such a popular perception of divorce.

Also slightly related, but having sexual with someone as though they are an extension of your cock/body is a very selfish way of doing it simply because they aren’t you. You gotten figure out what they like and do that.





You are misconstruing what I an saying,  it is not selfish but rather a feeling of oneness.

If you want to try and find something awry in everything,  then that is all you.

Instead of just getting me off at all costs I reach up and stroke her hair and her breasts, we are one.

Not anything selfish at all about it.the woman I make love to tell me the way I touch them and pull on their hair, that no one has touched them like that ever.

So if you want to find something wrong with caressing my lover and making her feel amazing,  I am waiting for your response..
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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex]
    #26495089 - 02/20/20 12:28 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Are you very religious, or did you grow up in a religious household? This could be the main reason why you seem to feel a little guilt and are trying to justify some thing(s) that don't need justification. Rock on and wrap it! Plus 2 adults over 40 and 60 even can make their own decisions. I have seen the type of behavior you describe in gay relationships as well, married or not. Some people just like some sort of power and control and are always right, and you should do as they say etc....fuck that shit!

I found a person (or maybe I should say we found each other) who is give and take 50/50, sometimes giving more without me asking or expecting it, and I reciprocate as well. It's not a feeling of I should do the things I do, but a feeling of OH, he's going to love this and he'll feel good etc....and I don't expect anything. I love to see him happy because his existence in my life makes me happier than I've ever been. I didn't think I would ever meet a person like this, ever.:heart:





Right,  I don't understand this guys moral hang up. Had to be some kind of fundamentalist Christian view of what the church claims to be righteous.

All I know is right now that 61 yo, is on cloud nine.

She asked me on the way out of work if I wanted to travel to her town for the weekend.

I really don't think she had any thoughts to go out and feeling sexual and desired.
In fact I am pretty sure she had resigned to the fact that she may be alone for the rest of her days.

Truth is she is a good looking gal, with every nice body,  never had kids.  And no reason to feel like her sexual life should be over.
Like I said she is on cloud nine,  floating,  anxiously awaiting our next rendezvous


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: zenarrow]
    #26495104 - 02/20/20 12:36 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Fuck yes! Go with it! Hell, go out of town and have a great time!:heart:


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: zenarrow]
    #26495186 - 02/20/20 01:17 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Thanatos10 said:
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Anonymous #2 said:
"No where near that bad"

So my friends who's wife is fighting 50% of his 20 year old 401k account isn't that bad.

My dad's wife who never worked a day in her life, filed divorce against him and my dad's agreed to let her leave with 50% of a house that's worth millions.

My mom got remarried at 50, and she's been happy for 9 years, so I know it CAN work, (if youre old and very settled.) but not enough to justify promoting it.

I'm sure your marriages seem like a 100% legit deal right now, but don't be shocked when if it turns 180 degrees overnight

Me not getting the article? 40-50% is baseline. In the article explains only how that likely hood of divorce only gets worse.




You realize that all those “My”s aren’t proof of anything. Like I said, most who get married suck at it because they don’t understand what a relationship is. Hence such a popular perception of divorce.

Also slightly related, but having sexual with someone as though they are an extension of your cock/body is a very selfish way of doing it simply because they aren’t you. You gotten figure out what they like and do that.





You are misconstruing what I an saying,  it is not selfish but rather a feeling of oneness.

If you want to try and find something awry in everything,  then that is all you.

Instead of just getting me off at all costs I reach up and stroke her hair and her breasts, we are one.

Not anything selfish at all about it.the woman I make love to tell me the way I touch them and pull on their hair, that no one has touched them like that ever.

So if you want to find something wrong with caressing my lover and making her feel amazing,  I am waiting for your response..
Cheers




I mean you aren’t one but whatever. I can’t really verify your story just have to take your word for it. But it’s worth noting that such feelings you have are just in your head. It’s truly a selfish way to treat another person but if they like it I suppose it’s a moot point. This all sounds like someone filling some void to me really. Well adjusted folks don’t do such things.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26495200 - 02/20/20 01:22 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Also if those women are saying such things they have far greater problems than not getting any. The problem  with humans today is they don’t know how to go without.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26495219 - 02/20/20 01:36 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Well adjusted folks don’t do such things.

Are you a psychology major? Do you speak for ALL "well adjusted folk"? What is your basis/measure for "well adjusted"?


The problem  with humans today is they don’t know how to go without.


