|
Funky Fingaz
Mystic/urRu

Registered: 12/23/19
Posts: 136
Last seen: 3 months, 29 days
|
Re: Is my friend overreacting??? [Re: Niffla] 3
#26442976 - 01/20/20 11:00 AM (4 years, 27 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Niffla said: How is John doing
The world needs to know
John is doing alright. I decided i don’t want to fuck w chris anymore and am sticking with John cuz at the end of the day real friends stick with you through thick and thin and definitely don’t make a big drama or cut you off over something as trivial as this. I realize if it’d had been me in johns place chris would have treated me the same way and that’s not a friend i want to have around. I feel like the only thing that would justify something like that is if said person came over your house and got drunk and started insulting you and you family and friends and tried to pick a fight. but this is far from that.
Chris is the type of guy who rather look good in front of his crowd and cut someone off over something stupid like this than stick by his friends. Fuck chris
Edited by Funky Fingaz (01/20/20 11:01 AM)
|
Tripsurfer
Bring Back Asante!



Registered: 08/01/12
Posts: 7,129
Loc: West of Windward
Last seen: 4 months, 14 days
|
Re: Is my friend overreacting??? [Re: Funky Fingaz] 1
#26443021 - 01/20/20 11:37 AM (4 years, 27 days ago) |
|
|
-------------------- Ach en wee ben ik de klos, met mijn boog schoot ik een albatros... A philosopher is a person who knows less and less about more and more, until he knows nothing about everything.

|
mendocino_beano
Registered: 11/05/17
Posts: 1,074
|
Re: Is my friend overreacting??? [Re: Tripsurfer] 1
#26443093 - 01/20/20 12:29 PM (4 years, 27 days ago) |
|
|
I bet Chris was being persuaded by the harpy chick
|
pirate-blues



Registered: 10/15/12
Posts: 13,695
|
Re: Is my friend overreacting??? [Re: Funky Fingaz] 1
#26443339 - 01/20/20 03:12 PM (4 years, 27 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Funky Fingaz said:
Quote:
Niffla said: How is John doing
The world needs to know
John is doing alright. I decided i don’t want to fuck w chris anymore and am sticking with John cuz at the end of the day real friends stick with you through thick and thin and definitely don’t make a big drama or cut you off over something as trivial as this. I realize if it’d had been me in johns place chris would have treated me the same way and that’s not a friend i want to have around. I feel like the only thing that would justify something like that is if said person came over your house and got drunk and started insulting you and you family and friends and tried to pick a fight. but this is far from that.
Chris is the type of guy who rather look good in front of his crowd and cut someone off over something stupid like this than stick by his friends. Fuck chris
Yeah op! I would do the same thing, tbh. No one likes a sloppy drunk, but accidentally drinking too much on a special occasion and acting a fool is nothing to throw away years of friendship over. If this was a reoccurring destructive pattern, maybe Chris would have a point. I've cut people off who started doing shady junkie things and stuff like that, but over something like this? It's hard enough to find long term friends as an adult, why throw it all away over something like that?
I've been in semi similar situations and took the side of the ostracized friend, and now she's my best friend, and I'm still good friends with the rest of the people in the group(though not as close for a variety of reasons).
|
tyrannicalrex
Strange R



Registered: 04/24/03
Posts: 38,331
Loc: subtropics
|
|
Michnast! Long time no see!
|
Malcolm_Xtasy
Oh baby what Is you doin??


Registered: 04/04/12
Posts: 13,851
Loc:
|
Re: Is my friend overreacting??? [Re: Funky Fingaz] 3
#26444492 - 01/21/20 09:14 AM (4 years, 26 days ago) |
|
|
Hey OP your friends sound like gossipping little bitches. They need to learn how to party harder like John
-------------------- I'm stupid, Enlil is smart. I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful. I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner. Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.
|
Niffla



Registered: 06/09/08
Posts: 46,726
Loc: Texas
|
|
Through this tumultuous time of adversity John will rise up above and persevere
#TheShroomerySupportsYouJohn
--------------------
HAIL OUR NEW OTD KING
|
1234go
Ban Lotto Champion


Registered: 07/08/09
Posts: 54,367
|
|
Y'all need to band together, and stand up to ALPHA-Chris or he'll keep running the show, and micromanaging your lives.
|
Tripsurfer
Bring Back Asante!



Registered: 08/01/12
Posts: 7,129
Loc: West of Windward
Last seen: 4 months, 14 days
|
Re: Is my friend overreacting??? [Re: 1234go]
#26444704 - 01/21/20 11:38 AM (4 years, 26 days ago) |
|
|
I think all these post should be handed to Chris in hardcopy
Rub the opinions of internet strangers in his face!!
-------------------- Ach en wee ben ik de klos, met mijn boog schoot ik een albatros... A philosopher is a person who knows less and less about more and more, until he knows nothing about everything.

|
spirit_shadow
Feature not a bug



Registered: 08/15/11
Posts: 25,987
Last seen: 13 minutes, 45 seconds
|
Re: Is my friend overreacting??? [Re: 1234go] 1
#26444717 - 01/21/20 11:45 AM (4 years, 26 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
1234go said: Y'all need to band together, and stand up to ALPHA-Chris or he'll keep running the show, and micromanaging your lives.
Yeah bite his ear
-------------------- Those content with the least have the most.....(this account is automated, all posts related to illegal activities or advice thereof are strictly from numerous online sites and are for informational purposes only)- Circa 2011 Ban lotto
|
deadwk
00101011


Registered: 06/17/09
Posts: 8,890
Loc: Canada, eh?
|
|
Given what you've told us it definitely sounds like chris is overreacting, however there could be history between John and Chris that you are unaware about that could be causing him to be this upset. I think you are correct though, we've all made fools of ourselves drunk or high, and booting someone out of a friend group because they got fucked up one night is pretty unfair. Even making him not hang out because of that is unfair IMO. I would maybe talk with Chris and ask why he's acting liek this, if there was somethign else that might've happened. But good on you for siding with John.
|
Northerner
splelling chceker


Registered: 07/29/12
Posts: 14,242
Loc: FNQ
Last seen: 1 hour, 4 minutes
|
Re: Is my friend overreacting??? [Re: deadwk] 1
#26444961 - 01/21/20 06:54 PM (4 years, 26 days ago) |
|
|
#FuckChris
#JohnForPresident
--------------------
The nearest we ever come to knowing truth is when we are witness to paradox.
|
|