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Funky Fingaz
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Sugar babies
#26447731 - 01/23/20 07:12 AM (4 years, 25 days ago) |
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I was on Snapchat and saw this really stupid snapchat news story claiming “sugar babies are on the rise due to student debt”.
The title in and of itself isn’t what makes me cringe. At this point in my life almost every girl I’m friends with or meet is a sugar baby so not surprising by any means. It is the contents of the news story that made me cringe.
It shows a bunch of snap stories from different female snap chatters saying how they either want a sugar baby or love having one. And I’m just looking at these girls and am astounded how any man would pay them money and buy them expensive gifts for either company or sex. I think the concept of paying for sex is something I have mixed feelings on. I mean people do it and it’s been a thing for thousands of years and nothing really wrong with it on either end but i also find it kind of laughable but that’s beside the point.
The point is there is really SIMPS out here paying fugly ass and MIDS girls for company and sex. If you are gonna pay a girl tons of money for sex or company at the very least they should be like insanely hot and like 10/10 looks wise or at least significantly hotter than some of the girls on this snap story. How the fuck you gonna pay Shrek over here for company and pussy if you got the money when you could be paying a girl that looks like Emilia Clarke instead. But regardless paying women for company or sex in this type of long term arrangement is really just stupid and sad period. If you must pay for pussy get a whore and pay, pump, and dump and be on your way. This longer term financial/sexual relationship seems so pointless to me and seems like an excuse for simps to glorify and waste even more of their money on pussy.
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I've found myself quite intrigued by the increasing incidences of this 'sugar baby' phenomenon too.
However I think it is a very different aspect that's captured my attention. Fact of the matter is, there's an AWFUL lot of very rich old men out there, willing to pay ridiculous money/allowances to have access to someone who would otherwise be out of their league.
To me, it's just another harsh reminder of the stage our empire is at; we're so fat and comfortable and stupid and the money is in such the wrong place that this happens with the frequency it does.
What a state of clusterfuck this world is in. Trump, Brexit, Sugar Babies.
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Jokeshopbeard said: To me, it's just another harsh reminder of the stage our empire is at; we're so fat and comfortable and stupid and the money is in such the wrong place that this happens with the frequency it does.
AKA Times New Roman
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I saw a documentary on sugar babies about 2-3 years ago on TV. It was definitely an eye-opener. Really strange arrangement.
It really highlights the old saying Desperate times call for desperate measures.
It essential comes down to simple economics: Surplus of old rich guys who have a demand for young women + a surplus young women who are broke but wanr to live a lavish lifestyle with little effort = sugar babies and sugar daddies.
My friend recently told me about Chinese and Japanese Sugar Baby culture. If u think American sugar baby culture is weird, research the Chinese and Japanese Sugar Baby culture. It gets pretty far out.....
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How does that not make the “babies” feel like shit though? Nothing wrong with prostitution, but pretending to be in a relationship, faking emotions, etc. seems really low.
Or are they honest from the get go? Like “you’re disgusting and boring and I could never be attracted to you in any way. But if you give me money I’ll pretend to enjoy your company.”? I doubt it..
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Mate if you had a bunch of leery old men offering to give you £2,000 a week and buy you clothes and take you to dinner and pay your rent and such and in exchange all you had to do was act sweet and do the occasional sexual favour then I'm sure you'd be tempted too. Especially considering you could have a few on the go at any given time.
That's more money than you or I are ever gonna make.
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That’s also more atrocious than anything I’d be willing to do for money🤷🏻♂️
I guess it’s not them doing it that surprises me, but the level of social acceptance sugar babies enjoy. They used to be called gold diggers lol.
Seems like the single shittiest way to “empower” women. The more “woke” society gets, the more acceptable it is for women to use their bodies as a source of income. Shouldn’t it be the opposite?
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Perhaps they are just acting the whole time? Or perhaps to them "the end justifies the means"? Or perhaps they like being spoiled so much that even spending time with an old dude is "worth it" to them? Or maybe they have low self-worth in general and try to 1-up themselves by receiving money from old guys?
Its a tough question to answer. Im sure the women who are sugar babies have a ton of justifications for the odd lifestyle. But i would guess the major motivation is large amounts of free money.
I mean like at the Playboy Bunnies and Hugh Hefner. Same kind of deal with the added "fame" on top of it.
