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My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up
    #26480716 - 02/11/20 05:37 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Its complicated but its ultimately not going to work out. Im so fucked. I got a bottle for after work as soon as I get home im going to get so fucked....

Ps. Sorry if this is wrong place but I just need to vent, not looking for pitty.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26480725 - 02/11/20 05:42 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Damn that sucks man. Was it sudden or did you kinda see it coming?

Sending good vibes and generic advice...plenty of fish in the bla blah...


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 3
    #26480730 - 02/11/20 05:45 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Ah man that shit sucks. More than sucks and I feel for you. There is an emptiness when this happens. In my experience it's like losing a part of yourself.

Internet personalities may not be much comfort but I'm sure you have a huge shroomery family behind you, including myself. Feel a hug brother :hug:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26480740 - 02/11/20 05:50 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

got weed?...


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: The Influence] * 6
    #26480747 - 02/11/20 05:52 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I'm so sorry buddy :hug:

I'm fresh off a long term breakup too.

It sucks, but it's also opening up a lot of possibilities that I didn't fully see before. Mend your wounds(I'm still doing this too tbh, even though it's been a couple of months), and rediscover yourself. Six years is a long time, and probably feels like you might as well have lost an arm or apart of yourself, but I promise it's not permanent.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: The Influence] * 1
    #26480766 - 02/11/20 06:00 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Ah man that shit sucks. More than sucks and I feel for you. There is an emptiness when this happens. In my experience it's like losing a part of yourself.

Internet personalities may not be much comfort but I'm sure you have a huge shroomery family behind you, including myself. Feel a hug brother :hug:




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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Niffla] * 2
    #26480773 - 02/11/20 06:03 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Thanks guys it means more than you know :frown: it was sudden as in I did not expect it today but we were talking since I woke up and a lot of impasses came up that we have ignored and its just not going to work without one of us giving up everything so she decided we break up first but ai agree and it kinda still went bad but im hopong to call her tomorrow to at least get some sort of closure cos this all happenes before work....


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Niffla]
    #26480777 - 02/11/20 06:05 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

What'd the bitch do?  :cookiemonster:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: zZZz]
    #26480790 - 02/11/20 06:15 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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got weed?...



Yes. And alcohol. Although not much alcohol cos im not really a drinker.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: qman]
    #26480794 - 02/11/20 06:17 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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What'd the bitch do?  :cookiemonster:



Nothing. I still want to be friends but she doesnt. Its just the distance and some other factors(like owning land etc.) That have been making it difficult and I guess we just addressed it all today and decided on fuck it....


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26480814 - 02/11/20 06:32 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I'm sorry to hear that man. That sucks ass. I hope you get real stoned and/or drunk and feel better soon. I know how hard it can be when it's been 6 years. Maybe try to remember all the things that weren't working or that you disliked in them, might make it slightly easier. But I know it just takes time at the end of the day.

Hope you feel better soon man :hug:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26480820 - 02/11/20 06:35 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Hey man sorry to hear it. Now is a good time to put yourself out there. Get drunk, go enjoy some new company :happyheart:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Citizen X] * 1
    #26480830 - 02/11/20 06:43 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Hey didn't you already make a thread similar to this? :archiebunker:

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on so many levels. girlfriend and i pretty much broke up right after waking up so i fucking drank over half pint of rum about 4 hours ago now im at work..... fuck my life...




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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #26480834 - 02/11/20 06:44 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Yeah but this time its for real. I mean we technically did break up but got together but this time its no getting back together....

Edit: my dumb ass held on last time....what a :dumbass:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 2
    #26480840 - 02/11/20 06:46 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

You could consider not being so dramatic. The Oscars were this past weekend.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy] * 4
    #26480846 - 02/11/20 06:51 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

you should be a counselor, Malcolm.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: TNK] * 1
    #26480849 - 02/11/20 06:53 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

My counselor actually said the same thing to me :canthelpbutlaugh:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy] * 3
    #26480852 - 02/11/20 06:54 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

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You could consider not being so dramatic. The Oscars were this past weekend.



I really do appreciate your point of view. Its why I posted here :shroomeryhead:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26480862 - 02/11/20 06:59 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Damn, that sucks spirit_shadow. :sad: Sorry to hear that.

