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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: zenarrow]
    #26492955 - 02/19/20 07:42 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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And yes, watching my friends and colleagues hand over so much power to their SO's is almost embarrassing to witness.

Never again will I feel bad about getting  another beer at a concert.
Or asking permission to buy a record online.  When the woman can and will buy whatever they want and when they want.

My coworker works almost every day,  his wife does not work.
She is in charge of the financial aspect of their lives.  Here he is making so much money, buys a new car, that he will not drive, she will.  And yet, I see him wearing work boots that are 3 sizes too big for him, because she will not let him spend any money for himself.





Like everyone else; Im friends with many married people. The wife always requires permission for the husband to do his own fun things. Heard it so many times! "I gotta ask my wife first, man". "Sorry man, can't make it, fuckig wife won't let me!!" The wives often reject the husbands requests for freedom.

I'll think "wait a second. Who paid for your house?? Who's paying the bills? Who paid for the marriage???? You, the husband paid, didn't you??"


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
    #26492959 - 02/19/20 07:46 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

That’s the excuse I regularly give when invited to do lame shit with lame-ass people.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: feldman114]
    #26492979 - 02/19/20 08:02 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I get it, anybody who doesn't fully agree with you is a lame-ass person. I've figured you out. You don't like this thread because you're still married and your wife probably does have a degree of unfair control over you.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
    #26493016 - 02/19/20 08:27 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Lol okay, Captain Defensive.

I didn’t say any of that, nor was anything I said directed against you. Why don’t you take your head out of salty butthole and realize that you’re not the center of the universe?

It’s true and I’m sure I’m not the only one who uses “the ol lady” as an excuse to skip boring social events or ones hosted by boring people. In fact, my wife does the same when she’d rather stay in. It’s just a way to save their feelings. It has nothing to do with you, bud.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: feldman114]
    #26493123 - 02/19/20 09:45 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I think you have a limited view of what marriage is, it sounds like you guys get your experiences from bad sitcoms. Also alpha/beta stuff is just nonsense when it comes to humans, we don’t work like that.

Either you guys have bad luck or just can’t talk to people but my parents are married 36 years and nothing you said happened with them. At most it’s just letting the other know where they are going and that’s it, which is common courtesy. Big financial decisions they talk about which is kind of normal really. Honesty it doesn’t sound like the problem is marriage itself but more like you guys or the people you know. I don’t think the concept fully sinks in.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26493125 - 02/19/20 09:46 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

How would you know my view of what marriage is?


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26493170 - 02/19/20 10:25 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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I think you have a limited view of what marriage is, it sounds like you guys get your experiences from bad sitcoms. Also alpha/beta stuff is just nonsense when it comes to humans, we don’t work like that.

Either you guys have bad luck or just can’t talk to people but my parents are married 36 years and nothing you said happened with them. At most it’s just letting the other know where they are going and that’s it, which is common courtesy. Big financial decisions they talk about which is kind of normal really. Honesty it doesn’t sound like the problem is marriage itself but more like you guys or the people you know. I don’t think the concept fully sinks in.




I get my experience from real life. You think its a good move to put the most expensive bet of your entire life a on a 50% chance of success? If you are, best of luck to you, you'll probably need it, unless youre the stay at home dad who doesn't provide anything, so you won't lose half your life earnings when your soulmate gets sick of you n decides to serve you the divorce filings.



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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #26493327 - 02/19/20 12:10 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Thanatos10 said:
I think you have a limited view of what marriage is, it sounds like you guys get your experiences from bad sitcoms. Also alpha/beta stuff is just nonsense when it comes to humans, we don’t work like that.

Either you guys have bad luck or just can’t talk to people but my parents are married 36 years and nothing you said happened with them. At most it’s just letting the other know where they are going and that’s it, which is common courtesy. Big financial decisions they talk about which is kind of normal really. Honesty it doesn’t sound like the problem is marriage itself but more like you guys or the people you know. I don’t think the concept fully sinks in.




I get my experience from real life. You think its a good move to put the most expensive bet of your entire life a on a 50% chance of success? If you are, best of luck to you, you'll probably need it, unless youre the stay at home dad who doesn't provide anything, so you won't lose half your life earnings when your soulmate gets sick of you n decides to serve you the divorce filings.