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You realize this has been the norm pretty much forever, right?
How many disgusting old men do you see with trophy wives? Do you think its due to their stellar personalities?
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Idk, being a Playboy Bunny is huge on a model’s resume. They’re furthering their career. Meanwhile, I bet babies don’t tell their daddys how many other old men they’re fucking. And why not, if there’s nothing wrong with being a sugar baby?
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Re: Sugar babies [Re: badchad]
#26447880 - 01/23/20 09:42 AM (4 years, 24 days ago) |
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badchad said: You realize this has been the norm pretty much forever, right?
How many disgusting old men do you see with trophy wives? Do you think its due to their stellar personalities?
But wives have 1 husband each.
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badchad
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feldman114 said:
But wives have 1 husband each.
If women are sleeping with a guy for his money, whether or not he's married is irrelevant, in my opinion.
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feldman114 said: Idk, being a Playboy Bunny is huge on a model’s resume. They’re furthering their career. Meanwhile, I bet babies don’t tell their daddys how many other old men they’re fucking. And why not, if there’s nothing wrong with being a sugar baby?
Fair enough, its a career i guess.
Thats under the assumption that a sugar baby has multiple sugar daddies at one time. I dont know how many old dudes a sugar baby has at once but i doubt its a bunch. Probably like one or two, cause sugar daddy #1 might get jealous from the lack of free time of the sugar baby, thus would end the "relationship"
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Female Chimps do this in exchange for meat.
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Interesting.
Chimps are really interesting animals. They have their own culture and even use tools!
The sugar baby/daddy relationship goes back to the old relationships of the man provides for the woman. Food, shelter, money, etc. Except in this day and age, the man and woman are vastly different in age and physical appearance but its a similar old concept thats been around for hundreds of thousands of years.
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Ummm, let's review. Fat old hairy rich guys, hmmm, let me think, HELL YES! And they don't have to pay me! LOL! Why is it that "old guys" are disgusting? Maybe some of these young women like fat old hairy guys, it's not as uncommon as some of you might think. Women and men like bigger/fat/chubby/old/hairy men. (not morbidly obese though, that's my line)
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A valid point trex! Some of these women might have kinky stuff for these old/fat dudes. U never know!
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Re: Sugar babies [Re: badchad]
#26447940 - 01/23/20 10:20 AM (4 years, 24 days ago) |
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This isn't anything new and has been going on forever in one way or another. Part of what women look for in a guy is security. It used to be that you had to be young and strong to farm and raise livestock and to protect your woman and also to make babies. Now, that has changed. The security women seek now is financial security. That is why the hottest woman in the room might choose the old rich guy or the fat and bald rich guy instead of the hot guy that is lazy and poor.
It's more often, than not, that women find someone closer to their own age who can provide shelter and financial security. Sometimes they choose the old rich guy and you just notice that more because it looks odd. Some of these women also have daddy issues and don't realize that they're looking for a replacement of their father.
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tyrannicalrex said: Maybe some of these young women like fat old hairy guys, it's not as uncommon as some of you might think.
Mmmmmm.. I think it would be rare as fuck that you get a young woman in her prime SMV (sexual market value) who would have a preference for a 'fat old hairy guy' over a good looking young man, were large sums of cash not involved.
There's exceptions to every rule of course, but I reckon that scenario is bloody uncommon.
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Lophosaurus said: This isn't anything new and has been going on forever in one way or another. Part of what women look for in a guy is security. It used to be that you had to be young and strong to farm and raise livestock and to protect your woman and also to make babies. Now, that has changed. The security women seek now is financial security. That is why the hottest woman in the room might choose the old rich guy or the fat and bald rich guy instead of the hot guy that is lazy and poor.
It's more often, than not, that women find someone closer to their own age who can provide shelter and financial security. Sometimes they choose the old rich guy and you just notice that more because it looks odd. Some of these women also have daddy issues and don't realize that they're looking for a replacement of their father.
Right, but that’s why it doesn’t make sense that sugar babies are more socially acceptable. We have been moving away from accepted gender roles for decades. People be “woke” now. So why is it ok for a young, able-bodied woman to look to men for security? Why is it more acceptable than 20 years ago?
It’s a paradox if ya ask me
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