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Near Dylan
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Fiery] 1
#26482725 - 02/12/20 08:29 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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You should talk to someone, man.
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Fiery
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Near Dylan]
#26482733 - 02/12/20 08:36 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Near Dylan said: You should talk to someone, man.

WHO!?

WHO WHO( owl jokes)
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psi
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Near Dylan]
#26482805 - 02/12/20 09:17 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow said: Yeah that is my kryptonite because my entire focus in life was on this. Now I have to reprioritize my entire lif.e
Maybe the reprioritized life will be a lot more harmonious. Keeping the long distance thing going seems like a heavy burden. Trying to save yourself for someone you can't be around too often, while being tempted by the prospect potential partners closer to home. Now you don't have to feel obliged to forego a potential partner who actually lives where you live.
My only experience with the LTR thing (sort of) was really a non-relationship to begin with, got to know each other at work (tree planting) and fooled around a bit after a party. When the job was done and everyone went their separate ways, I was hoping to keep something going, and in retrospect she had of course been thinking about things more casually. We kept in regular contact and met up two more times, once after about a month (ended up fooling around a bit again) and another time after a couple more months. At that point it became clear that it was the end of the road for whatever this was.
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TaliesenW
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: psi]
#26482843 - 02/12/20 09:51 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: TaliesenW]
#26482865 - 02/12/20 10:06 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Im so drunk...
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Edited by spirit_shadow (02/12/20 10:06 PM)
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ichugwindex
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] 1
#26482897 - 02/12/20 10:27 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm fucking faded. Doing my best to live thru spirit_shadow
-------------------- Only hope can give rise to the emotion we call despair. But it is nearly impossible for a man to try to live without hope, so I guess that leaves Man no choice but to walk around with despair as his companion.
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Fiery
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: ichugwindex]
#26482914 - 02/12/20 10:54 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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you all about the yin yang ?
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ichugwindex
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: Fiery]
#26482922 - 02/12/20 11:08 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Fiery said: you all about the yin yang ?
Somewhat. I mostly L I've though certain folks
-------------------- Only hope can give rise to the emotion we call despair. But it is nearly impossible for a man to try to live without hope, so I guess that leaves Man no choice but to walk around with despair as his companion.
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spirit_shadow
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: ichugwindex]
#26483396 - 02/13/20 09:57 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Sorry guys I drank the rest of the alcohol I got the other day. Passed out in my clothes. Oddly I feel fine. Physically anyway.
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tyrannicalrex
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26483438 - 02/13/20 10:30 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well, watch it!  
I haven't passed out in my clothes in years, lol. Glad you're OK.
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spirit_shadow
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#26483489 - 02/13/20 11:03 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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For real.... This is only 3rd time in my entire life that I did that. It really shows how gone I was because I HATE sleeping in clothes.
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26483494 - 02/13/20 11:05 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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If you have never woke up with pork rind crumbs all over your chest, do not talk to me about depression being trashy.
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spirit_shadow
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: feldman114] 1
#26483522 - 02/13/20 11:23 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Lol thanks man. Humor always makes me feel better. Im just trying not to think about it today. As trex said ive been through a lot this past year. So I was already half numb anyway so I suppose it hurts less than it would if I didnt go through other shit...
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26483532 - 02/13/20 11:26 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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Can relationships change and end without us "feeling fucked"?
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feldman114
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#26483539 - 02/13/20 11:30 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: Can relationships change and end without us "feeling fucked"?
Yeah, I keep hearing these stories of ppl staying friends and of mutual breakups...but have never witnessed someone go through that. It’s always an emotional shitshow ime
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spirit_shadow
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#26483548 - 02/13/20 11:35 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: Can relationships change and end without us "feeling fucked"?
I dont think so. Ive never been friends with an ex(they actually did wrong) so this will be completely new to me cos she did nothing wrong. Its just a lot of impasses we just pushed aside for later....well now it is later...
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow] 1
#26483580 - 02/13/20 11:50 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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If love is conditional (I only love you if we are together) - than that's not love - it's called dependency
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The Mycologist
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: spirit_shadow]
#26483589 - 02/13/20 11:53 AM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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I am excited for your new opportunity to meet someone new spirit
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spirit_shadow
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Re: My girlfriend of 6 years and I just broke up [Re: RJ Tubs 202] 2
#26483628 - 02/13/20 12:13 PM (3 years, 11 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: If love is conditional (I only love you if we are together) - than that's not love - it's called dependency
Thats what I said cos she is an amazing person and I will always love her be it together or not....
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The Mycologist said: I am excited for your new opportunity to meet someone new spirit
Thanks man
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Edited by spirit_shadow (02/13/20 12:13 PM)
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