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How do you feel about slut shaming? 1
#26436347 - 01/16/20 08:33 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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How do you feel about slut shaming?
Is eager promiscuity a vice or a virtue in your eyes?
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Asante]
#26436353 - 01/16/20 08:38 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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Oh it's totally a vice, objectively. Vices by definition get you into messy situations and fuck up your life. Every promiscuous person has half a dozen super demented stories about their escapades. Otherwise it wouldn't be a vice it would be a hobby.
But we all have vices so shaming someone for it is probably hypocritical no matter who you are. Especially because half of the people who do it secretly envy them for being so free in their sexuality and their lack of hang-ups. I know deep down I would be a slut if I were a pretty girl and I would hate myself for doing it. So lucky I ended up as an ugly dude 
IMO there's a stark difference between judging and shaming. Judging is part of existence. You judge if that guy on the corner is dangerous, you judge if you can trust someone with your heart, your money, your property. To not judge is to be a fool. Shaming, however, is trying to make them feel bad about what they are doing.
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Asante] 3
#26436355 - 01/16/20 08:39 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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I used to hate on slutty girls when I was a teenager, but then I grew up. If I'd been born a woman I probably would've been a BIG slut....until I grew up.
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Asante] 3
#26436366 - 01/16/20 08:45 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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I don't agree with shaming anyone for it, because I don't believe it is a vice.
What two mutually consenting adults do together behind closed doors is nobodies business but their own.
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Jokeshopbeard] 10
#26436372 - 01/16/20 08:47 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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Slut shaming is horrible. It makes women think that they shouldn't have sex with me more than they normally wouldn't.
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: 1234go]
#26436479 - 01/16/20 09:55 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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Whores are awesome
The expensive hot ones
Somone i know told me not to develop any feeling for them
This was my reaction 
Been close to meeting somone you dont have to pay
But I'm too friendly by nature so it never works out
At least the sluts and whores will always be there and they always reply , like this
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When I was younger, we all poked fun at the slutty girls behind their back, but we still hooked up with them also. At the time it was very hypocritical on my part. The older I have gotten I don’t slut shame anymore. It’s the double standard of the last millennium.
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Asante] 2
#26436520 - 01/16/20 10:14 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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I think it all boils down to jealousy, prejudice, and insecurities. Anybody who is attractive enough to be a slut entertains it at some level. Anybody who slut shames probably has issues in one of the areas mentioned before. Sluts will even shame other sluts because of these things.
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Asante]
#26436551 - 01/16/20 10:34 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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Asante said: How do you feel about slut shaming?
It's pretty awful largely because it's not tied to an objective measure if it were "reserved" for the promiscous it would be marginally less bad but it can be used to degrade and belittle individuals who have not really done anything wrong someone gets dumped and sees their girl immediately start dating someone they didn't like? She's a slut who jumps from dick to dick, not a girl who has found personality traits she preferred in a different partner
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Asante said: Is eager promiscuity a vice or a virtue in your eyes?
Indifferent the human animal is programmed for promiscuity -- men are capable and eager to orgasm multiple times per day implying they "naturally" are programmed to try and impregnate multiple partners and the human female goes through a process of constantly shedding infertile eggs, only to be stopped by impregnation
it is not a vice to be given to animal instinct -- but it is likewise only subjectively interpreted through a positive lens in a handful of belief systems
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Tantrika]
#26436588 - 01/16/20 10:58 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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I've personally never seen it
Only girls are slut shamers
If it exists, its probably deserved
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: cannabinated]
#26436590 - 01/16/20 10:59 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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I think its all rooted in insecurity anyway and just exposes people who dont feel comfortable with themselves
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: cannabinated]
#26436601 - 01/16/20 11:06 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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cannabinated said: I've personally never seen it
Only girls are slut shamers
If it exists, its probably deserved
It is arguably more frequent among girls
remember my last girlfriend in high school -- dated through part of grade 11 and all of grade 12 she was constantly berated as a slut by other girls, including her cousin who had wanted to date me
that is sort of where my referal to it not being tied to anything objective comes in; she was belittled as a slut for being in a monogamous relationship for several months to a year+
of course, after we broke up she did go on to sleep with almost all of my friends, presumably as an effort to hurt me but possibly just out of meeting and desiring them over time and not getting to act on it due to our relationship
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Asante]
#26436692 - 01/16/20 11:54 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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I love sluts. Basically the only action I got in my teens
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Tantrika]
#26436697 - 01/16/20 11:55 AM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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It's no secret that it's usually easier for a woman to get a guy than it is the other way around. That's just nature. If you're going to shame someone for using an inherant trait/ability to their advantage then IMO you're insecure and should rethink your priorities. Men and women both usually want sex pretty regularly and I think slut shaming all boils down to jealousy and insecurity.
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Newbie]
#26436710 - 01/16/20 12:05 PM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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Whether being highly sexual is a vice or not I'm not really sure but shaming someone for it is petty in any case.
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Asante] 1
#26436758 - 01/16/20 12:34 PM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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They still deserve to be treated like a human and some respect. Most sluts I've fucked like to be called a whore/slut and degraded to some degree. I also like it and I automatically think a little less of them, especially the ones who are not safe about it. After all, there is nothing wrong with liking sex.
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: cannabinated]
#26436774 - 01/16/20 12:43 PM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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cannabinated said: Only girls are slut shamers

And females respect and honor male studs (sluts).
There's obvious double standards due to biology.
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Tempalonomous]
#26436780 - 01/16/20 12:46 PM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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Tempalonomous said: ...Most sluts I've fucked like to be called a whore/slut and degraded to some degree...



antithesis of slut "shame" tho
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: qman]
#26436784 - 01/16/20 12:48 PM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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qman said:
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cannabinated said: Only girls are slut shamers

And females respect and honor male studs (sluts).
There's obvious double standards due to biology.
existence and proliferation of incel culture challenges this idea more and more tho
bunch of guys who are highly critical of female promiscuity because they consider themselves to be searching for someone faithful
not sure if the "Chad" label would be considered derogatory or not tho, so there may still be double standard
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Re: How do you feel about slut shaming? [Re: Tantrika]
#26436795 - 01/16/20 12:55 PM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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Oh my god yes, nobody uses Chad as a compliment and nobody refers to themselves as a Chad... well I guess except dudes named Chad
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