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Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up
    #26440972 - 01/18/20 11:33 PM (4 years, 10 days ago)

My girlfriend and I are having a couple nights away by a quiet beach. We have 3 grams of mushrooms and 4 caps we wanna do. HOWEVER she's actually moving away to the UK a few days after...for 3 years. So yeah we're breaking up and I've known this for the past two months and have been pretty upset behind the scenes but still have heaps of fun when I'm with her. But in the last few days I've been feeling particularly emotional about it and will probably get more as it gets closer to her departure.

So my question is - would it be a good idea to trip??

Part of me thinks it's a good idea to let out my emotions. I've only tripped once before and had a blast but obviously I'm in a different mental state now.

I feel like doing caps is safer, but on the other hand It could make my comedown alot worse seeing as I'm already not feeling too happy.

Any advice?? Is this all a bad idea??

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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Coolguy86]
    #26441003 - 01/19/20 12:10 AM (4 years, 10 days ago)

It could be your last chance to spend some quality time with her for 3 years. It doesn’t sound like the break up is  the usual “I f’ing hate you”! Rather it sounds like it’s mutual agreement etc. So I for one would go for it.

Good luck,
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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: DJ Ed]
    #26441014 - 01/19/20 12:24 AM (4 years, 10 days ago)

Your feelings will come out, you shouldn't be holding them in anyway :smile:

It would probably be more beneficial after her departure may as well spill your feelings sober


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Eclipse3130]
    #26442305 - 01/19/20 08:39 PM (4 years, 10 days ago)

I think it could be a wonderful experience of sharing time together in a very special way--- so long as she is OK with it too, why not?
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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Coolguy86] * 2
    #26442330 - 01/19/20 08:50 PM (4 years, 10 days ago)

That is a bad time to trip IMO because it lacks the "set" part of "set and setting."

Your mindset is not going to be good. It could still go well, LSD and psychedelics in general are very random, but it's asking for trouble. It will probably lead to negative things, but you never know.

Either way, it violates the rule of having a good mindset going into a trip, so I don't recommend it, and I wouldn't do it myself.


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: nooneman]
    #26442364 - 01/19/20 09:13 PM (4 years, 10 days ago)


Caution is always advised-- but it must be said that there are some times when rocky waters take us to the most magnificent vistas together...

:peace:


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Coolguy86]
    #26442552 - 01/20/20 01:18 AM (4 years, 9 days ago)

I'm with Nooneman on this one; I think the risks outweigh the reward here. Set and setting aren't ideal IMHO.


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Loaded Shaman] * 2
    #26442569 - 01/20/20 02:14 AM (4 years, 9 days ago)

Amplified feelings of being left behind could easily turn negative.  Anger, grief, resentment, despair due to attachment could easily take hold.  I'm also going to urge caution while acknowledging it could go either way... But IMHO whatever is said and done should be looked back upon as having taken place with a sober and valid mindset, not one influenced by a psychedelic.


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Nature Boy]
    #26442582 - 01/20/20 02:57 AM (4 years, 9 days ago)



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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Nature Boy]
    #26442607 - 01/20/20 04:09 AM (4 years, 9 days ago)

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Nature Boy said:
Amplified feelings of being left behind could easily turn negative.  Anger, grief, resentment, despair due to attachment could easily take hold.  I'm also going to urge caution while acknowledging it could go either way... But IMHO whatever is said and done should be looked back upon as having taken place with a sober and valid mindset, not one influenced by a psychedelic.



Well said. My thoughts and feelings concur.


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Northerner]
    #26443533 - 01/20/20 05:17 PM (4 years, 9 days ago)

If you're heartbroken over the split I say dont do it. If youre both in happy spirit I say go for it.


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: shevanel]
    #26443549 - 01/20/20 05:23 PM (4 years, 9 days ago)

I'm of the unpopular opinion that you should trip when something big is bothering you, because tripping helps you come to term with it even if the trip is unpleasant. Worked for me, anyways.


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Korean Jesus]
    #26443608 - 01/20/20 06:03 PM (4 years, 9 days ago)

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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Northerner]
    #26443790 - 01/20/20 07:57 PM (4 years, 9 days ago)

Doesn't look like the OP is all that interested in the opinions he solicited. Hasn't been back to read the advice - at least so far.    :shrug:


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Nature Boy]
    #26443817 - 01/20/20 08:13 PM (4 years, 9 days ago)

Sometimes we ask questions of others as a way to ask them of ourselves...

Methinks he has what he needs--


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: coAsTal]
    #26443962 - 01/20/20 09:30 PM (4 years, 9 days ago)

Go for it. Make the last few days together a memorable one! <3

It could get very emotional but maybe it would help you guys get all your thoughts and feelings out as well.


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: nooneman]
    #26444029 - 01/20/20 10:21 PM (4 years, 9 days ago)

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That is a bad time to trip IMO because it lacks the "set" part of "set and setting."

Your mindset is not going to be good. It could still go well, LSD and psychedelics in general are very random, but it's asking for trouble. It will probably lead to negative things, but you never know.

Either way, it violates the rule of having a good mindset going into a trip, so I don't recommend it, and I wouldn't do it myself.




Yeah I think I agree.


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: Northerner]
    #26445198 - 01/21/20 08:32 PM (4 years, 8 days ago)

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Nature Boy said:
Amplified feelings of being left behind could easily turn negative.  Anger, grief, resentment, despair due to attachment could easily take hold.  I'm also going to urge caution while acknowledging it could go either way... But IMHO whatever is said and done should be looked back upon as having taken place with a sober and valid mindset, not one influenced by a psychedelic.



Well said. My thoughts and feelings concur.



same here.


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Re: Tripping with Girlfriend when we're about to break up [Re: tyrannicalrex]
    #26445259 - 01/21/20 09:03 PM (4 years, 8 days ago)

Yeah dude i mean you could let your emotions out yet at the same time your minde can drift in to a dark place . I personally would wait to tirpp when your truly ready.


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