Yeah, i broke up with my GF of 7 years juet last year. I couldnt take anymore of her blatantly disrespectful personality. Oh well, live and learn i guess.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26480872 - 02/11/20 07:03 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Im going through the same shit man except it was 4 years and she left me. Its because im an asshole and a condescending prick a lot of the time. Im just depressed and let that shit leak into my relationship. I dont blame her for leaving. I am trying to get her to come back though. Ifs destroying me.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: SporeJunkie] * 1
    #26480877 - 02/11/20 07:07 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Thank you guys. And im sorry about your situations as well. It really helps to know there are people out there who get it and willing to chat so :seriousthankyou:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26480896 - 02/11/20 07:19 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Hey man, you know, I have seen several long distance relationships in my time, ultimately it never works unless the 2 people see each other at least once a month or so, and even then the distance is the ultimate destroyer no matter how well they get along in the phone and/or net/skype. Please don't drink or smoke too much to forget. Learn from this and examine it with a clear head. Go into the next relationship with more knowledge. Look for friends 1st. Don't look too hard for the "perfect one" it will remain elusive. :heart::peace::mushroom2:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: tyrannicalrex] * 2
    #26480900 - 02/11/20 07:21 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Yeah I wanted to beat that stigma :frown: :hug:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26480925 - 02/11/20 07:32 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Crazy dude, me and my girlfriend of 6 yearss also broke up a couple days ago.. we are together rn but it's all unceertain.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Near Dylan]
    #26480927 - 02/11/20 07:33 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I hope your situation goes better than mine :frown:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 4
    #26480936 - 02/11/20 07:38 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Take this time for yourself, man. It's really shitty, but, in one aspect, you can embrace your personal reality and the world around you stronger now that you don't have that big part of your life consist only through technology. You'll be crushed by the loss and it'll be a big change, but youll be better for it. Just get through this shittiness right now, and have confidence in your future and where you'll go from here. New chapter and all that.

And talk to people. Talkkkk talk talk to people. About it. Dont think you're being annoying, people usually kinda like when others confide in them. And they'll understand. Get it all off your chest. Move through it not around it. If you need anymore cliches ill be around


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Near Dylan] * 1
    #26480972 - 02/11/20 07:59 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Thank you :frown: it just sucks cos she is blaming me and doesn't want to talk to me and I want to be friends still because she is an amazing person :frown:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 3
    #26481002 - 02/11/20 08:20 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Sorry to hear it, guy.  But it could actually work out pretty well for you.  It did in my case, anyway, when I got dumped by my then-gf of 5 years.  It really came outta nowhere, and I was pretty upset at the time.  Took some time to just do my own thing, focus on myself.  And within the year, I ended up dating an amazing girl that I clicked with real well.  She and I have been together for almost 11 years now.

And while we weren’t friends at first, the ex and I were able to regain a platonic friendship down the road, as we both still appreciate the other.  She lives on the other side of the country now, but a couple months ago she came to visit, stayed at my mom’s.  I got to chill with her for a few days, it was real nice.  So while the breakup sucked at first, I’m now so grateful that it happened- would’ve never met my fiancée if I’d stayed in the other relationship.  It would’ve been impossible for me to see that at first, so I feel for you.  But maybe one day this won’t seem so bad.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Burke Dennings] * 2
    #26481007 - 02/11/20 08:21 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Thank you so much for your story, I really really hope we can remain friends :frown:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 2
    #26481008 - 02/11/20 08:21 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Sometimes you have to cut your losses. Sometimes it just takes time. I've been in relationships where we agreed to be friends, but it was too raw from the get go. Over time it morphed into a friendship and was fine.

The beautiful thing about the world is that it's full of amazing people. What are you into? Maybe consider joining like a really casual sports league or something,just to get you out and meeting new people. I'm doing the same thing right now, and it's really tough as an adult. But the good news is that pretty much everyone I've met so far is in the same situation - not necessarily, a breakup, but just someone who's trying to figure out how to meet new friends and people as an adult, and in some ways it's way harder - in other ways it's way easier when you find someone who's also just kind of looking for a pal to tag along to concerts with and grab a drink with at happy hour or whatever.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26481010 - 02/11/20 08:24 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Pirate and burke, great advice! Let your inner spirit listen!