A fucking men to that! This is VERY true!


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex]
    #26495245 - 02/20/20 01:50 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Thanatos10 is underage I suspect. His ideas just sound like those of pseudo philosophical morally superior teenage virgin


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #26495422 - 02/20/20 03:14 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Thanatos10 is underage I suspect. His ideas just sound like those of pseudo philosophical morally superior teenage virgin



28 and have had more than I remember, so I can say for sure it’s quite overrated.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex]
    #26495431 - 02/20/20 03:16 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Well adjusted folks don’t do such things.

Are you a psychology major? Do you speak for ALL "well adjusted folk"? What is your basis/measure for "well adjusted"?


The problem  with humans today is they don’t know how to go without.


A fucking men to that! This is VERY true!




It’s a bit difficult for me to accurately explain it, but rest assured the OP’s behavior is not what one would call a well adjusted person. As for my second comment you do know that also applies to everyone on this forum right?


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26495438 - 02/20/20 03:20 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Idk, there’s this Latin woman at my work...she’s 55, but looks 40ish and dat ass is veeeery well adjusted.
I’m just over 30 and I’d be all over that. Am I unhealthy too?

I don’t see the relation between “going without” and being healthy. This is sex we’re talking about, not heroin lol


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: feldman114]
    #26495450 - 02/20/20 03:23 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Idk, there’s this Latin woman at my work...she’s 55, but looks 40ish and dat ass is veeeery well adjusted.
I’m just over 30 and I’d be all over that. Am I unhealthy too?

I don’t see the relation between “going without” and being healthy. This is sex we’re talking about, not heroin lol



About the same to be honest. Sex without procreation seems to do more harm than good in the long run (not getting into the children aspect of it here).


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26495453 - 02/20/20 03:25 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Idk, there’s this Latin woman at my work...she’s 55, but looks 40ish and dat ass is veeeery well adjusted.
I’m just over 30 and I’d be all over that. Am I unhealthy too?

I don’t see the relation between “going without” and being healthy. This is sex we’re talking about, not heroin lol



About the same to be honest. Sex without procreation seems to do more harm than good in the long run (not getting into the children aspect of it here).




What is it about sex without procreation that seems unhealthy though?


P.S. trex, you must have a religion-radar or smth lol. No question about it, you were right.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26495468 - 02/20/20 03:31 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Well adjusted folks don’t do such things.

Are you a psychology major? Do you speak for ALL "well adjusted folk"? What is your basis/measure for "well adjusted"?


The problem  with humans today is they don’t know how to go without.


A fucking men to that! This is VERY true!




It’s a bit difficult for me to accurately explain it, but rest assured the OP’s behavior is not what one would call a well adjusted person. As for my second comment you do know that also applies to everyone on this forum right?



The do without applies to many many things in my mind. If you were referring to sex in particular, I disagree. It is an actual biological NEED for men. We have the wet dreams to prove it. All men? Maybe not, but biology is biology, and you will release sooner or later whether you want to or not.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4896089/


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26495479 - 02/20/20 03:36 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

OP’s behavior is not what one would call a well adjusted person.

To you maybe.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex]
    #26495574 - 02/20/20 04:25 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Every one who has responded on this thread, you are the coolest..
I respect everyone of you!!


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex]
    #26495613 - 02/20/20 04:48 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Thanatos10 said:
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tyrannicalrex said:
Well adjusted folks don’t do such things.

Are you a psychology major? Do you speak for ALL "well adjusted folk"? What is your basis/measure for "well adjusted"?


The problem  with humans today is they don’t know how to go without.


A fucking men to that! This is VERY true!




It’s a bit difficult for me to accurately explain it, but rest assured the OP’s behavior is not what one would call a well adjusted person. As for my second comment you do know that also applies to everyone on this forum right?



The do without applies to many many things in my mind. If you were referring to sex in particular, I disagree. It is an actual biological NEED for men. We have the wet dreams to prove it. All men? Maybe not, but biology is biology, and you will release sooner or later whether you want to or not.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4896089/




I am referring to sex and no it’s not a need, that is mistaken. You can find plenty of monks who can do without it just fine, proof that this is something to transcend not endorse.

Not sure what other things you are referring to but that’s neither here nor there, nor does it change that my remark applies to everyone on here too.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26495727 - 02/20/20 05:46 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

That's dumb, no sane persons going to buy into that no-sex cult


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