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bloodsheen
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Kink shaming
#26430304 - 01/12/20 09:00 PM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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This is a confusing concept for me. On one hand, I want people to do whatever they want to do and I'm fine with anything between consenting adults. On the other hand, there are a few things I'm totally not ok with.
For instance, rape fantasy. As I see it, if it's the man's fantasy he's just acting out a despicable deed and anyone who consents to be involved is basically fucking a rapist. If it's the woman's fantasy she's almost certainly acting out past trauma and I would be hard pressed to believe that with proper treatment she couldn't be cured of her fantasy. It's almost enforcing it and making healing more difficult.
I'm actually not against BDSM at all, I don't believe that it's inherently wrong and as someone who tied a girl up once I can't say I hated it either. Taking or losing control is fun. But there are some lines that you just shouldn't cross.
I'm not telling people to stop, but I'm sure as fuck judging them for it. I'm sure there are plenty of other kinks that make me sick to think about but I've made my point.
I think we are all judgemental deep down, and if enough examples were given everyone would find one kink that makes them say "Fuckin nope."
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eieio
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There's all sorts of *bad shit* that people do. Thinking about it or going into depth with it all will drive you mad.
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Antigov



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Re: Kink shaming [Re: eieio]
#26430347 - 01/12/20 09:17 PM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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People are going to judge what they don’t understand. As long as it doesn’t involve me let your freak flag fly!
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santa mose
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Re: Kink shaming [Re: Antigov] 1
#26430361 - 01/12/20 09:28 PM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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I am unsure on what I think bad rape is... I believe in love of another but there is a line. I suppose if the girl is young and wants it bad I couldn't say no... she better be nice though. I mean, how could I tell a pretty girl that I can't hold her and make her feel good... Idk about the age though, cause this government sucks ass...
I think I could hold a girl around 18 to 25 but if it involved a cause which was too much to handle I would need to address the other situation of me not giving two fucks. I mean, too many girls are all up in your shit without a purpose and I need a few that want to be a part of something.
Anyways, I will probably manifest myself into a dream world dimension with a few girls and fuck their ass tight or maybe add a little cum to their day. I think they want it more and more, but that is just part of my life...
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Psilosopherr
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lotta girls will call you daddy too but that doesn't make them genuinely incestuous. A lot of people like to tie eachother up and strike/torture eachother but that doesn't mean they want to kidnap strangers and torture them while they're tied up. its just an eccentric erotic activity. Although I suppose there must be some real sickos out there who also like acting out their sicknesses via kinkstuff.
Though I totally see why you would think what you think OP. Especially the age regression types its like wait what? dunno how i feel about that one
Edited by Psilosopherr (01/12/20 09:50 PM)
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eieio
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That pedo shit is like everywhere, dude. be careful. For real. I don't give a fuck what they say they want...if you're like over 4 or 5 years older and they're under the age of consent...personally, even if they're over the age of consent and you're like 20 or 30 years older I think it's gross. But what the fuck, not my body. But when under the age of consent and esp when the guy is like Bill Clinton age, just to toootally pull a name out of a hat. lol, then it's just creepy as fuck. I dunno dude. I'm old. The hormones don't run my life, thank God, the way they used to. I think more and more that being connected emotionally is really way more rare and way more important than some meat puppet shit with a young (for me would be 20 or 25) person who doesn't even know wtf they're doing.
@ santa mose, you're funny, dude. "add some cum to her day" lol.
Oh yeah, my point with the 5 to 6 year anchor thing was that, I think, there's some leeway given if the girl (usu) is say 16-17 and her BF is 19 or 20, you know what I mean? Shit, maybe not! lol, don';t take my word for it.
But legit there's fuckin creepy ass people who just don't give a shit and abuse people...and I think that all starts with seeing your partner as a piece of meat and not as a person. Reading about Pizzagate has got me paranoid abouit celebrities and people now. Even songs of yesteryear I'm like, yyeeaaah, I'll pass on that shit thanks"
What the fuck do I know? Sorry for ramblin.
Back to kink shaming! Yeah, fuck it, as long as everyone's adult, human, willing and conscious, etc...do whatever the fuck ya want. I;m a gentleman like that. The play rape thing seems gross. Scat and filth like that I find disgusting. People say gay and gayness between guys is gross but wtf, imagining most people I work with and live around having sex with their spouses would make me barf, so I just don't imagine it?
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azramb
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Idk I don't really see much of a difference between more generic BDSM and rape fantasy. At the end of the day anything like that is about taking/losing control.
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santa mose
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Re: Kink shaming [Re: azramb]
#26430428 - 01/12/20 10:24 PM (4 years, 17 days ago) |
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Who the fuck cares yo, I just want to make sure everyone is happy. Too many predators that don't know a thing or two about being chill. I think everyone should have a good day with a big smile and a wine in a can...
Lol, maybe the world isn't ready for too much fun
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