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: pirate-blues]
    #26481014 - 02/11/20 08:30 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Yeah. And what really hurts is she is the last person besides myself to see my father before he died....


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26481040 - 02/11/20 08:43 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Although negative, you are gaining some very valuable life lessons here, hang in there buddy!


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 2
    #26481403 - 02/12/20 04:16 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

There's a lot of good advice in this thread, you know like Burke's situation that he shared. In life, when one widow closes...another window opens.

You can utilize this time to enjoy your new independence and take care of yourself and spoil yourself. Maybe work some extra hours at your job now that you have more you time, save up some money and do something nice for you.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #26481527 - 02/12/20 07:42 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Sorry to hear it, guy.  But it could actually work out pretty well for you.  It did in my case, anyway, when I got dumped by my then-gf of 5 years.  It really came outta nowhere, and I was pretty upset at the time.  Took some time to just do my own thing, focus on myself.  And within the year, I ended up dating an amazing girl that I clicked with real well.  She and I have been together for almost 11 years now.

And while we weren’t friends at first, the ex and I were able to regain a platonic friendship down the road, as we both still appreciate the other.  She lives on the other side of the country now, but a couple months ago she came to visit, stayed at my mom’s.  I got to chill with her for a few days, it was real nice.  So while the breakup sucked at first, I’m now so grateful that it happened- would’ve never met my fiancée if I’d stayed in the other relationship.  It would’ve been impossible for me to see that at first, so I feel for you.  But maybe one day this won’t seem so bad.





Yeah maybe this relationship has been keeping you (both) in a rut spirit_shadow. A LDR with no end in sight to the long distance part just does not seem sustainable. Maybe for some.




Might as well just call her your wife at this point I think Burke. :wink: Ceremony/legality aside, you two clearly are already in it for the long haul.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: psi]
    #26481628 - 02/12/20 09:14 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Thanks guys..... So I shouldn't have drank....my stomach is on fire and I feel like shit :/


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26481641 - 02/12/20 09:19 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Thanks guys..... So I shouldn't have drank....my stomach is on fire and I feel like shit :/



Makes it easier to ignore your relationship pains though...

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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26481645 - 02/12/20 09:22 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Awww, I tried to tell you! Sip water all day, hydrate! Eat well also.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: tyrannicalrex] * 2
    #26481658 - 02/12/20 09:35 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I just broke up with a girl I was living with for two years.  I feel lonely sometimes but I’m better off being free!  I will never settle again l.  It was a good move for me I bought myself two years of blowing glass every day and I wouldn’t be where I am now if I hadn’t matured so much from everything I had to deal with while there.  The cold realities of real life ya know?


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: theRealrollforever]
    #26481660 - 02/12/20 09:37 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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    #26481661 - 02/12/20 09:37 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)


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    #26481692 - 02/12/20 10:08 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Thanks guys..... So I shouldn't have drank....my stomach is on fire and I feel like shit :/



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    #26481696 - 02/12/20 10:11 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Ugghhh yeah, it helped in the moment I suppose ..... thank you guys.... Really :seriousthankyou:


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    #26481792 - 02/12/20 11:11 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26481809 - 02/12/20 11:22 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Comedy, that's what you need.



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    #26481869 - 02/12/20 11:55 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Thank you weird al is awesome. Im off today. I need to give my coworker a STERN talking to but not too stern.

(He is older gay guy reminds me of an older version of my best friend, he had stroke about a month ago, he is on 6 month driving ban. He pulls up while working all calm like....with his front end half FUCKED. Im like you ok buddy what happened, he said he thought he hut a curb.... Turns out this motherfucker drove literally through part of town GTA style then casually rolls up to my work like nothing happened. I try to clock out to take him home but he refuses and drives off. Gets pulled over. Luckily his sister is a P.O. so he got off with light fine. Im just gonna check on him later to make sure it was a medicine mishap and not another stroke or stroke symptom :/ ) 

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    #26481893 - 02/12/20 12:11 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Might as well just call her your wife at this point I think Burke. :wink: Ceremony/legality aside, you two clearly are already in it for the long haul.




Haha, yeah we’re definitely in it.  We do have a vague, nebulous plan to get officially married at some point, but it’s pretty low priority.  Everything is fine as it is, so why rock the boat, ya know?  Though I have to admit, I’m getting to a point where I have to start thinking about bullshit like legal agency in the event of a medical calamity.  Plus tax stuff.  So idk, we’ll get around to it.


