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Jokeshopbeard
Humble Student

Registered: 11/30/11
Posts: 26,088
Loc: Deep in the system
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Don't do any of that please man. That just makes you come off like a stalker.
Be realistic. If she wanted ANYTHING from you again would she be doing this?
Women switch off differently to the way we do. It is what it is.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Anonymous #1
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I just hate being abandoned like this. Its happened to me too many times with other ladies. The other times were my partially my fault but this time it wasnt.
Not knowing why is the worst part.
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Anonymous #2
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You know why. She doesn’t want to keep hanging out with you. No big deal.
If you’re so desperate, use a dating app. One of my best friends - a dirty, jobless hippie with a heart of gold and the face of a tired horse - found a gf on Zoosk. I just met her yesterday and she’s a normal human! Pleasant in conversation and pretty attractive too.
Fuck this ghosting jerk lady
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Anonymous #1
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She was one of the kindest ladies Ive ever met in my life. Patient and understanding. Really special woman. She even called me Sweetie only like a month after seeing each other. Texted almost every day. Its so hard to let her go. A rare person who I trusted as a friend and as a lover.
And then shes gone with no goodbye. Its so tough.
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Jokeshopbeard
Humble Student

Registered: 11/30/11
Posts: 26,088
Loc: Deep in the system
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Anonymous #1 said: Its so tough.

Believe me brother, it could be far, far, far, far, far, far worse.
Chalk it up to experiece and keep your head held high.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Anonymous #3
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I always feel like it’s a little cowardly for girls to just ghost a guy she was dating. Like basically she didn’t have enough courage to tell you it’s over because she is afraid of confrontation and conflict and she thinks it’s just easier to ghost you instead of explain why.
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Buckomcdoogle
Atypical obsessive.


Registered: 11/27/19
Posts: 932
Last seen: 7 months, 21 days
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"SHOULD I CALL HER?"
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
only clingy women like clingy men, and that just a recipe for a co dependent relationship.
If she doesn't respect you enough to be honest with you, don't waste your time.
"Sadly, there is no second chance"
There's actually a lot of second chances man. Don't beat your self up over it.
Move on
-------------------- "Nothing is more dangerous to your creativity than comfort and familiarity" "Nihilism is the most basic truth in existence, the only consistency throughout the world, and the universe is chaos and decay" "Logic leads to nihilism"
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Buckomcdoogle
Atypical obsessive.


Registered: 11/27/19
Posts: 932
Last seen: 7 months, 21 days
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I love how Joan in Madmen put it
"Men don't take the time to end things. They ignore you until you insist on a declaration of hate."
Same could go for women though.
-------------------- "Nothing is more dangerous to your creativity than comfort and familiarity" "Nihilism is the most basic truth in existence, the only consistency throughout the world, and the universe is chaos and decay" "Logic leads to nihilism"
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nooneman


Registered: 04/24/09
Posts: 14,561
Loc: Utah
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I hear it's becoming like the new way to do things, but I've never actually had anyone do this to me who I was fucking. I've had friends disappear, that's one thing, and it's totally fine, but all the people who I actually fucked were nice enough to say something.
I don't really think this is necessarily a bad thing as a trend in society. I think it could actually benefit everyone in the long run. If a relationship isn't working, I don't think sitting down for a big discussion about it ever accomplishes much. I know some people really want to know "why" or whatever, but it doesn't ever make any difference, and a lot of times there is no why, and the answer is never satisfying, etc. etc. I just don't see it as having a better outcome discussing it vs. not.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Ghosted out of no where [Re: nooneman] 2
#26436880 - 01/16/20 01:57 PM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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Ghosting is so common now, it's common practice by both men and women. To be thinking "oh I hope she's OK" or "maybe if I keep trying she'll answer because she may have not seen my attempts to contact her yet, even though I've tried 20 times already in 1 week" it's a little naive.
I am a man and I have ghosted people for no necessary explanation. Any time the ghosted tried frantically to get in contact with me, it fucking infuriated me and made me respect the person much less.
For me, general rule of thumb is, never send more than 1 message per response. If they don't answer then simply accept the most likey reason and move on
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Anonymous #1
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Ive descided that this weekend Im going to try physically track her down. I demand answers. Being ghosted for no apparent reason after months of intereactions is not acceptable to me. I need closure and Im sick of being ghosted with no explaination. Ive had enough of it.
I also found an ad on missed connections craigslist that sounds like it could be her, Im going to respond to it.
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FruitOfLife
Professional Package Handler


Registered: 05/21/12
Posts: 4,832
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Anonymous #1 said: Ive descided that this weekend Im going to try physically track her down. I demand answers. Being ghosted for no apparent reason after months of intereactions is not acceptable to me. I need closure and Im sick of being ghosted with no explaination. Ive had enough of it.
I also found an ad on missed connections craigslist that sounds like it could be her, Im going to respond to it.
This is pretty creepy man, no offense but you sound very stalker like right now.
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bodhisatta 
Smurf real estate agent


Registered: 04/30/13
Posts: 61,889
Loc: Milky way
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Anonymous #1 said: Ive descided that this weekend Im going to try physically track her down. I demand answers. Being ghosted for no apparent reason after months of intereactions is not acceptable to me. I need closure and Im sick of being ghosted with no explaination. Ive had enough of it.
I also found an ad on missed connections craigslist that sounds like it could be her, Im going to respond to it.
Maybe this is why you were ghosted. This doesn't just sound like what a loser does, this IS what a loser does
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Ghosted out of no where [Re: bodhisatta]
#26437547 - 01/16/20 09:34 PM (4 years, 13 days ago) |
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Well thats not helpful at all!
I dont care if its creepy. I deserve some closure after all the time we spent together. I want some answers.
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Jokeshopbeard
Humble Student

Registered: 11/30/11
Posts: 26,088
Loc: Deep in the system
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Please, please, please don't do this.
I could give you a thousand reasons why, but the crux of it is that you don't deserve anything.
Seriously, you're coming off like a petty, entitled child right now.
NOT a good look.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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bodhisatta 
Smurf real estate agent


Registered: 04/30/13
Posts: 61,889
Loc: Milky way
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Anonymous #1 said: Well thats not helpful at all!
I dont care if its creepy. I deserve some closure after all the time we spent together. I want some answers.
You don't deserve anything. You want answers. Sometimes you don't get them. Grow up.
Even if you find this girl and meet her in person you're never going to get your answer. You're going to get insulted.
If you keep up behavior like this ghosting will be the least of your worries. You won't even find yourself in opportunities to be ghosted.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Ghosted out of no where [Re: bodhisatta]
#26438017 - 01/17/20 08:15 AM (4 years, 12 days ago) |
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I have to at least try. If i dont try then I will regret it later. And I hate feeling regret.
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Anonymous #2
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Anonymous #1 said: I have to at least try. If i dont try then I will regret it later. And I hate feeling regret.
Oh you’ll feel regret alright, but only if you go through with this creep move.
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Anonymous #5
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At this point it's either trolling or its straight up skitzo delusional creepy stalker psycho. Youre a real fucker if youre serious about your most recent posts
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SporeJunkie
Pöåšt Šhïttēr



Registered: 11/30/18
Posts: 2,106
Loc: TheOnlyTenISee
Last seen: 2 months, 12 days
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I know it probably doesnt matter at all, however, I’d like to +1 the rest of these fine gentlemen. What you are being told is fact. If you go through with this you will be insulted and hurt way more in the end. Id just let this one go man.
-------------------- Royale with cheese
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