You clearly don't understand the link you provided as it shows that such things are on the decline and there is obviously a great deal of context to those numbers. Divorce is a mature option and something that wasn't available in the past so people were stuck in partnerships they didn't enjoy. And it's not always a you get 50% of everything, that again really just happens in movies. It's nowhere near that bad.

Again you guys are either ignorant of what makes a marriage work or stunted emotionally, maybe something else. Either way I will say most who do get married suck at it, which might explain some things.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26493342 - 02/19/20 12:20 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Pfff haha yeah, everyone else is ignorant or retarded. You sound as wise as a sock puppet.

Did you consider the possibility that you don’t know everything?

I do feel bad that you got controlled, then dumped by your ex like that. But that doesn’t mean every marriage will end that way...common sense man.

Edit: ugh, my bad, thought it was anon 2 replying...Mobile Shroomery interface sucks.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Thanatos10]
    #26493348 - 02/19/20 12:22 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

"No where near that bad"

So my friends who's wife is fighting 50% of his 20 year old 401k account isn't that bad.

My dad's wife who never worked a day in her life, filed divorce against him and my dad's agreed to let her leave with 50% of a house that's worth millions.

My mom got remarried at 50, and she's been happy for 9 years, so I know it CAN work, (if youre old and very settled.) but not enough to justify promoting it.

I'm sure your marriages seem like a 100% legit deal right now, but don't be shocked when if it turns 180 degrees overnight

Me not getting the article? 40-50% is baseline. In the article explains only how that likely hood of divorce only gets worse.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #26493361 - 02/19/20 12:34 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

How would that be shocking? It’s just one (my) marriage. Those go to shit all the time.

What would be shocking is you actually believing that no one can do better than you at marriage. There’s no doubt in my mind that yours wasn’t the happiest relationship in history (sorry but you’re crying about it, so it can’t be that great). Idk why you continue to say it was. And if you know it wasn’t, how can you presume to know how much better things can be?

Your reasoning clashes with common sense. Like I said, just because you were controlled, then dumped, doesn’t mean it’ll happen to most people.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: feldman114]
    #26493373 - 02/19/20 12:43 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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How would that be shocking? It’s just one (my) marriage. Those go to shit all the time.




Supporting my point?

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Your reasoning clashes with common sense. Like I said, just because you were controlled, then dumped, doesn’t mean it’ll happen to most people.




You assumed that info that I was ever married? Im an average dude, average age, average number of friends, average everything. I don't know of a single happy marriage right now. The ones that aren't divorced yet, they tell me stories about how their arguments, and the vacations their wives force them on, and the dreaded in laws, and the wife won't let them grow weed, the wife tries to limit their video games, and it goes on and on.

Maybe I'm just incredibly unlucky to have only ever seen poor marriages. Maybe it's America. Perhaps you guys are from different countries where people have better values.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
    #26493386 - 02/19/20 12:54 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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And yes, watching my friends and colleagues hand over so much power to their SO's is almost embarrassing to witness.

Never again will I feel bad about getting  another beer at a concert.
Or asking permission to buy a record online.  When the woman can and will buy whatever they want and when they want.

My coworker works almost every day,  his wife does not work.
She is in charge of the financial aspect of their lives.  Here he is making so much money, buys a new car, that he will not drive, she will.  And yet, I see him wearing work boots that are 3 sizes too big for him, because she will not let him spend any money for himself.





Like everyone else; Im friends with many married people. The wife always requires permission for the husband to do his own fun things. Heard it so many times! "I gotta ask my wife first, man". "Sorry man, can't make it, fuckig wife won't let me!!" The wives often reject the husbands requests for freedom.

I'll think "wait a second. Who paid for your house?? Who's paying the bills? Who paid for the marriage???? You, the husband paid, didn't you??"




Yeah, this made me assume you have some personal reasons for thinking every marriage is doomed.
If you don’t, it’s simply bizarre that you’re so emotional about the topic...

How many married people do you know 10? 30? 100? If you know 1000 married couples, and 0 are happy, that’s still not even close to a representative sample. You have no real reason to assume all marriages suck.

On the other hand, if even one person says they are happily married, that’s reason enough to dismiss your absolute statements. Well guess what, there are happy married folk right here at the Shroomery! If a bunch of druggie rejects can be happily married, anyone can, amiright?


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: feldman114] * 1
    #26493401 - 02/19/20 01:09 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

It's a see it to believe it thing for me. I get that your on the other side of the coin. Your currently married and it's going fine, thus, it will stay fine right? I do hope so / wiah you luck.