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    #26481899 - 02/12/20 12:16 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Might as well just call her your wife at this point I think Burke. :wink: Ceremony/legality aside, you two clearly are already in it for the long haul.




Haha, yeah we’re definitely in it.  We do have a vague, nebulous plan to get officially married at some point, but it’s pretty low priority.  Everything is fine as it is, so why rock the boat, ya know?  Though I have to admit, I’m getting to a point where I have to start thinking about bullshit like legal agency in the event of a medical calamity.  Plus tax stuff.  So idk, we’ll get around to it.




Tax breaks and lower medical insurance costs are 100% of the reason I’m married today lol. Relationship was going well (like 70% of the time anyway) but I hate contracts and she didn’t really care about a ring:shrug:


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    #26481916 - 02/12/20 12:28 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I hate the way marriage is incentivized like that.  Why tf should it even matter?  Just let people chill.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: feldman114]
    #26481922 - 02/12/20 12:37 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Might as well just call her your wife at this point I think Burke. :wink: Ceremony/legality aside, you two clearly are already in it for the long haul.




Haha, yeah we’re definitely in it.  We do have a vague, nebulous plan to get officially married at some point, but it’s pretty low priority.  Everything is fine as it is, so why rock the boat, ya know?  Though I have to admit, I’m getting to a point where I have to start thinking about bullshit like legal agency in the event of a medical calamity.  Plus tax stuff.  So idk, we’ll get around to it.




Tax breaks and lower medical insurance costs are 100% of the reason I’m married today lol. Relationship was going well (like 70% of the time anyway) but I hate contracts and she didn’t really care about a ring:shrug:



:archiebunker: c'mon now, you know it's also because sex almost anytime without any worries, lol.


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    #26481931 - 02/12/20 12:41 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Might as well just call her your wife at this point I think Burke. :wink: Ceremony/legality aside, you two clearly are already in it for the long haul.




Haha, yeah we’re definitely in it.  We do have a vague, nebulous plan to get officially married at some point, but it’s pretty low priority.  Everything is fine as it is, so why rock the boat, ya know?  Though I have to admit, I’m getting to a point where I have to start thinking about bullshit like legal agency in the event of a medical calamity.  Plus tax stuff.  So idk, we’ll get around to it.




Oh not trying to rag on you for not getting around to getting married, I meant more that even if you haven't gone through the legal hoops yet, you might as well refer to her informally as your wife at this point. Not to tell you what to do.


For me I found going through the ceremony was not entirely a positive. My mom kind of pushed us into a religious wedding and dominated the whole thing. And not too long after that things really went to shit for a few years.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: psi]
    #26481942 - 02/12/20 12:48 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

We went to the courthouse, 30 mins and a small fee, we both loved it. Got married on 9/15 @ 9:15am!


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    #26481945 - 02/12/20 12:49 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Yeah dude, I understood your point.  :thumbup: I’ve resisted calling her my wife informally though because it would feel like a misrepresentation of facts.  Wouldn’t be a big deal, and for all intents and purposes (outside of legality), we sure feel like a married couple.  I don’t correct people when they refer to us as husband and wife, but that’s because I don’t correct people about unimportant things.

And yeah, that’s been a real concern of mine.  I’ve known several couples where everything is fine, they get married, and then it all falls apart.  Like something magically changes?  And then it’s a mess to get out of.  That really scares me, haha.


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    #26481959 - 02/12/20 12:58 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Stress. The silent killer. The ninja of relationships....


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    #26481962 - 02/12/20 01:00 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Might as well just call her your wife at this point I think Burke. :wink: Ceremony/legality aside, you two clearly are already in it for the long haul.




Haha, yeah we’re definitely in it.  We do have a vague, nebulous plan to get officially married at some point, but it’s pretty low priority.  Everything is fine as it is, so why rock the boat, ya know?  Though I have to admit, I’m getting to a point where I have to start thinking about bullshit like legal agency in the event of a medical calamity.  Plus tax stuff.  So idk, we’ll get around to it.




