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evenbreak
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Anyone dated an escort before?
#26430560 - 01/13/20 01:04 AM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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I went to see an escort, and things went well. This was my second time seeing her. Things went well, but it was her job to give me a good experience so I didn't think much of it. Until she suggested that we go on a date to get to know each other better, and she doesn't want my money.
That changes things a bit, when she says she doesn't want my money. Because I figured that's all an escort cares about, right?
She belongs to an agency that has her seeing many men a day, so she needs to request time off and I'll be seeing her next week unless she changes her mind and flakes.
Not really sure what to make of this because I'm no brad pitt. I'm the same age and ethnicity as her though, maybe her clientele is all old white guys and she's tired of it?
Regardless, even if this goes well initially, I'm not sure how I feel about dating a woman who fucks 6+ guys a day.
Any enlightened people here been through this situation before and come out ahead?
-------------------- It has been reported that some victims of torture, during the act, would retreat into a fantasy world from which they could not wake up. In this catatonic state, the victim lived in a world just like their normal one, except they weren’t being tortured. The only way that they realized they needed to wake up was a note they found in their fantasy world. It would tell them about their condition, and tell them to wake up. Even then, it would often take months until they were ready to discard their fantasy world and please wake up.
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Re: Anyone dated an escort before? [Re: evenbreak]
#26430693 - 01/13/20 05:03 AM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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Shes probably not sure how she feels about dating a guy that pays for female attention. You're both a little broken. Maybe good match
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living_failure
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Re: Anyone dated an escort before? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#26431429 - 01/13/20 02:02 PM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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I did.
She was insecure as hell, men always wanted her for sex and nothing more than that. Not just her, but all the escorts that were friendly with me were pretty much lonely people with a history of being sexually abused.
She was more insecure about me wanted to be with her that i was about her wanted to be with me. Even if i was insecure as hell. Not saying it will be your case.
She also made sex and stuff easily even when she really didn't want it, she just give it to me everytime i looked like i wanted some. Which was pretty regretful.
She was a singular case so probably it won't apply to your date but anything you want to know i am her or pm me.
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evenbreak
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Thanks for sharing living_failure. About her being insecure, didn't she get clients who also treat her very well, bring gifts, even offer marriage proposals, etc? Or did she get bad clients who treat her badly?
I'm trying to understand how they can be lonely. I would assume it's the opposite, they have such abundance, or at least the illusion of abundance, that they have a hard time bonding with any one man unless he is a top shelf man.
-------------------- It has been reported that some victims of torture, during the act, would retreat into a fantasy world from which they could not wake up. In this catatonic state, the victim lived in a world just like their normal one, except they weren’t being tortured. The only way that they realized they needed to wake up was a note they found in their fantasy world. It would tell them about their condition, and tell them to wake up. Even then, it would often take months until they were ready to discard their fantasy world and please wake up.
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living_failure
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Re: Anyone dated an escort before? [Re: evenbreak]
#26432348 - 01/13/20 10:57 PM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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I've never met an escort who were asked to be married while working. And i've met a lot.
My ex had some clients who wanted to "date her" and she clearly understood it as they wanted to bang her for free. There were however a few ones who wanted a true girlfriend or even wife experience, but none of them proposed her, probably because if they stopped paying they would lose the control.
She always told me that everyone of the clients she has in the end choose her for sex, even the ones that "didn't want it" it was just at the beggining.
Then problem with an escort loneliness is not about having a small talk with a client, it is that when they need help they have nobody to ask for help.
Most of them have a few friends, so it was mostly their perception i believe, i doubt they would get no help, just the perception about it.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Anyone dated an escort before? [Re: evenbreak]
#26432431 - 01/14/20 12:25 AM (4 years, 1 month ago) |
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Maybe she's just looking for love and you seem like a right match?
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