I have just seen so much spoilage and sour married people and friends that it's really turned me off of the idea to the point that legally binding marriage repulse me. I feel inclined to warn others, as the morally right thing to do right? Maybe I am retarded, but still dead set on avoiding legally binding marriage at all costs, never submit to a woman's persuasion for it


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
    #26493426 - 02/19/20 01:27 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Well I’m a weirdo and so is the wife. We only got married for the tax breaks and cheap healthcare. But I really don’t see her taking me to court, even if I really fuck up. She’s more of a stab-me-in-my-sleep kinda girl:rofl2:. JK (I hope), but even if we split, neither of us will take the legal route.

My example are my paternal grandparents. Their lives were full of tragedy and hardships, but they’re in love after 54 years of marriage. Their firstborn (my dad) drank himself into an early grave, the younger kid suffers from a crippling form of epilepsy, their only grandsons are ex-junkies. Not to mention the horrific shit they went through with their parents.
..basically, they have every reason to be miserable. And sometimes they are, but even this they do together. They still kiss and flirt and go on dates (at 70+), and my grandma still blushes bright red at grandpa’s compliments.

I still believe that MOST marriages don’t work out, but I KNOW some do. That’s enough for me to want to try I guess🤷🏻‍♂️


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
    #26493446 - 02/19/20 01:45 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I am so very very happy I'm gay and married a man. Not only a man, but a man who is the coolest human being (male or female) I have EVER been involved with. I can go out with friends alone, leave the state alone, or stay up later with NO BITCHING about ANYTHING! Of course he was married to a woman and the 2 kids are in their 20's (thank goodness!). I have never had kids, and never wanted them. I also swore off marriage due to my mom being married 4 times, my brother twice and a few friends getting divorces after a few years. I feel very lucky.

There seems to be a perpetuation of how women and men should and do interact/have relationships etc...movies and media and docs, friends, peers, parents all push a certain type of agenda or way of being and that is wrong.

OP: fuck yeah! I'd do that in a fucking heartbeat. Older people are sexier to me anyway. I was with a 75yo in my late 20's early 30's and it was fantastic (a man). People are like fine antiques to me, the older they get the more I like them, lol. Like a fine wine. You kids better get used to it now anyway because THAT IS YOUR FUCKING FUTURE!!!

You're doing nothing wrong! Live life, love it! Fuck mainstream idealism's about how or why or what you "should" do/be doing. Have a 3 way, use some toys, get a sling for crying out loud. :thumbup::heart::thumbup:


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #26493451 - 02/19/20 01:49 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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My dad's wife who never worked a day in her life, filed divorce against him and my dad's agreed to let her leave with 50% of a house that's worth millions.






If it's multiple millions, what the fuck is the problem??? Everybody gets FUCKING MILLIONS!!! Greed fucking sucks!

She may not have worked a day in her life but she may have put up with shit you nor anyone else knows or ever will know about. Think about that.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: tyrannicalrex]
    #26493500 - 02/19/20 02:17 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Your other poast reminded me of Daniel Tosh’s gay marriage bit. He says something like “ Fuck yes I support gay marriage! Just the thought...of having a man around the house. Finally, we can get some shit done around here.”

It works better in context but still...

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My dad's wife who never worked a day in her life, filed divorce against him and my dad's agreed to let her leave with 50% of a house that's worth millions.






If it's multiple millions, what the fuck is the problem??? Everybody gets FUCKING MILLIONS!!! Greed fucking sucks!

She may not have worked a day in her life but she may have put up with shit you nor anyone else knows or ever will know about. Think about that.




Great point. Not working a day in her life almost guarantees she feels unfulfilled, depressed, etc.
Plus, what is she gonna do? Go get a job? LOL! “Hmm well we like your can-do attitude, but what’s with this....20 year gap on your resume?”:rofl2:
You basically expect her to either flip burgers or live with someone she can’t stand.


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: feldman114]
    #26493532 - 02/19/20 02:40 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

It's her own fault really. I'd bone the hell out of some 60-80yo's!


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Re: I have sex with older women, married women, widows and divorcees [Re: feldman114]
    #26493535 - 02/19/20 02:42 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Never thought of it like that. I guess all the unsolicited freak out behavior I saw in her didn't help the direction of my psychology


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