Tax breaks and lower medical insurance costs are 100% of the reason I’m married today lol. Relationship was going well (like 70% of the time anyway) but I hate contracts and she didn’t really care about a ring:shrug:



:archiebunker: c'mon now, you know it's also because sex almost anytime without any worries, lol.




Haha okay, it was the longest-running insider joke of my life...”so babe, I noticed you haven’t done your wifely duties today...” and “that sucks about your headache WIFE, but in SICKNESS and in health, remember?”

Nothing like contractual obligations to spice up a relationship :tryingnottodie:


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    #26481964 - 02/12/20 01:02 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

OK gotcha. Apologies if I overstepped.


Under the law here, someone becomes your common-law spouse after x amount of time living together, so I didn't feel like I was lying calling her my wife before we had a wedding. Nor do I feel like I'm lying referring to her son from a previous relationship as my son, although I have not formally adopted him or anything. I feel like I'm his dad in the way that matters.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26481975 - 02/12/20 01:10 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I feel for you man. Ive nearly drank to death for months. Close to a year. Ive been with my lady for 12 years now. The downs are what really molded us to be a better person as a couple. Let it ride don't burn your self-out while in a alone time to think. Im pretty sure she's in a exact situation as you are right now.

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    #26482005 - 02/12/20 01:28 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Damn straight. Thank you man <3


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    #26482181 - 02/12/20 03:22 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I feel people who choose to be single should get the tax breaks.  Only one income makes it twice as hard to make ends meet.  #VolcellLyf


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I feel people who choose to be single should get the tax breaks.  Only one income makes it twice as hard to make ends meet.  #VolcellLyf




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    #26482433 - 02/12/20 06:16 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Too many conservative whiners would cry about the erosion of the family if that was instituted.  But it really is a good point though.


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    #26482485 - 02/12/20 06:42 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Really sorry to hear this , well wishes 

I hope whatever new path this leads you on , in your life

hope it's a happy one for you , dont let anyone take that , fight for that


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    #26482496 - 02/12/20 06:47 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Thank you for real <3 im still licking my wounds and good thing is im still talking to her. Im hoping by the time my tax check is here I can still visit her even if its just as friends...


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    #26482506 - 02/12/20 06:53 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Yo take your tax money and do something for YOU.  Don’t mug yourself man.  In a year or whenever  this doesn’t sting so bad, you’ll wish you’d done something better with that grand than go see a girl who wanted to nix you from her life.


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    #26482528 - 02/12/20 07:03 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I just feel like I owe it to her....for real. Not out of pity or anything. Her grandmother died wishing us a good life and I know that is no excuse....but doesn't change how I feel :/

Edit: she has visited me and I never got a chance to visit her and now I can...


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    #26482531 - 02/12/20 07:03 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

It's good to talk about it

I wouldn't deal with that well

Sorry about the soap man , a bunch is still coming asap

Key lime pie , pumpkin , coffee , chia tea , plus some other fun kinds

Some shit happend before I had the pleasure to mail it

I clear my :pm: box , I'll get back to you asap though , it wont be too long


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Dont worry about it man <3


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    #26482542 - 02/12/20 07:06 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Nah dude. Nah nah nah. In a week that will not be how you feel. Hey, if it is, go for it. But you gotta process this first.


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    #26482551 - 02/12/20 07:10 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Her grandmother is cool with you buying a Nintendo Switch, or new snow tires, or whatever.  Don’t take a whole trip to visit a person who freshly dumped you.


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Yeah does sound stupid coming from someone else.


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    #26482580 - 02/12/20 07:20 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Just take some time, reacclimate yourself to doing things just for you.  Mourn the relationship or whatever you gotta do, but always be moving on.  Don’t look for ways to stretch this hurt out.


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    #26482591 - 02/12/20 07:25 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Yeah that is my kryptonite because my entire focus in life was on this. Now I have to reprioritize my entire lif.e


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    #26482626 - 02/12/20 07:52 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Well, I hate to say it but, you might have to do it again a time or 2. The good thing is you're learning valuable lessons even though life's been really harsh to you this last couple of years. Only the strong survive as the saying goes. I've re-prioritized my life a few times.


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    #26482667 - 02/12/20 08:07 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Yeah that is the ironic part. Ive always supported survival of the fittest even when it applies to me. It just sucks and thank you all FOR REAL <3


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    #26482701 - 02/12/20 08:18 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Um.


