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Anonymous #1
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Psyches
#26440112 - 01/18/20 11:51 AM (4 years, 29 days ago) |
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Edited by Anonymous (11/10/21 03:48 PM)
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Dealing with a partner that's hostile to Psyches [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26440179 - 01/18/20 12:41 PM (4 years, 29 days ago) |
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She feels guilty and that can have a very bad effect on people with sharp consciences. So what I suggest is telling her that you're going to get rid of them and doing it without her knowledge in the future, under the guise of growing edibles or brewing kombucha. That way she can claim to have no knowledge should you be caught and everyone's happy. Congratulations on having a girlfriend with a sharp conscience.
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Anonymous #1
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Edited by Anonymous (11/10/21 03:49 PM)
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Dealing with a partner that's hostile to Psyches [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26448955 - 01/23/20 08:34 PM (4 years, 24 days ago) |
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Sounds like you should take her on a very nice date and before you go tell her there is something very important you need to tell her to strengthen your relationship. Preferably somewhere private where no one can possibly hear or make her paranoid. Like a picnic or something.
She has every reason to be afraid and speak her mind. And in the end she’s right. It sucks but it’s the truth and if you plan on keeping her around you will have to do as she says. Especially when she’s only asking you to abide by the law. Try explaining your fully prepared to take the fall of it ever comes to that. That she can deny any affiliation.
I would start by explaining that you are wanting to grow your relationship further and feel that your beliefs in substance may cause for a problem later. Tell her you are willing to throw it all out if that’s what she wants but first she must hear you out. Do your research on mycology and grab every bit of beneficial info you can. For instance, cubes are illegal but there are numerous other medicinal mushrooms you can grow to warm up the idea that mushrooms in general are good for us. Hell, drinking coffee is more damaging and addicting than weed. Lions Maine is a mushroom that makes you smarter. It’s information like this that will open her eyes to the idea that society will always frown upon the things that are truly beneficial for us and easily accessible. They higher powers don’t want us to have such substances that make us better.
You need to understand that we are all programmed to feel these paranoid feelings. That schools have created closed minded individuals. We are told what to think and not how to think.
Communication is key in relationships. Girls love to talk things through and ultimately strengthen the relationship. Just be prepared to comfort her needs when dealing with psychs, while the same time providing info why those needs are absurd. It’s going to be a long slow process, you must feed her subconscious with this “healthy” information and in time all the negative info will be overwritten. Our subconscious can’t see past something that it understands to be valid.
Good luck and hopefully she can see how great these medicines are for us. Weed and mushrooms are amazing for our health. I’m surviving cancer btw. These medicines cure cancer.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Dealing with a partner that's hostile to Psyches [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26448987 - 01/23/20 08:52 PM (4 years, 24 days ago) |
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My partner is like how you explained . Nothing you can do about it . Some people are just locked into seeing the world a certain way . Don't let it ruin your time .
Try not to let it drive you crazy. For a long time doing anything was bad. Any pot , any aya , everything .
One day I got her to try San Pedro as a tea. That changed a little of her outlook. But not completely . It takes time . She still doesn't do anything I do . And I don't really trip around her . I normally go on weekend trips and trip and she will be pissed when i return .
Except that over time she noticed that I was calmer and more sensitive towards her and aware and insightful when I returned and treated her better than normal and was more tolerant of her flipping out over it . So I guess she noticed that the psyches were making me more aware of 'us'
So she's slowly stopped giving me shit and more or less excepted that I do them and has for the most part nearly stopped being a shit about them . She still doesn't do them with me but that's ok
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Dealing with a partner that's hostile to Psyches [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26449048 - 01/23/20 09:40 PM (4 years, 24 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: How do you deal with a partner that is convinced that having anything remotely illegal in the house is a wild-ass flag-waving danger?
I keep my activities hidden away, and unless we were thoroughly searched for some reason nobody would ever know walking through the house that the stuff is here-- no weed at all, no massive shroom tubs, we don't have counterculture appearances (quite the opposite!).
Just some dried Aya plants, small WBS jars, and some spore syringes. All tucked away. I plan on only growing a handful of shrooms.
She acts like the fucking components are radioactive and will somehow scream out to be discovered. I'm not willing to negotiate with her from such a paranoid, senseless position-- there's literally no reason for her being so sure it's dangerous to own. She's acting like they're beacons of danger, and it's fucking stupid.
The thing is, it's only sometimes she acts this way-- she's been ok with it for years, but then some twig snaps in her head and she gets angry with me for owning the stuff at all as though I'm putting her at risk.
Only her and I know these things exist. There is no danger.
I hate it when she flips out as though I'm an asshole for doing what she was OK with last week.
This is a very bad sign for the relationship in general. If it's not her outrage with this issue, it's going to flow into many other aspects of life. You can choose to ignore that fact and rationalize that it's just this one issue, but that's not likely going to be the case in the future.
If she rages over this insignificant issue, what will she do when life really throws a curve ball at one of you?
I don't know man, but this is a big big warning sign for you right here and now. It's time to reevaluate the relationship and potentially move on and decide what type of person you need in a committed relationship.
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