Threads like this are the reason that I see the benefit in being single and have turned down every suitor since before time.

That doesn't mean that I don't ride the line between love and just human comfort.


But commitment. Kids even. WOW. How could I!?:mindblown:


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    #26482706 - 02/12/20 08:21 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Trust me. Get your heart broken hard a few times and you'll never fall for it again.


Just be a cold hard human forever.

Never show any emotions.


Just cry and cry, and never explain why.

And laugh in the face of adversary of love.


And also love every moment of life, and love yourself first. :heart:

ANd love "god"

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    #26482725 - 02/12/20 08:29 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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    #26482805 - 02/12/20 09:17 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Yeah that is my kryptonite because my entire focus in life was on this. Now I have to reprioritize my entire lif.e




Maybe the reprioritized life will be a lot more harmonious. Keeping the long distance thing going seems like a heavy burden. Trying to save yourself for someone you can't be around too often, while being tempted by the prospect potential partners closer to home. Now you don't have to feel obliged to forego a potential partner who actually lives where you live.



My only experience with the LTR thing (sort of) was really a non-relationship to begin with, got to know each other at work (tree planting) and fooled around a bit after a party. When the job was done and everyone went their separate ways, I was hoping to keep something going, and in retrospect she had of course been thinking about things more casually. We kept in regular contact and met up two more times, once after about a month (ended up fooling around a bit again) and another time after a couple more months. At that point it became clear that it was the end of the road for whatever this was.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: psi]
    #26482843 - 02/12/20 09:51 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

:feelsbadman:


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: TaliesenW]
    #26482865 - 02/12/20 10:06 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Im so drunk...


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26482897 - 02/12/20 10:27 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I'm fucking faded. Doing my best to live thru spirit_shadow


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: ichugwindex]
    #26482914 - 02/12/20 10:54 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

you all about the yin yang ?


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Fiery]
    #26482922 - 02/12/20 11:08 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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you all about the yin yang ?



Somewhat. I mostly L I've though certain folks


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: ichugwindex]
    #26483396 - 02/13/20 09:57 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Sorry guys I drank the rest of the alcohol I got the other day. Passed out in my clothes. Oddly I feel fine. Physically anyway.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26483438 - 02/13/20 10:30 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Well, watch it! :thumbup: :heart::thumbup:

I haven't passed out in my clothes in years, lol. Glad you're OK.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: tyrannicalrex]
    #26483489 - 02/13/20 11:03 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

For real.... This is only 3rd time in my entire life that I did that. It really shows how gone I was because I HATE sleeping in clothes.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26483494 - 02/13/20 11:05 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

If you have never woke up with pork rind crumbs all over your chest, do not talk to me about depression being trashy.


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: feldman114] * 1
    #26483522 - 02/13/20 11:23 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Lol thanks man. Humor always makes me feel better. Im just trying not to think about it today. As trex said ive been through a lot this past year. So I was already half numb anyway so I suppose it hurts less than it would if I didnt go through other shit...


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26483532 - 02/13/20 11:26 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

Can relationships change and end without us "feeling fucked"?


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
    #26483539 - 02/13/20 11:30 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Can relationships change and end without us "feeling fucked"?




Yeah, I keep hearing these stories of ppl staying friends and of mutual breakups...but have never witnessed someone go through that. It’s always an emotional shitshow ime


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
    #26483548 - 02/13/20 11:35 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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Can relationships change and end without us "feeling fucked"?



I dont think so. Ive never been friends with an ex(they actually did wrong) so this will be completely new to me cos she did nothing wrong. Its just a lot of impasses we just pushed aside for later....well now it is later...


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #26483580 - 02/13/20 11:50 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

If love is conditional (I only love you if we are together) - than that's not love - it's called dependency


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #26483589 - 02/13/20 11:53 AM (3 years, 11 months ago)

I am excited for your new opportunity to meet someone new spirit


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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: RJ Tubs 202] * 2
    #26483628 - 02/13/20 12:13 PM (3 years, 11 months ago)

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If love is conditional (I only love you if we are together) - than that's not love - it's called dependency



Thats what I said :frown: cos she is an amazing person and I will always love her be it together or not....

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I am excited for your new opportunity to meet someone new spirit




Thanks man :hug:


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